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Question date: 2024/03/31 11:12

Has anyone ever asked their dad to take an STD test?
I've narrowed it down to just one dad, and he says the same thing, but he has had relationships with several women in the past. It would be difficult to treat the disease after contracting it, so I would like to get tested, but how should I tell them? I also plan to take the test.
Also, if you are a man, have you ever been asked by a woman to take a test? Please tell us in what circumstances (was the woman asked to take the test because she was positive, or was she asked to take the test because she was worried), how was she informed, and whether she actually took the test?

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Kazu

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I usually get tested regularly, and since I've talked to the other woman about this, she hasn't asked me to get tested.
Women sometimes ask me if I should take it too.

Three times in the past, I have been contacted by women who have tested positive.
Once, I hadn't had a test since I met the woman, so I said, ``I'll go right away, thank you,'' and went for the test.
On the other two occasions, I had taken a test after meeting the woman and it was negative, so I replied, "I was negative, but thank you for letting me know."

Aside from that, just going for a test once is of no use.
It is important to receive it regularly.

Also, it says, ``It would be difficult to treat the disease after it has been contracted,'' but testing does not provide prevention.
The test only tells you whether you have the disease or not at the time of the test.
Prevention is through condoms and vaccines.

If you want a man to take a test anyway, just say, ``My female friend told me she had a sexually transmitted disease, so I'm scared of sexually transmitted diseases.'' and make a promise to each other to take the test once a month and show each other the test results. I think it's good.
I think men will be able to get the test kits sent by mail because it won't be too much of a hassle.
Kits are sold on Amazon etc.
It is easy for men to take a test sample, but it is difficult for women, so men can take the test by mail, but for more accurate results, you should have your doctor take the test sample. please.

I don't like the time it takes to get a mail-in test, so I go to a doctor who gives me the results the same day or the next day.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/31 11:28
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system engineer member

I have never had a woman ask me to take a test, but I do it voluntarily.
I've seen news reports about syphilis being prevalent, so it's never better to be careful.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/31 11:18
Male member

Seattle

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If you don't say that you get it from men, I think it's okay to say so.

Normally, I have to go there voluntarily once every two months, man.

Try to convince him that you are the only thing he cares about and that he will continue to think of you in the future.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/31 11:35
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Katase (female)

As Kazu-san and Seattle-san have said, I think it's okay if I just want to do the test with you because you're important to me (looking up at me).
Even if I get tested now, there are some diseases that have a long incubation period, so I'd like to get tested once a month for a while (lol)

I hope you will agree with this ( ´ ▽ ` )


Katase female

  • Answer date: 2024/03/31 13:26
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Fuu

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My ex-regular girlfriend's boyfriend contracted a sexually transmitted disease.
A woman contacted me, and both she and I have symptoms.
No, but I've had it tested.

I got chlamydia again the other day.
Shortly before that, a woman took a regular test.
That's what I told you.

It is easy to say that mutual relationship values ​​are established.
isn't it

First, the person asking the question receives the question.
Then I asked my dad
What do you think?

  • Answer date: 2024/03/31 20:00

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