• I am a female member.
    It's been said many times, but the worst thing you can do is say that you don't want to be offended.
    Girl happy...


Question date: 2021/01/21 13:00

I am a female member.
It's been said many times, but the worst thing you can do is say that you don't want to be offended.
Whether the girl is happy or unreasonable is all subjective, isn't it?
I think people who brag about it are the ones who make the most mistakes.

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This is Kazu, a male member.

Yes, I think it's just subjective.That's why I wrote, "People judge whether they dislike it or not based on themselves."That's why I think it's important to look at the other person and see if they don't like it.Men can't read everything, so I think it's important for women to say they don't like what they don't like.Even women can't read anything, so even though I hate it and endure it, they stick their fingers into my anus and go around.There are some things in human relationships that you can't understand unless you tell them.

I don't remember saying that boastfully, but I wonder if it's me who boasts.If the questioner is being forced to dislike my dating partner, please message me on LINE.If you were forcing yourself to dislike it, please let me know.

I didn't want to put my finger in the anal and go around, but I couldn't say it on the spot.But since then, when my finger comes close to my butt, I've been trying to say that I've had a bad experience before, so please come to the entrance.It would be nice if the person who asked the question became a child who could say he didn't like what he didn't like, instead of hissing in the anonymous question box.If you can't get the allowance unless you endure it silently, it means that the questioner has made a choice to get the allowance even if you endure it, so it's wrong to blame the man.I also chose to endure it in silence, so all I can think of is that woman who put her finger in her anus at that time, "I can't read the other person's reaction."

If you're curious about what it's like to be fingered in your anal, see this question.
At this time, Mr. Maezawa wrote, "What are you proud of? (laughs)", but I'm not bragging.Riichi's answer was interesting, so I just showed off my story so that I could enjoy it.

Perhaps the reason why some people try to read the author's feelings without writing from the text is because of the question "Describe the author's thoughts at this time."Every time I saw a question like that, I wanted to say that the questioner was a friend of Dazai and asked him what his intentions were.He can't know exactly what the author thinks unless he hears it from the person himself.

Mr. Maezawa, I'm sorry for making a sample of someone's writing and not arbitrarily bragging about it.I have nothing to say to Mr. Maezawa (laughs).

>Paper plane
>There are those who speak straight and those who create an atmosphere, but they are only supported by people on the same wavelength and are not popular at all.

I think the club is a place where you can meet and socialize with people on the same wavelength.So, even if someone asks me, "I don't like it. What should I do?"In fact, if I don't think I'm on the same wavelength as you on a date, I won't ask you out for an adult relationship, and I won't go on a second date or later.Each of the XNUMX people I've been seeing on a regular basis has turned down the offer itself. I'm refusing bang bang that I didn't meet from.I think the reason why I keep seeing him is because we are on the same wavelength.

It also leads to the answer to the question whether clubs are different from customs.Customs is a place where anyone can receive sexual services regardless of wavelength as long as it is within a fixed range.I think that anything outside the fixed form is no good regardless of whether a woman likes or dislikes it.That's why I don't like men who negotiate with delivery health to have sex, and women who approach sex because it's easier to let them in than blowjobs and they can get tips.

  • Answer date: 2021/01/21 13:13
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thanks for your questions.

Certainly, in general, people who say it out loud are often thought to be different.
It's not that I don't understand that we're bad

What is really bad is
"I'm the one who pays"
"Who do you think I am?"
, which is themed around

He's the kind of person who doesn't listen to others.
Don't give your opinion to the great me, but there are actually people like that.

Also, the people who answered here
It looks like you're saying no, but that's just a matter of writing
I try to be considerate to say so.

I think that's what it means.

However, people who say it outright may fall into the bad category, as you say in the general public.

PS ``What are you proud of? (laughs)'' is different from ordinary bragging
  I had such a hard timewhen someone says
  No, no, it's not that big of a deal
  And other people, it's not that big of a deal, I was more like this.

