Is it necessary to make an effort to be popular with men?

From now on, including men who are about to become dads and men who have already become dads, women's uke is an eternal and indispensable theme.

Any man, no matter how old he is, honestly wants to aim for a good direction for women.

To be honest, it is a matter of course, but surprisingly there is no answer anywhere. (exists and does not)

I think there is a reason why there are no answers.

age group issues

In the first place, it is difficult to give a one-word answer because trends and individual preferences change depending on the age group. (That's what we call a generation gap.)

environmental issues

I believe that the environment in which men and women meet together is very important.

For example, is a bar a place where men and women meet?Is it at work?Or are they completely different environments?It really varies.

What I can say is that it is necessary to narrow down one by one

First of all, if I narrow it down by age group, I am honestly at the age where I have already retired.

From There, I'm thinking about narrowing it down and talking about it this time.

If you are my age and want to be popular with young women, the first thing you need is "economic power" and "comfort" to communicate with people.

I think everyone can understand the money part.

It's always better to have one than not to have one, and it's also a big appealing point to women.

There is always a situation in the world where a woman can only be saved by the power of money. (If you've become a dad, I think you'll understand.)

So, I will leave this part blank for now.

What I think is a very important factor in women's uke is the part of "having leeway"

Of course, I think there are some people who think that if there is money here too.

If you have money, you can afford it. (understand)

If a man distributes money to a woman, he can show that he is a strong man by dispersing ``some weak points'', and by saying that, he believes that ``I can behave with a sense of leeway.'' There must be many men out there.

It's just that in this case, there are quite a lot of cases where the inner feelings are hated by the female side.

The reason is that it is a mistake.

Many women who are active as dads are very emotional. (Taking a woman I met as an example)

So, don't forget that there are many people with common sense.

I'm just a woman who doesn't have enough money.

I would like to unravel this part a little more based on the foundation.

In the first place, what I want to say is money, do you want to show your leeway and be popular with young women?That's what it means.

Now that you've become a dad, don't you want to be popular from the bottom of your heart?There needs to be room for a different meaning.

It means that you have the leeway to listen to the woman's side of the story without saying a word.

When we reach our age, we tend to lack self-confidence and become timid towards young women.

Therefore, isn't there a surprisingly large number of people who use money to meet young women with the implied that they have become stronger on the spot?To be honest, I also remember seeing it, so I'm sorry.

However, you can't take away a young woman's true feelings.

The reason is that if we take money in the first place, there is nothing attractive from young women. (I think there are many people who think this way)

Certainly, I believe this to be the case.

But it is.

we're all one man

Certainly, even if you pay money to be introduced at a dating club, you want to be popular from the inside.

There is also a need for us men to make a little effort.

What kind of effort is required?As I said earlier, money is a weapon, and at the very least, if you're going to be a dad, you have to have the meaning of taking care of women.

And, of course, the leeway I explained earlier is also necessary.

Next I think we have some rejuvenation

Recently, I feel that this is also very important.

Of course, even if you say rejuvenation, it is physically impossible to suddenly become 30 years younger.

I recommend rejuvenation as part of your hobbies, such as gym dates and sports dates with women.

With a young woman, I think it would be fun to be tired.

Also, thankfully, gyms are quite popular among young women these days, and in fact I often go on gym dates with women I have a contract with, and there are many women who are willing to accompany me.

Especially in our age, the lack of exercise should be serious.

This is my actual example, but in half a year, my feelings and skin luster are rejuvenated.

In addition, since I exercise in a collaborative manner with women, it is quite easy to communicate and invite them. (It costs almost nothing)

leave appearances to young women as much as possible to move on

For example, let's say you go shopping with a contracted woman.

In that case, it means that you can leave your appearance to the woman from here.

I think there are some men who don't like the clothes that young women choose.

However, to put it another way, it can be an instant feeling that you can wear only at that time. (If you really like it, you can wear it on a regular basis as well. Women go to great lengths to choose it.)

From my point of view, if you want to date someone in your early twenties at our age, it can't be helped if the other woman thinks you're lame.

It means that you need a feeling that has that much room.

To the last, this is a story if a young woman thinks it is wonderful from the bottom of her heart.

That's why I think young women will praise me a lot if I become a dad.

But is it true somewhere?There will always be times when you have doubts. (As time goes by)

The reason is that it is human.

If you allow your heart, it is natural for men to be greedy even though they are adults.

So, if you go to the dating club to introduce a wonderful woman and meet and make a contract, you want to attract the other person's heart.

To that end, I think men need to make a little effort.

I'm sure people of our generation have a lot of time on their hands, so why don't you consider using that time as a time to make an effort to be popular with young women?I think you can enjoy it because you can see things that you can't see unexpectedly.