man to be rejected

2018-01-24

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My name is Ito from the Tokyo branch.

Between a man and a woman who are not lovers
Reason why hesitant women refuseWhen,The meaning of not choosing todayWhat is.

* This article is a combination of opinions and feedback from members and Ito's personal opinion.

Contents

1 ◆ If you are lovers
2 ◆ In the case of a dating club
- 2.1 First impression: Can I have sex with this person?
3 ◆Is it okay to have sex today?
- 3.1 ① If the value goes down, I won't do it yet.
- 3.2 (XNUMX) If the value goes up, or as you feel
4 ◆ Relationship type values (male/female)
5 ◆ In the end

◆ If you are lovers

I'm on my period today...
I just got rid of unwanted hair...
It's cold, so I'm wearing woolen pants...

"I'm a little bit of that right now... a little bit (>_<)"

If you are a couple, all you have to do is say this word.

However, this does not apply to women who are likely to have physical relationships from day one in dating clubs.

◆ In the case of a dating club

First impression: Can I have sex with this person?

People who think "Oh! Impossible!" at the moment they meet

・I have a lot of dandruff on my black coat
・The nails are long, and the nails are clogged with dust and are black for some reason.
・I obviously didn't brush my teeth before the date
・Ear hair sticks out
・There is some kind of eye mucus on it, etc.

(Even if you look in the mirror in the bathroom just before...)

All the petty things I think.

Women are watching a lot just because they can't say it.

Don't look for rough spots!If so, it's different.
I don't want to see it, but it catches my eye,
Many women may be such creatures rather than details.

◆Is it okay to have sex today?

Here, I will proceed with the premise that I have cleared the previous [first impression, can I have sex with this person].

The criteria here are
Would sex today make you worth more or less?
That's it.

① If the value goes down, I won't do it yet.

Does having a relationship with someone today make me less valuable to them?

Are you going to be thought of as a simple and boring woman?
Do you think that this woman has already figured it out?

Women will refuse if they feel uneasy that this may be the end.

(XNUMX) If the value goes up, or as you feel

Today the distance will be shortened and you may be able to take care of yourself more.
You might be the best among the other women you're dating.
You may be able to communicate your determination and develop a deeper relationship.

Women are more likely to accept an invitation if they think there is hope ahead.

It is also possible that they just want to be together without thinking about values.

* Please think that the value mentioned here is not something planned, but something that comes to mind unconsciously.

◆ Relationship type values (male/female)

It depends on each person how many dates are OK.
Although there are different types of relationships, each person's sense is different.

Same as blood type

・Are type A serious and cautious?
・Type B is a one-sided, self-paced type?
・Are blood type Os generous and open-minded?
・Type AB is a free-spirited pacifist?

It is often expressed in this way on the internet and in books, but humans are not perfectly divided into these four.

The relationship type is the same, and it is divided into 5, but it is roughly.

・ Dating type B is possible after the second time
Male = Can I go from the second time?
Female = Never on the first date, but there is a possibility if you are a good person who has been dating many times!

・Dating type C depends on the feeling from the first day
Male = OK
Female = first meet and check appearance, after that it depends on the escort, so there is a XNUMX/XNUMX chance of refusal

You can't get everyone to understand one thing exactly the same.
However, there are men who take advantage of this and drop dating type A and B women from the first day.

◆ In the end

I hope that this article will be of some help to you.

In the women's column, we give advice to women about dating clubs and dad activities.

By having men read the column for women, I think they will be able to understand what kind of image women are aiming for when registering for dating clubs.

Female staff nationwide are updating, so I would be happy if you could see it.

[There is no 100% safety]
I wrote about the safety of dating clubs for women, along with the flow of dad activities.
https://universe-club.jp/female/2017/11/27/1572/

Thank you for watching.

: Writers: Nozomi Ito
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7 thoughts on “The Man Who Gets Rejected”

Mac Than:

2018-01-26 10: 51 PM

<Woman getting cut>
"Can I ask you for a long term?"
At the end of the meal, women sometimes ask me this question when it comes to adult relationships.
“It depends on compatibility.
"Are there people who are actually continuing?"
"Yeah, I'm here."
"What kind of woman is that?"
'A good woman'
I can't speak any further.We're still friends who just had a meal together.
The minds of women, especially young people, are full of themselves.I have to pay the scholarship, pay the rent for the apartment, and to do that, I have to earn a certain amount every month. do you get
Speaking of immature and cute, yes, but I want you to be a little more interested in this.
That way, you won't have the idea to ask if you're willing to be in a long-term relationship even though you're still in a physical relationship.
Even women would be lonely if they thought that they were just throwing away physical relationships, and the same goes for uncles.It's hardest to be seen as an ATM that can withdraw money on a regular basis.
People to people, even if it's a dating club encounter.I want to have heart-to-heart contact other than sex and money with each other.
That's compatibility.

