Date memoir #67 I've been attending a lot. . . @ Sachiko Sapporo 7th time

　Hello.Paparazzi.A business trip to Hokkaido has also been decided.Really this time?It is the job.A business trip that was decided while I was planning to go to Hokkaido at the end of this month.I came back to Sapporo in high spirits to meet Sachiko twice this month. . . .What happened?

the opponent this time

Your opponent's SPEC

• Name: Yukiko (pseudonym)
• Class: Platinum
• Type: C.
• Age: Early 20s
• Occupation: Student

History of dating

　　I got a job in Sapporo.What good timing.Less than a month after I met Sachiko last time, I was able to get another chance to go to Hokkaido.Even so, I don't think there's any other year that I've been to Hokkaido like this.This is already the 1th time.Perfectly paced once a month.Moreover, I will visit Hokkaido again at the end of this month.This is travel.

　When the business trip to Hokkaido is decided, naturally I will contact Sachiko.Rather, the biggest factor that determines her business trip schedule may be her schedule.When she sounded out, it seemed that she would have just enough time.I really like this place too.smile

　I'm planning to go to Hokkaido twice this month, and my favorite was at the end of the month, so I guess I should say I'm surprisingly lucky.Still, her heart beats because it's a pleasure to see her.After doing her work during her day, all that's left is to wait for her to meet me.

what was the date

　Enter the store on time.And no contact in time.That ❓ that's funny.I get the impression that she usually comes a little late, but she always gets some kind of contact before she comes.And she's not the kind of person who's fine with being late and canceling at the last minute.And I want to believe so.

　About 30 minutes after the appointed time, LINE came in.

　"I'm sorry! I just woke up! 😭"

　First of all, I'm relieved that it wasn't an accident.It seems that this is what happened when I took a nap after finishing the assignment after staying up all night.That's right. . . .smile

　Moreover, he said he had a sore throat and couldn't speak, so I decided to cancel today.I'm not feeling well, so even if I get ready at this time, it will only be painful, and the chances of having a good time are slim.And she knows that such a performance is bad, so she needs to pay her an allowance.That calculation also instantly popped into her head and was calculated.

　And this time, it's rare that I came to this place because I had a proper job, so I didn't just come to see her.For some reason, she didn't show any anger when she suddenly canceled, and she was able to forgive me.She felt that what she was saying was not true, she simply said, "Take care of yourself."This is one of the good things about my personality, and it's easy to be deceived.Of course, I intend to have a measure that if I am asked to invest for XX yen by saying, at that point, I will be excluded from the target of ``believe me''.

　Countermeasures against no-cancels, this is really difficult.I don't have a clear answer at the moment, but what I absolutely shouldn't do as a response is "preaching".If the other person wants to cut off the relationship with you, there is no need to preach to the person who has lost such a relationship, which takes a lot of energy.On the other hand, if the other person does not want to cut off the relationship with you, preaching is the worst thing you can do because it will affect you in the future.Cancellations at the last minute can throw off plans, make restaurant reservations go to waste, charge cancellation fees, and you won't get the results you were hoping for today. , It is better to send a message of consideration for the other party "mechanically" without thinking about it at all here.It's for myself as well.However, it is really difficult to cancel at the last minute.This may also be a difference between men and women, but it is said that women, on the contrary, tend to keep promises between women.But in the end, I guess it depends on the person.It's true that I feel like I'm being taken lightly, but if my current level is that level of a person, in the end, the only way to deal with the current situation is to reflect on it and use it as food for growth.

　So tonight I'm alone.First, you have to escape from this tavern.It's pretty embarrassing to be alone when the other party doesn't show up even though you made a reservation for two people.I finished my meal and disappeared into the town of Susukino.

So, this time, I will not count it as the number of times, and the next date will also be listed as the 7th.

Reflection of this time

• Even if I check the day before, I will eat when I get a last minute cancellation
• I was saved just because I didn't take the course.

This store

• Hokkaido Seafood Private Room Izakaya Uotto Fishman
• BXNUMXF Sunward South XNUMX West XNUMX Bldg.
• URL:https://uotto.owst.jp

　It is characterized by clay pipe seats in semi-private rooms, but it is a really ordinary izakaya.The food is usually delicious because it is a private room izakaya, but anyway, it can't be wiped out.The ingredients are all Hokkaido-like, so it looks like that, but I felt that it would not be good for Hokkaido girls.On the contrary, it was an act that made me think that this last-minute cancellation was good.