It is "Psychology" that governs dad life

It has been a while. It is a flag maker called "Flame".

Well, this column is about XNUMX% professional wrestling and XNUMX% dating club.However, even those who are not interested in professional wrestling should read it.Because professional wrestling has a high affinity with various things in the world.It's the same with work, human relationships, and allowance dating at the club.

Incidentally The allowance dating is the same as professional wrestling, it's a fake full of lies.It's not a column with such thin contentSo don't worry.

 

I have been a professional wrestling fan for over XNUMX years.The genre of professional wrestling is recommended rather than a specific player.I actually aspired to be a professional wrestler and had the experience of going to a professional wrestling dojo to train.I am proud to say that even among wrestling fans, I have a deep understanding of wrestling.

However, I recently made a big mistake even though I should have understood pro wrestling.I've been thinking about it for a long time, reflecting on it, and thinking about the cause, but a certain fact that I hadn't noticed came to the surface.

 

It's been about XNUMX years since I registered with UNIVA.Before I knew it, the insaneness of dating clubs had become common sense..

For example, on the first date with a woman of relationship type C, you agree on an allowance on the first day and go to a hotel.It's common sense in dating clubs, but it's definitely insane in a general and decent sense.But for me, it had already become a “normal” feeling.

 

in additionThat I myself was rubbing against the dating clubis also one of the causes.

As I wrote in a previous column"There is no heart-to-heart relationship in this world at the level I want"I had concluded.When I first joined, I was supposed to be looking for a heart-to-heart relationship, but I gave up on it before I knew it.

Before you know itI myself have become a person who can't communicate with my opponent by passing my allowance.

Because of these reasons, it is a chance that the "heart-to-heart relationship with money" that I was originally looking for may have been realized.I shook that chance.

 

Therefore, in this column, with a sense of reflection, “What is the allowance dating of the dating club? I would like to write while comparing it to professional wrestling.

 

Flame debacle

Flame's latest debacle.I'm sorry I can't write details about it.But here I would like to compare it to professional wrestling.

 

The time is New Japan Pro Wrestling in the late Showa era.Antonio Inoki was the president of New Japan Pro-Wrestling at the time.

I am a professional wrestler who plays an active role as a heel (bad guy) in the United States.His ring name is "Flag Maker".Suppose you are a former U.S. wrestling champion and a self-sufficient amateur wrestler.

I received an offer from New Japan Pro-Wrestling, and with a pretty good wage, I was able to fight Antonio Inoki, the president and professional wrestler, in Japan.It's not a long-term contract, but a one-time offer, but my name recognition in Japan will increase at once in this match, and it's a good offer in terms of guarantee.

On the day of the match, officials will give an overview of today's match.At first, it started with quiet wrestling, and after each other's techniques were finished, it became a scuffle outside the ring, and it was settled in a draw out of the ring in a brawl outside the ring.

Antonio Inoki is a professional wrestler, but he is also the company president and the person who pays me.It is absolutely NG to injure.

I said, "Okay. I'll do what the boss (Antonio Inoki) says.

Officials: “Thank you for your support!”

I will enter first.Of course I'm fired up, but what's in my head is how to liven up the game.Is it possible to sign a long-term contract with good conditions that the president likes?In other words, whether or not you can do a good job.I'm going to ring in while thinking about that.

Next, the president (Antonio Inoki) enters.As expected of Cho, it's a good expression with the usual spirit.The president is in the ring.

and meet the president.

(Okay. I'll do a good job, so please leave it to Boss.)

However, the president has a more brutal expression than usual.Or rather, there is a murderous lust for me.stare at me"Hey! Konoyaro!"I'm going to incite you.It is a force that seems to attack immediately.

(As expected of an actor, Boss.)

(No... Huh? Boss?)

I feel something wrong with the president's eyes.I have serious eyes.I'm overwhelmed with murderous intent.

