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Harupiko

I understand how you feel. It makes me jealous.

However, I believe that life is largely influenced by luck.
There are many things that change your life for the better because you met that person at that time...because something like this happened at that time...and it's not your own power.
So I think luck is a big factor.

There are people who have great ability and effort but are not successful, and vice versa.
I'm a typical example of someone who succeeded more than my ability or hard work, so I'm very grateful for my luck.

The person asking the question was also born in a country where there is no war and where rape is rare. And it is an environment where students can go on to university if they put in the effort.
Also, being able to eat delicious food and being able to fall in love with the man I like...I think this is a life blessed with great luck when you look at it from a global perspective.

So, I think that the first thing you need to do is realize that you are lucky, and then the only thing left to do is accumulate virtue.

No matter how good or bad you do, if your luck doesn't change, it's boring, isn't it?
So, I think it's a good idea to actively do good things, thinking that if you accumulate virtue, you will have good luck.
I believe that you are the lucky person you are today because you have accumulated virtue, and if you accumulate more virtue, you may find yourself with even more wonderful luck.

I apologize for my uncle's long soliloquy.
Please do your best.

• Answer date: 2024/02/22 10:00

• iine

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Male member

flag maker

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When I was in a dating club, I was considered an ``uncool guy.'' To put it bluntly, I was trash. That's my understanding.

I am a conscious scum and an unconscious scum. I love both of them, so the other male members love them too. It's interesting.

And all scumbags are equal. So I don't feel jealous at all.

Now, let's get to the point.

I feel deep in trash for a reason. On the other hand, I'm not interested in trash for no reason. However, there is no such thing as scum without a reason. Actually, everyone is trash for a reason.

That is to say. That dad is just hiding it. What's more, the person asking the question is not able to bring out the interesting or pathetic parts of the father.

Lastly, this is just a guess on my part, but the father is actually a masochist. Let's bind both hands and feet and give him a whip. I don't think I'll ever feel miserable when I see that dad happy.

• Answer date: 2024/02/22 13:29

• iine

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Seattle

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It's true that I'm a high school graduate and am living a happy life based solely on luck.

The person asking the question is also cuter than average. If she finds a husband who is a big dad or a doctor, her life will be turned around.
Of course, you can get promoted.

• Answer date: 2024/02/22 16:30

• iine

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Yu Takei (Staff)

This is takei from the staff.
I totally understand how painful it feels.
When I see or interact with someone who seems to be doing well in life, I feel impatience and jealousy.
I think this is something many people are facing.

I was looking on the internet when I heard the words of comedian Kazureza.
Comparing yourself to someone else and becoming like them
I think it's quite difficult.
Rather than that, understand who you are now.
Face the parts you lack and the parts you want to improve.
If you continue that
You will be less likely to compare yourself to others around you.
I think it's very good for your mental health.
I saw this post and thought, ``Rather than wanting what you don't have''
I decided to look at the reality in front of me and face it.

I don't think it's easy, but
From the poster's perspective, he's such a wonderful dad.
I think the reason it's continued is because the person who posted it has a wonderful side as well.

• Answer date: 2024/02/22 16:48

• iine

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Male member

It's My

You're jealous, aren't you?
I can imagine the situation so painfully...

Even if you know it in your head
Emotions cannot be controlled.
It's not because you're weak
brain mechanism.

It is easy to be fooled by information that comes to us through our eyes and ears.
...This is also a brain mechanism
Illusions and beliefs

"Dad achieved happiness and success without trying."
Is this also an illusion?

Dad has a serious mental illness
In fact, he may be working hard behind the scenes.
Because daddy won't tell me
Maybe you just can't see it

Change your perspective a little
``My dad and I have been dating for a year.''

Have you ever wondered “why?”
Everyone does the same thing for a year.
It's quite difficult.
If daddy thought you were miserable
The relationship would have ended long ago.
It's been going on for a year because I feel valued by you.

Do you think so?

and to myself
Please say more kind words

Instead of "I'm a bad person who doesn't try hard"
"I'm doing my best" "I'm great"
Please say it out loud every day.

your worth and goodness
you just don't see it
Don't be fooled by your brain!

Think carefully
People who really don't make any effort
"I should try harder"
Do you mean?

It's My

• Answer date: 2024/02/22 19:22

• iine

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Male member

Paper

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If you think your past life was good, I think good things will continue to happen.


I believe that people who have not been grateful in the past will continue to be ungrateful.

You can't change the past, but you can change your way of thinking.


How do you view your life so far? If you think that whether it's good or bad, you are where you are today because of the things you have done in the past, both the present and the future will become brighter.

• Answer date: 2024/02/22 11:04

• iine

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Male member

Fuu

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When it comes to other than

Buy toto BIG every week and aim for a one-shot reversal
Aim for a one-shot reversal by leveraging FX
Do your best as a dad
earn more than that dad

I guess that's true lol

• Answer date: 2024/02/22 23:03

• iine

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Male member

Joe Rubicon

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Jealousy is an emotion that everyone has. That's why I felt like I was human. It's not bad.
And I guess it's because I was jealous that I had so many thoughts. I just deny myself without using it as energy.
However, it was too wasteful. When you're in your 20s, there's so much to do!

Since I'm an old man, I'm giving you some great advice.
There are some great words from Ms. Yoko Aki (who is she? Please don't tell me), whom I adore. It's about the good and bad things in life
The ratio is fixed: 51:49. In other words, there are just a few good things. What the questioner should do
It's about pursuing good things. perhaps.

Also, some complaints.
Let's say that this is Shinbashi's red lantern, and I, Osamu-kun (congratulations on your engagement!), and the person asking the question are stirring up Black Hoppy and creating a stir. When I was waiting to get drunk, the person who asked the question suddenly asked about this problem? Let's say that he confessed his problem and asked both of us for advice. What's more, there was no need to say "try harder."
　At that moment, we both gulped down the remaining lukewarm Hoppy, ordered a new one, and said, "That's why it's no good."
The sermon will continue until closing time. Very common advice can often be helpful. The problem with the questioner is that he denies this from the beginning.
Good thing this isn't Shinbashi.

• Answer date: 2024/02/22 19:16

• iine

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Male member

Kazu

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I think it would be a good idea to stop being the kind of person who, when asking others for a favor, says, ``I don't care, just make more effort.''

• Answer date: 2024/02/22 09:07

• iine

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