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I am a woman in her 40s.
Two years ago, I started with a man in his 2s and a treatment “60”.
At first, to be honest, I felt that it was impossible for an adult relationship to be "2", but when I thought about the totality of the man's personality and looks, I thought that it would be okay to pay less, so I started dating. rice field.
(Inwardly, I wanted more.)
To make up for the shortfall, I had to find other dads (hoping for 2 or 3 people).
However, something happened to find out that someone else was looking for Daddy.
I was prepared to say goodbye, but after this incident, the man voluntarily gave me a "5".
The sex compatibility is also amazing and I am confident that I am captivated by men.
At first, if you can bring the relationship to the point where you can't leave even if the allowance is small, will there be enough cases like this in the future?
I would like to hear from both men and women.
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Thank you very much for your question.
In conclusion, it is possible.
However, I have to understand why the price went up this time.
We have received many questions about "I want you to give me an allowance" in this question box, but I feel that most of the people who ask such questions do not understand negotiation at all.
For example, let's say your allowance was 2 and you tried to increase it to 3.
If you are a questioner, how do you negotiate with the other man?
Many women seem to ask for "Give it to 3".Of course, there are some variations in how I say it, but that's basically what I'm talking about.
Unfortunately, it can only be said that it is a miracle that the allowance is raised in this way.
Because this is a request, not a negotiation.
Negotiation is the threat to do A or do B Unless threatened, it's all a request and not a negotiation.
I want you to put yourself in the position of a man and think about it.
When he asks you to "raise it to 3", what benefit does he get from accepting that request?
do women like it?
It's a benefit for women, not a benefit for men.
Why is the price going up if you can't show the benefits to the other party?
I don't regret the money
By the way, have you ever wondered why men want to lower their allowances?
Of course, there may be reasons why money is scarce.However, there is no doubt that what is bigger than that is "I want to confirm my own value".
The questioner this time said that the number 2 was "too cheap", but the reason why he took this man's offer was probably because he was a reasonable person in total.
That's what it means.
The fact that the allowance is cheap is nothing but that the value of men is high from the perspective of women.And that's because men also understand.
The reason why I want to keep the amount of allowance down is because I want to think that I am worthy enough to be OK with that amount.
Conversely, if you raise the amount, you will feel that you are worthless unless you raise the amount.
That's what men hate.
It's not like 1 is a shame.
Therefore, if you want to increase the amount of your allowance, there may be a way to receive it in a way other than cash instead of raising the contract fee.
For example, if you increase from 10 to 15 per month, it will be an extra 60 per year.It's difficult to raise 5 every month like this, but it would be easier to get 60 gifts on your birthday.