Well, I went to bed at the hotel safely (?).
Even though he knows a lot of women, he doesn't know how other men have sex.
Same with girls.You don't know what other girls are doing, do you?Even though I know that men come in all types, shapes, and styles.
Some men are nervous and exhausting to be with, and some men are out of shape and size.But you don't tell men that, do you?
If I didn't know anything else and the relationship ended at once, it wouldn't have been right.Uncle, you didn't tell me out loud.
It's a problem that you can't do on your own, but you can work hard to overcome it.It is the technology of blowjob and handjob.
In fact, even if you're confident that you can do it well, aren't you reluctant to do it from the beginning, because you'll look used to it and won't be attracted to it, or because you'll get tired of your mouth and hands when you're asked every time?
That's true for a romantic boyfriend.The relationship grows slowly, so there is also a stinginess.
However, dad activities involving money are different.Your first bed is like a job interview.Make the most of your skills and strengths.
That will lead to the next date.It is a matter of course if you say so.
Here's a maxim I made up.
"Men always want new vaginas. But they come back to women who are good at blow job."
Men are fickle creatures.But come back to a comfortable bed.I wonder if she'll understand if I say she's like a woman going to a beauty salon.
It would be a shock if you cheated on me, but from a woman's point of view, men are as different creatures as cats and dogs.Cheating on men is different than cheating on women.
If I come back to you, I have no choice but to think about it.For that reason, a better blowjob than anyone else (laughs).It may sound silly, but it's important.Remember that this is a story that can be applied to your favorite boyfriend or future marriage partner.
Because blow job trains the orbicularis oris muscle, it also prevents aging around the mouth.Did you know that holding a plastic bottle for 15 minutes a day can prevent sagging?
Sticking to only blowjobs and handjobs, you just like it, right?That's about as much as you can improve with bed technique.After that, there's nothing I can do about things like body shape or compatibility there.

I'll teach you one trick to win the heart of the uncle in the dating club.
Very easy.Sliding your head on the man's shoulder and staying still.Uncle, you might put your hand around your waist.I'll let you be at your mercy.
Snuggle close, close your eyes, and don't move.I'm really happy to be by your side.
Uncles love pseudo-romances, after all.
Praises and flattery don't resonate with uncle unexpectedly.
I'm used to that kind of thing because I'm a winner in the company and workplace.If you say flattery, you win when you say it, and you lose when you are told.Just a worldly tool.Rather than that, a pose that says I want to be close to you, I want to feel your skin close to me, is more effective.
I'm a cat, and if I act like it's my favorite uncle-shaped cushion, I can't go wrong.

What if my uncle cut me?After a few dates, she suddenly lost touch.
As I wrote before, it doesn't necessarily mean that your uncle is tired of you.
A man is a creature that starts with his body, but after repeated dates stably, his feelings come in.That's why sometimes a stable uncle can become a stalker.
A wise uncle decides to leave the situation before he gets too deep into it.Cut off contact, cool your head and reset.
Dating club encounters are like vaccinations to prevent life from being ruined by affairs and love affairs in the real world, such as the workplace.If that vaccine causes a fire, it's a mistaking.
Also, uncles are men, so as I wrote above, they always want new vaginas.No matter how old I am, my heart is Sinbad sailing the seven seas.Or a boy who wants a new toy.
And my uncle's schedule is limited.No matter how much money you have, your time is limited.
Rather than getting tired of you, I often feel like I'm sorting things out in order to secure new encounters.
As a woman, my pride is hurt, and there are many women who would like to be forgiven from such an unfaithful uncle.But that is the reality.
For those women who still manage to figure it out, I have one piece of advice. Three months, half a year, or even a year or two years later, if you feel like it, you can send an e-mail and the uncle will be happy to see you again.
Aphorism again.
"Women want to see each other right after they break up. Men want to see each other as time passes."
In a man's mind, after a breakup, the woman's memory becomes glorified over time.Women will soon disappear and go next, right?The male brain is different.
Memories mature with time and release a fragrance.You can drink as much wine as you want while reminiscing.such an animal.
I think I can apply this to my personal life.

I often hear people say, "I only go on dates for meals, and I get pocket money."
Is it really worth it?
For example, if you eat at a restaurant for 2 hours, then spend 2 hours at a bar, and receive 2 yen for transportation, your hourly wage is 5 yen. If it was 2 yen, it would be XNUMX yen.It's better than a part-time job at an izakaya.
Isn't it better to go to a hotel and get 2 or 3 in 5 hours?
If you're having dinner with your uncle at a restaurant, it's definitely dad life.All the shopkeepers think so.There is a high chance that you will be seen by someone you know.
However, it is not an urban legend that there is an uncle who will give you 100 million yen, or an uncle who will give you 60 yen for tuition on the first day you meet him.Such an uncle often has a meal date.
Maybe I'm not used to playing.Or are you an investor with a wave of earnings?
But the odds of meeting someone like that are extremely low.Also, as far as I know, 100% female college students around 20 years old.They probably enjoy their reaction by surprising the innocent-looking child.
I wrote that the odds are low, but actually it's not a question of odds, it seems that such uncle offers are concentrated on certain types of girls.
That's not right, just a normal girl who doesn't have sex and only goes on a date for a meal, and then gets a cheap transportation fee, is it really profitable?
I want you to think about that.
Don't let the sprouts that grow from this special offer be crushed.

