Do you remember the scandal that broke out between the official cheerleaders of the Hanshin Tigers and the company's management that was reported this spring?

Dad-hunting scandal between Hanshin cheerleaders and company managers

It all started with an article published by a certain news site.According to the article, in the spring of this year, a female Hanshin cheerleader and a male company manager in his 30s met at a shared bar in Osaka Prefecture.

The woman reveals that she is a member of Hanshin's cheerleading squad, and the two exchange contact information.The next day, when he went on a date, the woman asked him for a gift.

At first it was around 2 to 3 yen, but the man continued to ask for gifts.When the man refused, the woman promised to be his girlfriend, so the man did as he was told and bought her a present.

The total amount of gifts sent was 25 yen.However, she says that about two weeks later, the woman broke up with him, saying, ``I can't date her anymore.''When he lost contact with her, the man reported it to the club.

However, the woman later tearfully retorted in another weekly magazine, saying, ``I have never begged for anything from a man.''According to the woman, she was persistently asked, ``What do you want?'' so she had no choice but to buy the item.

In addition, the woman once said that she would become his girlfriend, but the man persistently pressed her to live with him, so she broke up with him.

Then, the man sent a threatening message on LINE demanding repayment of the 25 yen he had donated, so the woman became frightened and consulted the police.However, after the above-mentioned article was published, the woman decided to quit the Hanshin team and lost her job.

Trouble can happen to anyone

Trouble between men and women when it comes to fatherhood can happen to anyone.This report is about a difference of opinion between men and women on the father's side.I have tried to pick up some points of caution.

① Can you predict that there will be financial trouble?

I think there are many people who look for dating partners or lovers at shared bars.In this case, the man said that he was planning on dating her rather than trying to become a father, but even though he was a potential lover, would he give her a gift worth 25 yen?On the other hand, what do women want?When asked about this, she answered that she had no choice but to have the item bought for her, but I think it can be expected that she would get in trouble if she bought something for this amount of money.

② Are men getting too close?

Normally, dad-hunting begins with a meet-and-greet or tea, followed by a meal or date and payment of allowances.However, in this report, it seems like the man is giving her a gift after just going on a date.No matter how much you want to date a woman, it can be scary for a woman to have a man she doesn't even know give her a gift worth 25 yen.Whether it's love or being a dad, if you don't take steps to get closer to each other, your partner will run away from you.

③ Was it your own intention to donate?

In the first interview, the man said that he paid tribute to her because she promised to be his girlfriend.However, in the end, it was his intention to buy the present.No matter how you look at it, the reason why they couldn't start a relationship after that was probably due to a lack of skill on the part of the man.I think.Why not blame it all on women?I think.

④Don't involve those around you in troubles between men and women.

The man reported the request to the Hanshin baseball team because the woman refused him and he lost contact with her.The woman ended up leaving the cheerleading group after the report and article were published, but why not involve the people around her in trouble between men and women?Since men don't reveal their workplaces, I thought it was unfair and unmanly.

⑤The seriousness of the woman who revealed her identity

The woman said in an interview that she did not reveal that she was a Hanshin cheerleader from the beginning.At the end of the date the next day, the man told her that he wanted to meet her as much as possible, but when she said, ``I'm busy so I can't really meet him,'' he persistently asked her why, so she reluctantly told him.I don't think they would tell you if their purpose was to get people to pay tribute.I think this is a woman's sincerity.People who are working as dads should avoid revealing their identity to avoid trouble.

in conclusion

I think this issue is more of a gender issue than a father-life issue.However, cases like this can develop when money is involved between a man and a woman.Both male dads and girls should play comfortably with each other to avoid problems like this.