Have you ever been forced into a relationship by a man?

Papa life is very dangerous.
Recently, it has not been said that it was a particular damage in [Papa Katsu], but
I've come to see a lot of articles about the cases of men and women who got to know each other through SNS and are separated in age.

From the public's point of view, [papa katsu] is the same as entertainment and entertainment, but the decisive difference isThere is nothing to protect = everything is an individual responsibilitywould be

The introduction has become long, but today I would like to introduce a technique based on my experience to protect one's life.
Originally, I would like it to be picked up in sex education at school, so I would appreciate it if all women could see it regardless of age or whether they are active as dads or not.

don't go to dangerous places

In [Papa Katsu], I think there are many situations where the two of us are probably alone in a closed room.
Whether that place is a restaurant, a hotel, or even the other party's house, I think it's all sorts of things, but in order of danger,
Overwhelmingly, it would be the other party's house >>>> hotel> restaurant.

If it's a restaurant or an ordinary hotel, it's not that soundproof, and if you want to escape, you can escape, so I won't go into it here, but I really want you to be very careful of the other person's house.
Especially if you want to live in safety, it is recommended that you never go to the house of someone you don't know who you met on SNS with high anonymity like Twitter.
It's not limited to the first time, even if you've met multiple times.
I don't know who she is, but I've met her many times, she's kind, and she hasn't done anything strange to me."Well, how are you?"The thought is very dangerous.

People who have really terrible thoughts will always approach you with the face of a kind and good person.
Rather than people who look a little strange or disgusting, I want people who are kind and have no faults to have a sense of danger.

It is a good idea to contact a trusted friend when you go home, even if you know the person's name and place of work because you met them at a dating club.
"I don't think there's anything wrong, but I'm going to visit the house of Mr. △△, the president of ○○ company.
If you haven't heard from me by tomorrow morning, please contact XX."
In 2019, a 28-year-old married woman was poisoned by a 72-year-old man at his home in Shinsen, Shibuya Ward, after he drank several times the lethal dose of stimulant-containing alcohol. What he did was helpful in discovering the truth of the incident.By the way, this incident was not the first time with the other man, but it seems that it was a relationship through something like a dating club, a fourth date through money. (reference:https://bunshun.jp/articles/-/50959)

dangerous situation

If you are alone with a man in a closed room, I would like you not to talk about things that would cause trouble.
For example, it is a breakup story, a money story, a story that denies humanity, and a case where wiretapping or voyeurism is suspected.
Such talk is embarrassing and likely puts you at risk in an argument.
If you are going to talk like the above, I recommend that you do not do it behind closed doors, but in a restaurant or on the street where a third party can see you.
The safest way is non-face-to-face methods such as LINE and email.

There is an overwhelming power difference between men and women.He's powerful enough to take away your freedom from even the most unassuming men.
And because of the relationship of [papa katsu], some men disrespect women as "women bought with money".
In that case, behind closed doors, some men let their emotions take over and act without hesitation to hurt you.
I hate to say it, but
There are quite a few men who are attached to themselves and always wagging their tails when they are with them, but when they suddenly bite them and bark loudly, their affection turns into hatred.

If you're in danger

Even if there is no trouble like the above, the possibility of encountering dangerous things is not XNUMX.
If you are about to be in danger...if you are about to be forced into a physical relationship, if you are about to be violent...
I want you to save my life first.

What you should never do is add fuel to the fire.
"Really disgusting!do not touch! 』
"Damn old man! ! 』
Such a statement is outrageous.She's so cute, and if a woman you thought you liked said that to you with a cold, disdainful look on your face, a man would be pissed off.
So what do we do...
If you are in a situation where you can escape (such as in a hotel), I would like you to wrap yourself in a towel and run away even if you are not wearing clothes.

It might be dangerous if I continue like this... At the time I thought, 'I got a call from my parents!If you are in a situation where you can say, "I'm going to talk to you outside because I'll make you worry," I want you to run away to the police, even if you leave your personal belongings behind.

However, if you are in a situation where you cannot escape (such as at home), try to make the other person feel better.If you are forced to have a physical relationship, I would recommend accepting it in order to survive the situation.
Of course, I know it's painful to force someone you don't like, but it's still better than losing your life.
I will always bear the scars in my heart, but first of all, I want you to leave that place alive.I want you to act as if you were an actress.
[No arrows on a smiling face].

A man doesn't harm a beautiful woman who believes in her and loves her.

AnywaysProtect your life and escape from the spot!That is the most important thing.
That way, you can accuse them later.

The reason why I bothered to post this as an article is because I myself was also a victim of rape in the past, although I was not a dad.
I remember it even after many years, and sometimes my heart is painful.I had an artificial abortion, so I hurt my body and the seed of a new life.

In this way, now that anyone, regardless of age, can do [Papa-katsu] in a rough manner, I didn't want more people to have the same experience as me.I wanted to avoid encountering dangerous situations if possible.That's the reason.

Your life is more important than money.
I want you to live a safe, fun, and effortless [papa life] life.

Thank you for sticking with my aunt's nagging until the end🍠