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How to escape from being a dad for living expenses!

Nice to meet you, I'm Bell♪(*´▽`*)

Before we get into the main topic, let me tell you a little bit about myself.

It's been 3 years and 4 months since I started working as a father.

I've never been married, I've broken off engagements, I don't have a boyfriend, but I do have someone I like. I'm around XNUMX.

To be more precise, I turned 37 this year (°▽°)


I have met many people so far. There are about 300 people in total.

We've covered dating clubs, dad-hunting apps, and drinking money.

I would like to share my experiences and impressions in it and help you even a little.

I will write about what I feel and think about being a dad.


Before I started working as a dad, I worked at night as a hostess in Ginza for about seven years in total.

I worked as a hostess in Ginza from the age of 23 to 28 (there was a time when I wasn't in Japan for about two years as a backpacker or on a working holiday).

And I have been working as a father since I was around 34 years old until I am currently 37 years old (*^ω^*)

The reason why I started working as a father was because I became mentally ill and started having panic attacks on a crowded train in the morning, which made it impossible for me to go to work, so I started working as a father in order to earn a living (´-` ) 


I'm sure there are many reasons for people who are working as dads, and some like me do it for a living, and others want to earn money right away to survive, such as to earn school fees, pay off debt, and pay for a relative's medical treatment. I got the impression that there were many people who said they would be in trouble without it.


I'm currently living overseas, so I meet my dad and friends when I return to Japan.

The frequency is about once every 3 to 6 months, so I'm not currently actively working as a dad, but I've come into contact with a lot of men because of my job, so I'll write about that as well (*' ▽'*)


My dream was to live abroad.

In fact, the reason I was able to live my dream overseas was because a gentleman I met through Dad-Katsu gave me a job that I could complete online.

Thanks to that, I can now work from anywhere in the world (o^^o)

It's thanks to Dad-katsu that I was able to live the life of my dreams! ! ( ˘ω˘ )

Dad's activities are various ♪ lol


Well, today's theme is "How to escape from being a dad for living expenses!"

I think there are many people who have been working as dads to make ends meet due to the coronavirus pandemic and various other circumstances.

Actually, I was one of them.

I became unwell and developed a panic disorder, which made it impossible for me to ride the crowded train during the rush hour to get home from work.

I was unable to come to work because I was a temporary employee and the industry didn't allow me to change my working hours.

Living alone and needing some living expenses, I decided to start working as a father.

I thought it was just for living expenses temporarily, but if I can't find a job, it's difficult to say it's temporary.

Before I knew it, more than a year had passed and I was steadily continuing to work as a father.

If the reason for working as a dad is to earn a living, it will be difficult to break out because there is no goal (O_O)

I can't quit unless I have income other than being a dad.

It's not a stable income, so it doesn't always come as planned.

"Even if I have enough for this month, I don't know if I will have enough for next month."

This thought was always in my head and I was anxious every day.

Unless you change your fundamental source of income
I will have to continue being a dad.

I also increased my side jobs.
Side jobs that anyone can do are cheap and have a high rate of return.

It was quite difficult when I was working and being a dad m(__)m

I thought about moving to a place with lower rent, but the initial moving costs would cost a lot of money.

I even thought about moving to a rural area where the rent would be 2 to 3 yen.

Even so, life will be difficult unless the original income is increased. . (°_°)

In the end, it is important to "increase your income from activities other than being a dad."


I thought, “I have to do something.”

First, save up some money for your father's life little by little.

About two years after I started working as a dad, I enrolled in a video editing school.

If you don't have any skills at the moment

Use the money you earn through dad-hunting to acquire skills that will add to your living expenses in order to invest in yourself.

How to use living money

Please make sure that your knowledge and skills are a plus.

You can even start a side job with the newly acquired knowledge.

Try making money.

I think I will continue working as a father until things stabilize.

"Stop when you're on track."

"I'll stop when I can earn 5 yen with the skills I've learned," etc.

If I score a goal, I can do my best (^ω^)

If you don't set a goal, you will continue to be active as a dad, so please keep in mind when to stop while you are active as a dad (^^)

Currently, I am making use of the skills I learned from watching.

I am a youtuber while living abroad, which was my dream (o^^o)

The skills you acquire will help you many times in your life.

Although my income is lower than when I was a father,

Still, my heart is at peace and I am having fun (о´∀`о)


I pray that you too will meet a wonderful father (^_−)−☆

2nd year as a dad, late 30s. In my twenties, I was No. 20 hostess in Ginza. At the age of 1, he left Ginza and had a lot of things to do, such as breaking off his engagement, and since then he has been working as a dad only for rice.

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