(Huh? Wasn't it quiet at first? Or rather, Boss, aren't you really angry with me? Did I do something wrong??)

Inoki: "Hey! Konoyaro! It's a serious match, Konoyaro!"

Something is different.I'm really ferocious.What's going on?I hurriedly looked at the referee, but the referee who met my eyes silently nodded his head.

Inoki: Shoot (a serious game), Konoyaro!

(Are you serious!?)

I'm half in doubt, but here in the ring where the audience is already full.From now on, approach the president of your opponent"Are you serious about a serious match?"I can't ask.

(Is it a serious match!?)

I made up my mind and took a deep breath to catch my breath.I don't know what happened, butThis match suddenly became real (seriously)It seems.

Does the boss want a serious fight with me?Well, if that's what you want, let's do it seriously.I don't know what happened to Boss.

 

Khan!

The gong to start the game sounds.

...

The match was my suplex (throwing technique) and the president fainted.The referee stopped my victory.However, as expected of the president, he is strong even in real life.Even I, a former U.S. wrestling champion, struggled a lot.A serious match on the wrestling ring.The reason is unknown, but the president asked for it, so the ending of this time can't be helped.

The moment I stepped out of the ring and entered the waiting room.A lot of people involved are approaching me with a terrible sword curtain.

 

Officials: “You! What are you doing to the president!

Me: "Weiwait!... Watt? Boss... Mr. Inoki is 'real'..."

Officials: “Nobody said that! We had a meeting beforehand, but if the president got injured, what would you do next week?

Officials: "Of course there's no guarantee Kora! You'll never call me again! Hurry up and go back to your home country! Kora! Don't step over the New Japan Pro-Wrestling ring again! Kora!"

Me: “Hey hey hey! Way! Wait!

 

this time,A sign of seriousness felt from the boss and inciting words of "severe game".It's actually the boss' improvisational productionThat's how it was.I misunderstood it as realI made a big incident.

Since then, I, Flag Maker, have gained a bad reputation within the industry, and no offers have been received in the professional wrestling industry.Until now, I've only been wrestling and pro-wrestling, and after that I've been living in a camper and saving money while working part-time at a butcher shop.

 

I'm sorry for the professional wrestling analogy, but I made such a big blunder at the dating club.Great remorse for the big blunder.

If someone who doesn't know professional wrestling reads it, it will be meaningless, so I'll explain, but what I want to say from this analogy is"Pro-wrestling is not real, it's a phony" "I was lied to by a woman at a dating club"It's not like that at all.

 

"I'm nervous and I don't know who will win.Pro wrestling at its best.Even though I had the chance to have such a great match, I threw that chance away.”

 

That's it.

In other words, I flame"I misunderstood the response from a woman within the scope of an allowance dating as 'serious', and set up a 'serious match' instead of professional wrestling."reason.

I'm really sorry that I did something out of place. .If I had a time machine that would allow me to go back in time, I would want to stop myself from that time.

 

There was such an incident, and I am writing this column.

 

What is Ring Psychology?

Now let's get straight to the point.

People who don't watch professional wrestling may have different impressions of it.I can't see it because it hurts.I don't know if it's serious or not, and I don't know how to look at it.etc.

 

Pro-wrestling is a martial art that is so profound that it cannot be explained in a single word.Although there are unspoken rules and manners in the ring,If the audience openly told me that the battle itself was a lie, I would be disappointedis.The feeling around here is probably the most important for active players around Minoru Suzuki.

But think about it.Isn't it similar to allowance dating?Isn't this also a martial arts mixed with false and false?While there are unspoken rules, manners (benefits), and a sense of distance when dating,It would be disappointing if all of the expressions of mutual affection and dating were false.It will be.

 

Around“Psychology”I would like to unravel it from the point of view.

 

everyone is"Ring Psychology"Do you know the word

In professional wrestling, "Ring Psychology" governs all aspects of the match, from the details leading up to the match to the flow of the match, and even the outcome of the match.Everything builds a match based on psychology.