  It was meant as a way to brag about how hard things were going on for me.
  I think it's like bragging in the opposite direction to the bragging this time.

  • Answer date: 2021/01/21 17:38
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This is a male member's paper airplane.

If you stand on the side of women who receive money such as Menesu

Male side is 100% satisfied

I can't say for women, but I'm almost 100% patient, within the range I can endure

It's a composition.The more popular the child, the more favorite the child, the cuter the child

There are those who speak straight and those who create an atmosphere, but they are only supported by people on the same wavelength and are not popular at all.

The club is not a blatant customer business, so you don't have to be so patient, but I feel that it is also the core part that there is no change in the position of receiving money.

I don't think the questioner needs to be so nervous about what a man wrote.It is only when men get excited that they get misunderstood, and the money circulates as allowances, so if you take it as the law of nature, it's not a bad thing socially or economically.

> Mac
For me, Menes was the place to go to pick up girls.Men's esthetics are healthy with some exceptions.

Menes and clubs are both gray, subtle and complex.In a sense, the club goes beyond customs... I think it completely surpasses customs.If you know, you can't go to customs anymore.With the exception of a small portion, Menesu is healthy, so it is indispensable for massage lovers as a break from time to time.

>Hate being neutralized by money, I don't think it's all that bad
I think it's usually in that range.

>flag maker
It seems like they have a good relationship where they can say things that other people can't.

> Mr. Kazu
Menes is also interesting, and if the wavelength doesn't match, there are men who pay and leave immediately, and there are times when I don't even get a massage, but there are people who only talk for 1 hours a day.
From our men's point of view, I think it's okay to be on the same wavelength as being very satisfied.On the other hand, from the perspective of a woman like the questioner, I think there are cases where it is interpreted as a misunderstanding.I think it's possible that the relationship will last for several years.I think men would be happier if they didn't know.

  • Answer date: 2021/01/21 13:51
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Thank you very much for your question.My name is Love Hotel Staff Ueno.

In the academic world, it is said that the more you learn, the more things you do not understand, and this can be applied in various situations.
In psychology, this phenomenon is called the Dunning-Kruger effect, and people who are less capable or less smart tend to perceive themselves as superior.
This is because those with low ability do not even have the ability to judge that they are low in ability.
Therefore, as the questioner says, I get the illusion that "my ability is high" only by my own subjectivity.
Conversely, when you look at yourself objectively and have doubts that your ability may be low, there is no doubt that your ability is high.
In the first place, it is a matter of course to say, "I don't do things that women don't like."
In other words, when you brag about such a thing, that person is a subtle person who has nothing to brag about.
A man who is not popular at all may say, "I won't cheat," but it's the same thing.A man who has nothing else to brag about will try to get a woman's attention by boasting.

  • Answer date: 2021/01/29 19:59
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In that case, I am able to build a relatively good relationship with women without hesitation in pointing out things like “It hurts,” “Stop,” and “I’m not feeling well.” .

That balance is difficult~(^_^;)

  • Answer date: 2021/01/21 13:57
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Male member Fullerene!

Wow, you all do a great job.wonderful.

I think it's subjective, as you said.

Or rather, is there anything in the world that does not contain subjectivity?
At first glance, even things that appear to be objective are subjective in their judgment criteria.
Therefore, if another person sees the same phenomenon, it may come to the opposite conclusion.

Right now, you can't go to a restaurant if your body temperature is over 37.5 degrees.


Do you measure with your forehead?do you measure your wrist?
What machine do you measure with?
Is 37.45 degrees OK? NG?

There are many things to think about, so in the end there is room for subjectivity.
(Sometimes I hate myself for being argumentative (laughs))

Assuming that you don't know how the other person feels,

"I am doing (intending)"

Please let me know what you think.

And if you think that the questioner is also seen by other people,
You might not even get hungry.
Good luck.

  • Answer date: 2021/01/22 02:15