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Mac Than:

2018-01-26 10: 54 PM

I tried to write "Woman who gets cut off" as opposed to "Man who gets cut off" (laughs).
What do you think?Will there be a demand if I post to Cinderella?

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- A Than:
  
  2018-01-27 3: 27 PM
  
  "Okay, okay, if you want to live a life with a lot of money, you're an F-cup, so you should learn blowjobs, English, and golf. You seem to be fluent in English, and golf doesn't suit me. It's impossible, so I'll just tell you the truth.A rich man won't be convinced by you as it is now.Take it seriously."
  I once said this to a 25-year-old beauty pageant woman who is one-eighth Russian, whom I met at a club.
  She was a child with stiff shoulders and neck, so it seems that the day after my special training day was very tough, but thanks to the demon special training, she became a child who earns 200 million a month.
  A long time ago, when the Satsuma clan sent Atsuhime to the shogun family out of a sense of crisis of the country's ruin, the court noble taught her how to speak. technology.
  It is a vital point of a woman that should not be neglected.
  
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  - Mac Than:
    
    2018-01-27 4: 54 PM
    
    It is persuasive when someone who is bisexual like Mr. A, smokes boys' cigarettes, and is confident in his technique.I guess it's best to get guidance from a gay person.I was also impressed with the technique when I blamed a girl in a threesome with a lesbian girl.Recognizing your immaturity is the first step to improvement.
    When I read Cinderella, what makes me irritated is that sex is the final stop, and nothing beyond that is written.I think it would be nice to have at least one person write that there was an old man with this kind of propensity, or that it was good to have such a sexual skill user.
    It's unrelated, but I once took a sex lesson for couples by Adam Tokunaga.Being a person of the same sex who is technically superior to me can be traumatic, so I think it would be better for women to have gays teach them.
    
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  - A Than:
    
    2018-01-27 7: 25 PM
    
    Ah, I'm bi from other people's point of view.
    I've never known myself like that before (laughs).
    As a side note here, Mr. Mac, in order to understand women's feelings, it would be nice to have a gay boy hold your head down and give you a serious deep throat.
    If you're going to be traumatized anyway, I think it's probably more beneficial than paying a lot of money to take Adam's lessons.
    
    "Before my heart deepens... reset."
    "Uncle's time is limited... I'll organize it once to secure a frame for new encounters."
    Especially the latter happens quite often.
    It often happens that you find your favorite child, but you boldly throw it away sooner than you could have predicted in advance.
    When it comes to the second half of life, I'm afraid of losing time above all.
    Because you can't take it back.
    In the first place, one of the reasons for using the dating club knowing the high cost is "saving time and effort".
    I want young girls to know this "uncle's peculiar haste, which is different from the haste of young men."
    There are also rich people like Mr. Mac who are active with the spirit of ``I can't let myself waste a single shot anymore!'' (^ _ ^;).
    
    "In a man's head...a woman's memory is glorified."
    This is also a pitfall that uncles often fall into, "There is an uncle" (^_^;).
    I suddenly remember the woman I cut for a reason, and I want to taste the sweetness she gave me again.
    It's dangerous if there's anything like contact information left on your phone.
    If we meet again, I'm sure I'll remember "the reason I cut it".
    As a preventative measure, I write down the reason why the woman who cut it and save it properly (^ _ ^;).
    It will come in handy in years to come (laughs).
    
    "Dating only for meals ... is it really a good deal?"
    I feel that Mr. Mack's argument is too managerial.
    From the woman's point of view, sleeping or not sleeping is related to physical risk and personal dignity.
    I myself think that it doesn't matter if a chahan girl is a chahan girl.
    Well, I wouldn't continue to see her unless she's a beautiful woman with a lot of brilliance...
    
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  - Mac Than:
    
    2018-01-28 10:49 AM
    
    Debut with Cinderella has been decided (^ ^).This is a completely different article than the one above.I think it will be posted next week, so please check it out if you like.
    My objective in writing is to bring girls from A and B to C if possible, so I will use all sorts of reasoning rather than proceeding in a managerial way to get all the girls in Univa. I'm determined to beat the persuasion.
    I want all the male version of love vaccine articles to be moved to Cinderella and read by girls.Because there are worlds and ways of enjoying that you don't know about.
    It seems that there are male members who are sometimes jealous (?) or have antipathy, but it is never against the interests of everyone.It's actually the other way around, so thank you.
    
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  - A Than:
    
    2018-01-28 3: 35 PM
    
    I'm looking forward to it.
    Please do it as softly as possible.
    Don't be pulled (^_^;)
    
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