It's cold in Tokyo where I live.

No, it's too cold.

As you get older, your mood and physical condition become more susceptible to the outside climate and temperature. (I'm sure some of you will agree with me...)

By the way, all the men who are dads have surely been introduced to beautiful women at the dating club.

I am one of them.

However, most people are introduced to women who are considerably younger than men.

As far as I've heard around me, I've never heard of anyone being introduced to someone my age at a dating club. (Naturally, I am currently having fun with a child who is considerably younger than myself.)

There are various reasons why we found out about the dating club, but what do you want to do with a contract with a woman?I think the part that says is quite narrowed down.

As I imagine, "SEX", "Date", "I want to talk to a young girl", "I want to kill time", "I want to escape from loneliness", "I want to show off a young girl around me", "I want to meet a beautiful girl I have never met before." Wouldn't it be something like "I want to meet you"? (I'm sure it applies to both)

However, as long as you meet a woman, there will always come a time when you have to persuade her.

This part is up to the person himself, no matter how much the dating club sets the table.

No one will help me.

Of course, it starts at the contract stage.

I call the contract "the first war."

If you can't beat this, you can't sign a contract with a woman.

From the men's side, it is the first barrier that everyone has to go through.

This time, how do you make a woman feel comfortable at the first barrier and make a contract with a woman with a higher hurdle in the best way?I would like to tell everyone about my own way of doing things that I have cultivated as a father for many years.

I'm sure there must be many beautiful young women who have become fathers and couldn't make a contract because of a mistake. (If you've been a dad for a long time, I'm sure you have experience.)

Furthermore, I am neither handsome nor stylish.

I think I'm somewhat persuasive because I've been able to successfully contract with various women.

The moment you meet a woman for the first time wins

First of all, if you are introduced to a woman at a dating club, I think there are many cases where you meet for the first time in a hotel lounge.

What are you doing then?Perhaps most people meet without thinking about anything.

I was like that too in the beginning.

However, if you meet in a relaxed manner without thinking about anything, the female side will be worried and nervous.

Did you know that there are many such cases?Naturally, what happens when a woman is nervous?Yes, more nervous than usual.

It's even more if it's a woman who is going to be a daddy for the first time.

A situation is born that is quite set up against the male side.

When a woman becomes nervous, naturally she inflates various negative imaginations.

Originally, a profession that has not yet been accepted in the world of daddy activity.

Of course, there are almost no places that are positively conveyed, including the media.

The woman is sitting on the spot looking up the information she said on the internet.

It's only natural to set it up.

If you do that, even if you put out various conditions, you will deal about +10 damage to the base, so the image of being scary will come first, and even if you can make a contract with a woman, it will be a good contract for men. It may not be the content. (In other words, there are too many compromises.)

As a result, the contract is canceled after a few days, and the man endures a lot and takes care of the woman.

As expected, it will be stressful for the paying side, and no matter how generous the man is, it will be tiring. (I have experienced this in the past)

So what should I do to prevent that from happening?

I basically lie lightly at first.

I don't think this lie is a bad lie.

He thinks he's innocent because it's a lie that settles the situation.

When meeting a woman for the first time, it is important to pretend to be a little nervous.

And one word, "I'm sorry that I'm not used to dating club for the first time."

Please try it for the first time.

I think that it is quite effective.

Why would you tell such a lie in the first place?

There's a reason for this.

Rather than being recognized as "a man accustomed to women", it is better for women to start by saying "I am not a woman !!!" You can make an illusion.

 

So-called, it's an action that dares to take the mount.

 

That way, I had a scary image of being a dad, but it also leads to making me think that it's not like that at all.

If women take the initiative, most of them will take any conversation positively. (This is also my experience)

In particular, it is really effective for children who have just started working as dads, and it even creates the illusion of good condition if you can sympathize with them.

Surprisingly, many men who become dads show some leeway and give off an aura like, "I'm used to this, so don't worry."For women, however, there is nothing to worry about.

The reason is because it is the first meeting.

Women don't have as much leeway as we have.

So, it's important for men to think about the other person's position.

In the end, no matter how much the female side was able to proceed with the conversation on the spot, the contract content came to an end.

The male side should decide YES NO of the contract.

What I want to say is that the atmosphere of the place makes the contract with a woman quite advantageous on the inside.

Conversation is mostly female.

However, women who feel good have an atmosphere that makes it easy to drink under these conditions.

Therefore, the contract is easy to proceed in a good direction, and from the male side, the contract can be completed without stress.

After all, isn't it the end result?

Let the opponent swim comfortably, and finally catch a big fish.

If the beginning goes well, the next fun will surely increase.

Of course, women are human too, so does this apply to all women?If you ask me, I can't say anything.

However, in my experience, this error is really zero.

And when I met the same woman for the second time, I was able to meet in a fairly good condition.

Please try it once.

I think that you will accept this as a "good and considerate man".

After the contract, you're used to being a woman, right?Even if you say so, it would be more effective if you said that you wanted to meet in the same atmosphere for your sake.