Of course, I don't think people who don't like professional wrestling know this word.However, even if you like professional wrestling, I think only a few core fans know this word.

Ring psychology is an industry term mainly used in American professional wrestling (Amepro).American professional wrestling is far more focused on entertainment than Japanese professional wrestling, and the sense of the audience is more like a show than a sport.It's closer to popular entertainment.In that case, "easy to see" and "easy to understand" that anyone of various ages and genders can see is a major premise, and consistency is emphasized in matches.

In other words, this may sound strange, but American pros who are more interested in shows than Japanese pro wrestling say, "If this happens, you should do that, so you should do it this way."Real game development and serious development leading up to the game (story)take care of

Wrestling is a battle.There is no reason for two good guys (babyfaces) to fight each other in the ring.On the other hand, bad guys (heels) do bad things, so good guys (baby) stand up and fight.It's an understandable reason to fight.If baby and baby are going to play, we need another conflicting storyline.For Avengers Civil War reasons.In other words, in order to fight, some kind of reason or connection is necessary.The work of thinking about such a rational development is also "Ring Psychology".

 

In addition, "Ring Psychology" is also emphasized in the development of the match and the structure of the match.

For example, if there is a player who is good at chops and middle kicks,The order to unleash those two techniques should be ① Chop ② Middle KickIt is said thatThis is because middle kicks do more damage than chops, so in boxing, giving a middle kick first is similar to hitting a straight before a jab.

 

つ ま りAt the dating club, go to the hotel with an allowance agreement on the first date.

In other words, if you compare it with professional wrestling, as soon as the match starts, both players look at each other with a smile, and one of the wrestlers sets a Kinniku Buster and ends the match immediately.It means that you are playing such a fucking game (laughs)

 

Also, unlike other martial arts, professional wrestling has frequent matches, so it is important not to injure your opponent.Limit your attacks to the extent that they do not injure you.Especially in American professional golfers, hard hits (strong blows) tend to be avoided.

But that's why we seek consistency and realism in Ring Psychology.

For example, a player whose arm is (allegedly) damaged by an opponent's attack can play the lariat that used that arm at the end of the match as if nothing had happened.It doesn't make sense.

In other words, if you do a lariat with that arm① Power is weakenedOr② Hit the lariat with the intention of the last shot while distorting your face in pain..We need that kind of performance.

 

In other words, As soon as the hot and rich sex with the companion woman is over, the woman goes to the shower with a sassy expression.

In other words, in professional wrestling, a wrestler whose arm should have been broken hits a full-bodied lariat at the end of the match as if nothing had happened.what happened to your broken arm?It's going to be.All logic and coherence collapses here.

 

In this way, professional wrestling involves staging, and the work of pursuing consistency and reality and carefully constructing it is done in various aspects.

without fear of being misunderstood“Entertainment and show, in extreme terms fake (directing).That's why we pursue realism.”That's it.

But think about it.For example, a stage play is a performance that depends on the script and direction.In extreme terms, it can be said to be a fake, but the audience is empathetic with the actors' real acting and story development.Actually, I do the same work in professional wrestling.

 

Pursuing reality because it is a fake (director) and a pseudo-romance

It can be said that this kind of "psychology" is valued precisely because America has a well-developed entertainment base, but in reality, professional wrestling in the Showa era, which used to be serious (serious competition)-like professional wrestling, also naturally practiced ring psychology. It's profound that I was doing it.In particular, Antonio Inoki was very good at directing that area.To the extent that the fans are seriously misunderstood.

 

For example, at the XNUMX Tokyo Dome tournament, Antonio Inoki was in the waiting room before the match.“Are there any idiots who think about losing before they even go out!”The incident that slapped the interviewer is too famous.This line is one of Antonio Inoki's quotes.

Generally speaking, this saying"Always fight with the intention of winning! 』I think it's going to be an understanding, but in fact, it's not that kind of thing.

