Standards for contracts with women

Recently, the number of women who are working as dads has increased considerably.

Men who are dads have already noticed that.

That's why I think you can clearly see the difference compared to 10 years ago.

In particular, there has been an increase in the number of women whose appearances have been considerably polished.

Is it time?

I think that is the proof that information is spreading even to those who did not know about dad activities until now.

As dad activities become more familiar, the number of women who sign up for dating clubs will increase accordingly.

Then, from the men's point of view, it can be said that we can choose a woman from a large number rather than a small number, so we can scrutinize it considerably.

This is a great advantage for men.

However, in proportion to that, the number of competitors among women increases, so there is a natural tendency for women who are more devoted to men to earn more money.

It looks like a very ordinary landscape to me.

So, when you make a contract with a woman for the first time, what is your standard?To be honest, I keep my dividers pretty high.

A decade ago, if you continued with the division you have now, you couldn't easily make a contract with a woman who works as a dad.

However, since the number of papa active women increased, I was able to make a contract normally even if the partition was raised.

It's my theory, but the lower the partition, the lower the quality I want in a woman.

Of course, that is based on the conditions and allowances that I present to women.

If you compromise on something, you give up on something else.

This is the same for any business.

If you want quality, you will pay accordingly.

I have set up a slightly higher partition for now after understanding that.

Just this partition.

Actually, it's not that difficult.

It may seem a little cramped for young women today, but it was a matter of course when I was young.

For example, how to speak and how to listen.

If it's easy to understand, that's the place.

Therefore, if you are a man or woman of the same age as me, you will be told, "I don't call it a partition because it is within the scope of common sense."

However, since the times are different now from when we were young, if we introduce common sense that does not meet the needs of the times, it will be judged as a high partition for young women. (If you're a father, I think you've experienced this many times, including temperature differences.)

Let me introduce the contract standards I have for women here.

And at the same time, what kind of criteria can you contract with a woman for a long time?I also want to introduce

Appearance is secondary anyway

If you choose a woman, you certainly want a bare minimum of appearance.

So, I would like you to understand the minimum line there by individual judgment.

However, the important thing here is that I hear that most dads tend to sign contracts based solely on their appearance, and in fact, an overwhelming number of my friends also sign contracts based solely on appearance.

However, if I look at appearance on a 10-point scale, I would choose 6th or 7th place.

Never choose perfection.

The reason is that if you choose a woman based only on her appearance, there are many cases where she lacks another part.

For example, "I'm always late" or "I'm the type who doesn't appreciate people at all".

To be honest, there is no end to it.

However, if you judge by 6-7% of appearance and then judge personality by 3-4%, you will be able to see it in a different way.

A woman who listens to our requests first when we meet for the first time.

I really like the woman who said this.

First of all, what kind of intention are you looking for a woman?Most of the women who seriously listen to me are the type who try to do more than serve. (I wouldn't say all, but at least the women I've met have.)

This is the opposite pattern.

The so-called type of woman who only says what she wants from the beginning is really useless.

To be honest, even if I make a contract, I get tired of being told all the requests, and the men are the same people.

I run out of affection.

That's why they don't last long even if they meet.

To be honest, cospa is better if you have a yearly contract for dad activities.

The reason is that it takes time and effort to get to know women.

That's why I think any man can understand, but I want to keep a good woman at hand for a long time.

However, it is surprisingly difficult to meet a woman who can keep it at hand for a long time.

That's why I think he's "the most valuable existence" in dad activities.

If we slightly shift the judgment criteria when making a contract with a woman, we will be able to meet the "most precious existence" unexpectedly.

a woman who can talk

A woman who can talk to each other on mutual terms when meeting for the first time is a hit in my mind.

Surprisingly, this part is quite important when signing a contract.

For example, "I want this much a month," or "I'm chasing my dream because I'm doing a job like this, so I'd like to receive help in this way from a man who will be my dad." Suppose you consulted with

Therefore, the man also suggested, "Then, can we meet twice a week?"

Then, the female side asks, "Eh? Does that mean that my time is stolen or restricted?"

Of course, I think there will be discussions there, but surprisingly there are women who make their own proposals, saying, "But I'm in a position to receive an allowance, so I'll adjust to the men's side to some extent."

In other words, they understand where to come to terms with each other's stories.

I will definitely make a contract with the woman who said this.

The reason is that they will always do their best.

Besides, this one is meant to suit women in the first place.

The reason is that almost all men understand that it is papa katsu.

This is a story based on that.

However, a woman who does not understand and cannot come to an agreement has too much self-first mindset, and it is difficult to come to an agreement.

If it were me, I would never sign a contract with a woman who said that, and I wouldn't recommend it to anyone.

Once again, the number of women who are working as dads has increased, and among them, there are many wonderful women, so why not raise your criteria once?You really get to have long-lasting relationships with each and every woman.

And you can enjoy the feeling of happiness.