In Tokyo, the temperature rises and falls suddenly, repeating strange changes.

The other day, it was snowing in the morning, but the next day it was warm enough to turn off the heating.

Elderly people especially need to be careful, and they are easily damaged.

Therefore, the change in temperatureI wish I could be careful and take care of my own.

Well, what I want to talk about today is how do men who become dads respond to women who are dads?In other words, part of the need to change something.

This may be irrelevant to men and women, but as you get older, you start to worry about things you didn't use when you were young, or things you didn't really care about when you were younger, and you think you have to do something about it. Is it not?

For example, skin luster.

I think this is especially common for women, but in recent years, there are many types of men's products, and you can see that there is considerable demand. (I think that is unthinkable for the generation who lived in the Showa period.)

The overwhelming majority of women who work as dads are young.

And men who become dads are older to some extent.

In that case, I want to be seen well by young women no matter what, so I pretend to be young.

In terms of women, makeup puts a lot of effort into it.

Isn't that kind of behavior?

However, is it really necessary for us to change so much for young women?I sometimes have doubts.

After becoming a father myself, I have seen the reaction of young women, and I have been communicating with them for a long time. (There are also young women who have continued for a long time.)

So, in real time, I feel that there is a big difference between what I see in real time and what people of my generation are saying in the street.

For example, in the case of young men, older women appear in front of them with heavy makeup.

Of course, there may be some people who are beautiful because of that.

However, surprisingly many young men actually feel that "light makeup is absolutely beautiful".

A little more, "Thin and fancy glasses are the best."

My point is, it's not that simple.

Therefore, I would like to introduce the part where I actually dated a young woman and thought that this part did not need to be changed.

hair problem

Like us, when we get to a certain age, this problem is inevitable.

There are various hair problems.

That's why there is no end to the problem, such as peeling and gray hair. (There is also the problem of curly hair.)

And it wouldn't be an exaggeration to say that it's always the first part that stands out in our generation.

I'm sure most men will hide it immediately.

No, rather than hiding it, it should be corrected, if it is white, it should be black, and if it is peeled off, it should be treated with hair growth or a wig.

Of course, the action of fixing and hiding leads to the complex of each person.

But is it really the right decision?Maybe men care a little too much?I started thinking that way around the time I became a dad.

At first, I also had a lot of gray hair, so I remember dyeing it black to some extent, and I remember sprinkling hair restorer on my scalp.

However, one day, I forgot to shave my beard and met a woman.

I thought I would probably be told something like "I don't feel clean", "I don't like beards", or "I'm going to be an old man, so shave it right away".

Then, I was able to see a completely opposite pattern of reaction from what I had imagined, "Don't shave your beard next time because it's better that way."

It's from around here.

Maybe men think too much?I thought, and about a month later, he decided to meet the same woman with gray hair. (Of course, I have already had my hair cut.)

Then what is it?

He told me that he was normally cool and dandy and that I liked him.

Taking this opportunity, I decided to quit the hair restorer, leave my gray hair as it is, quit shaving my beard, and leave it neatly.

Certainly, if you think about it, gray hair and baldness are natural phenomena.

If you really want to face it, you have no choice but to go for cosmetic surgery.

By the way, we are not models.

You can't run away from it, you have to face it.

It may be necessary to face each other mentally, but more than that, how do you show yourself as nice as you are now?I thought that is probably more important.

To be honest, you can easily buy fashion if you put out money, and you can change clothes for each season as much as you want.

That's why I think it's necessary for young women because it's an area where you can easily change yourself. (just for courtesy)

However, unlike fashion, natural phenomena cannot be easily changed.

That is why cosmetic surgery may be necessary.

It is also true that there are men who feel the need to do so.

However, if it is because I want to be seen well by young women, I would like to deny it with all my might.

One of the reasons may be that it depends on the woman, but the reality is that there are surprisingly many cases where men say "it's better" when they're older and have a complex about it.

I also thought about it afterwards.

Overseas, I often see people showing off their baldness with dignity and appealing to those around them as part of their individuality.

Perhaps it is a problem that the Japanese themselves must learn from the inside and change by following the example of foreign men.

In fact, the woman I'm currently dating in her 20s loves her gray beard.

According to her, if you're not a certain age, the beard doesn't give off a certain atmosphere, so she likes papa's beard.

As for his baldness, he seems to dislike people who try to hide it strangely.

More than that, he said that if he had a shaved skin head, or if he wore a stylish hat and it looked natural the moment he took it off, he would surely be shocked.

We felt that we still need to study more when we know women as men.

By all means, if you say, "I was worried about it," why don't you have the courage to appeal to young women about your current self?Just one thing, keep it clean.

When it comes to cleanliness, every woman said it was important.

This is something that men worry about when they look at women.