 

If you've read this far in this column, you should already know.Antonio Inoki isI dared to say and act like this in order to add tension and excitement to the upcoming match.That's it.Antonio Inoki's sensibility is in this kind of remark that gives it a sense of realism.

I think Antonio Inoki was chairman at that time.He's the best person in the company.In addition, it is the first return match in a year.Victory and defeat must have been decided in advance.However, Inoki, who is about to decline, wins normally against the players of the active generation who are one generation below.From a fan's point of view, it's a bit of a disappointment.

In the end, Antonio Inoki won the match.

 

From here, I will finally bring it to a dating club-like story.

"Pursuing the real because it's fake (directing)"I explained that, but the allowance dating of the dating club is the same"Pursue the real because it is a fake (director) and a pseudo-romance"Isn't that important?

Precisely because it is a fake, we should attach importance to consistency and rational development.A professional wrestling match is a joint effort created by two people fighting.In other words, in dating clubs, not only women, but both men and women should take care of this kind of "psychology".

 

To all male members, please put your hands on your hearts and remember.The heartbeat of that explosive love that you felt in your junior high school and high school days.The tension when calling the home landline of the girl you like.

That's what "real" is.

 

Did you have the option of inviting the person you really want to date to a hotel on their first date?Holding hands or not, that would have been the best choice.

That's what "real" is.

 

On the other hand, a man and a woman who met at a dating club agreed on a allowance on the first date and went to a hotel on that day without any context.Or every time we meet, we go to the hotel and have sex.

 

What reality is there in this?

 

I'm looking for pseudo-love.I hear that there are many male members like that, but I would like to say this to you.

Is what you're doing really a pseudo-romance?Is there "psychology" there?

 

Dare I say it!It's trash! !smile

What you're doing is professional wrestling without a fragment of reality or crap!

*By the way, Flamme had such a match until recently.No, I still do.I mean, I say this to myself.I'm not saying this to seniors, so please forgive me.I say this to motivate myself.

 

Because it is a relationship that pays an allowance, we value the order and stages of love one by one.I think we need a "psychology" to bring reality to the pseudo-romance fake.

For example, the polite order for men and women to go out with each other is like this.

① One person likes the other

② Be brave and ask the other person out on a date

③ Take words and actions that somehow convey goodwill

④ The other person starts to worry about themselves

⑤ Confess to the other person that you want to date

⑥ Mutual feelings and dating start

⑦ Enter into a physical relationship

 

Dating club allowance Dating starts from ⑦, skipping ① to ⑥ with “allowance”.but,For some reason I want to trace ① to ⑥ after ⑦ (laughs)

However, I have come to feel that there is a detrimental effect in that order.

 

i ever"Normal Pro Wrestling"Or"Gachi (Serious Match)"But he didn't come.

The dating club is also in its third year and is in its third week."The best professional wrestling (≒ heartfelt allowance relationship)" enough to win the best match of the year (Best Bout Award)I would like to aim for

From here, I think "Papa activity, psychologyI will resume my activities based on.whether it works or not.At the moment, I strongly feel that there is no demand from female readers, but that has nothing to do with it.

Flame is a body that can't fight without a theme, so from now on, I will fight to build a "papa katsu / psychology".

In other words, from now on, the flame will start after you truly love the other person!I will apply for an adult relationship with allowance! !

It all starts when you truly love someone.

This is dangerous just by writing it (laughs).But that doesn't matter.Try it first.

 

In a future column, what happened there"Real"I hope you can deliver.

For that reason, I deleted the word "flag maker" that I had written in the self-introduction column of my profile.Searching for "flag maker" doesn't show me anymore.I went underground again.

I made a lot of mistakes, but it's time to raise my head and look forward.Well, from here.Let's all go without burdock from the tail again.Okay room.

 

Finally, what do you want to say?Professional wrestling seen from a deep perspective is the most interesting!That's what I mean!

 

Asta Luego Addias!