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Concern: Anxiety about what to say on a date

Hello,Natsuyuki wants to eat fluffy shortcake so badly.


I don't usually eat sweets or snacks,

Sometimes I feel like eating something sweet like this.

Maybe it has something to do with the hormonal balance that is unique to women.?

Taste and appetite are interesting things.


By the way, in relation to eating, meals are a staple of dating,

Can you enjoy a delicious meal with a man?


Especially dating with a man who met for the first time,In the early days, when you weren't used to dating itself,

I'm so nervous I can't even taste it, my throat won't pass,I want to keep it in mind so that there is no such thing.

Get used to the atmosphere of eating a meal with a man who is nice to meet youis very important.


In particular,

Anxiety about what to say.

Become a better listener.

I think it's a good idea to try to talk about the number of occasions.It will be the best way to improve your conversation skills.

For example, I usually make friends socially and go out to eat,

While daring to invite people who don't talk much to dinner,

You can also practice enjoying meals with people you are not so close to.I think it's a good idea.

Age, gender, even the background of the person is different,

As a speaking technique,How to communicate in a way that others feel comfortable with

For example, how to shake the topic, the first step of self-introduction,Everyone has a common way to strike a good backhand.

While talking to various people,Observe how the other person can talk happilyPlease try.


And be a good listener.

Ask questions in a timely manner,Ask the other person to talk a lot.

Especially older menThere are many people who love girls on dates, so

If you ask questions well, this child is interested in me,cute

They will teach you very carefully.

Also, it might be a good idea to repeat the man's words.

Ah, this child is listening to me properly,It also becomes a recognition that

That was the impetus for him to develop his story more and more..


For example:


<When asking questions well>

Man: I don't like vegetables.

Girl: What vegetables do you dislike? *Push a question

Men: Ginseng.

Girl: Eh, me too!I'm with you! *If you agree, you will have more in common.But don't lie.

Man: Really!That texture and taste is amazing...

Girl: I see! * Empathy is important!


<When repeating>

Man: I don't like vegetables.

Girl: You don't like vegetables? *Repeat

M: Yes, especially carrots.

Girl: Eh~ Carrots! *Repeat

Man: Yeah, the texture and taste of carrots is amazing...

Girl: Texture and taste~?Even though it's delicious~ *Repeat


This is a fairly simple example, but the repetition of this conversation

Finding common points between two of them,It will be an opportunity to lead to exciting topics.


Other than that, he laughs happily at the other person's story, and he seems to be lost in thought.show a gesture,

Whisper something in my ear,If you show a feminine figure, the sense of distance will be shortened.

Talk about your hobbies

By the way, in regards to what kind of stories you often talk about,

In the case of I,Is it because he is a relatively calm character?

Quite a few men talked about work,I often talk about thoughts and philosophies.

I like that kind of talk too, so I don't mind if it's a hard topic,I am enjoying it because I am learning.

After that, it will be exciting to talk about hobbies.

Natsuyuki likes traveling abroad, so we talk a lot about foreign countries.

There are quite a lot of men who go abroad on business trips or privately.

Talking about countries we've been to each other,

Talk about the country you are interested in, the local economic and social situation,

I'm looking forward to talking about that.

Full of tsukkomi

Also, Natsuyuki is quite an unbalanced eater, and there are many things she can't eat.

As a countermeasure for dating, in advance,Please tell me what you can't eat

I would like to ask you to avoid that meal.

For example, living things such as sushi and sashimi, mushrooms, shellfish, delicacies,I can't eat something.

Then, on the day of the date,It is often the case that the topic becomes a hot topic.

Japanese people who don't like sushi or sashimi are rare or weird.I mean,

I don't think there are many, so it seems to be full of tsukkomi.


whatever the topicIf you can get your personality and character into it

Intimacy will also increase, and comfort will improve remarkably,

Instead of being too tense and stiff,

To show a little leeway and self-pacedness

I think it's important to keep an open mind from yourself.


By the way, this time, I will talk about what to talk about on a date

I introduced a little bit of summer snow countermeasures and strategies.

I would appreciate it if you could refer to everyone's date for a little bit.

Xia Xue

Hello, I'm Natsuyuki. "Snow that falls in the summer" is somewhat strong, ephemeral, fantastic, and outlaw image... I think women in their XNUMXs like me are such a living thing.I would be happy if you could look forward to reading such a neat post written by Natsuyuki.By the way, my favorite saying is "The secret is to make a woman beautiful."You got a little nervous, didn't you? *

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