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Question date: 2019/09/14 01:24

It happened on a date the other day.The woman's relationship type is C type, and she contacted the club the day before on Women's Day. As I wore it, the woman seemed apologetic, and it turned out to be a date that didn't get excited at all.
In subsequent exchanges with the club, a staff member repeatedly asked about how to respond if a woman requested a women's day. However, there was a proposal to specially tell only me, and the superior staff should have responded that there was a possibility that they could only have time for meals, and that they should have proposed rescheduling. When I pointed out that there was a big difference in the stance of the staff in the club, and in the end, I was defiant, saying that it was inevitable that there was variation among the staff. (I'm talking about such an important issue that can lead to real harm!)
I do not agree with this unreasonable response at all.
I am just surprised at the low level of awareness towards improving the service level of the club, and I do not think that future service improvements can be expected at all with this attitude.Completely disappointed.
I would like to ask for your opinion as a club about this incident.

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Maezawa (Staff)

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Maezawa from the president's office will answer.

(Postscript: I'm sorry for answering even though I wanted to be a representative.
I realized that after I wrote it. )


About the questionnaire
This is a place to answer individual thoughts

It is not a place to answer the opinion as a club.

If you are a normal member of society, you should know that

The answer of the staff in charge is the answer of the club
If the superior has answered, the response of the superior is the view of the club.

Of course, if you don't agree, I think it's also possible to talk about sending a superior.
What is it like to think that it is not the opinion of the club because you are not satisfied with it?


Now, let me give you my personal opinion on this matter.

I can't tell you if a woman is menstruating or not.It's a common understanding within the company.

Because it is a company that sets meal dates,
Deciding whether or not to set the universe club depending on whether it is menstruation or not
This is because I think that it may deviate from the original purpose.

And this is a rule that was adopted as a result of consulting with a corporate lawyer.
Even if I was asked to stop following such rules, I think that Universe, a healthy company, would answer that we would consider it at this stage.

So, why is there variation in responses from staff to staff?

This may be because the branches are given strong authority.

As a company, we decided not to tell them.
If the police intervene saying that it is illegal because of this information
Since the branch manager did it on his own, I think that the branch manager will naturally be the one to be judged.
I think it's the branch manager who will atone for his sins.

Only the branch manager who is prepared to take responsibility for the crime (whether or not it is a crime depends on the judgment of the court)
I think that men, including my subordinates, are telling men whether they are menstruating or not.

Of course, if the branch manager is caught, I think the president will also be held responsible.
(whether or not you will be held accountable for management)
Nevertheless, I think that the company will understand that we are trying to operate the club within the limits of the law.

By the way, dating type C has a 50% chance of free love after meals.
Since there is a 50% chance of being refused, I think there was a 50% chance that even if I reserved a room, it would be wasted.

In that case, you wouldn't call it a dating type scam, would you?
Looking at this story, I'm a little worried about that.

If so, it may not be for dating clubs.

If this story was about dating type D, I sympathize, but why is it about dating type C?The feeling is bigger.
(By the way, women can refuse even dating type D.)


after,
Why didn't the meal go well?
Was it because you were only talking about dating after dinner?

I understand how you feel, but it can happen
I think it would have been better to change my mind immediately and have a good time, even if it was just eating.

If the woman agrees, your wishes will come true on the next date, so I'm looking forward to the next time.
I think it was a blast with the story.

  • Answer date: 2019/09/14 17:09
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UST

I am a male member UST.

When reserving a room, it is better to assume that it may not be possible to go to the room depending on the physical condition of the woman (menstruation, etc.).

No matter how nice a man is, you can't be 100% sure you'll be able to get a room on the first day, so if you don't want to lose money on the hotel bill, don't book a room.

I also had a woman on her first date who couldn't go to the room because she was on her period, but most of the time she looks apologetic.

In order to connect after the next time, I will take care of the woman's physical condition, say that I am looking forward to the next time, and disperse on that day.After that, on the second date, we have an adult relationship.





  • Answer date: 2019/09/15 01:02
Male member

Anonymous

This is Nonta, a male member.

I'm sorry for posting even though I'm not the target audience.

I was impressed by a woman who declared that it was Girls' Day.She's pretty nice
I thought that the questioner who offered such a woman had a considerable selection eye, or rather, a selection eye.

Also, even if a woman is on her period, there are things I can do with her in the room, so I thought it would be a little different to say menstruation = no room.

It depends on how men and women think, but it's not blocked by menstruation, so it's physically possible.I think it's NG in terms of hygiene and aesthetics.

  • Answer date: 2019/09/15 00:24
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Kida (President)

Thank you for your question!
Representative Kida will answer.

To all the other respondents, I'm afraid you're too gentleman.

I would like to convey my opinion as a club.

"very sorry"

There are various reasons and legal issues,
I made a hotel reservation and was nervous and excited, but when it came time for dinner, I was greeted with an apologetic offer from a woman.

The precious time they spent together was lost.

But what the questioner was really disappointed with was not that, but I think it was the club's evasive response.

At that time, the person in charge of other dating clubs will guide men to a sex shop with excellent service.

Doesn't that make you feel better?

No, I don't mean that it feels good.
in the sense that correspondence

I imagine that the staff who dealt with it are probably from Tokyo, but I think they will understand as they experience it.

I feel sorry for men who didn't get to have sex despite their expectations.

By the way, I would like you to know by the information, but the staff and women interact a lot unexpectedly.
“Excuse me, my period has come earlier than expected, can you tell the man tomorrow?”
If you just declare that, the staff will be simple,

“Mr. ○○, who is scheduled to go on a date tomorrow, may not be feeling well.
You may be able to confirm with a man like

But actually, "Is it better to say it? It's awkward to say it on the spot, so can you say it? But there are times when it gets canceled. What should I do? I was thinking of going with a white skirt. But, it's really bad.My second day is the most.Oh, come to think of it, I got my hair cut, can I go take a picture?Also, my senior at my part-time job isn't feeling well, so I can't come in tomorrow. I was contacted, what should I do?"
Like, many things are going on at the same time.

If you don't have a certain amount of experience, you may not know what to listen to and you may not be able to respond well.

In the future, the questioner may receive the same response from the staff in the future.
But that's the dating club.
If it's an app, an error screen will pop up and that's the end of it. is
Sorry for the excuse.

From October, we will switch to sales with men in charge.I will try my best to improve the quality

  • Answer date: 2019/09/19 00:57
column writer

It's Mr. Saito♪

column article

This is Mr. Saito, a column writer.

I'm going out of my way to write,
That's what it is.

Real harm... I have a lot too.

I get tired of being angry all the time.

  • Answer date: 2019/09/16 23:06

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