[JP ONLY] Sugar Dating Anonymous Question Box

Male member

Harupiko

I don't really think that you shouldn't beg.As Mr. Maezawa pointed out, if your partner is the type who doesn't give presents and suddenly says "I want it," it means he's begging, but there are also men who want to "make him happy by giving him a present." So, I think it's best to honestly tell them what you want when asked.

However, when it comes to bags, it can cost upwards of 40 to 50 yen, so I'd like to find out a little about your budget and ask.

I'm basically the type of person who wants to give Christmas presents, so if you ask me, how can I make things go smoothly?I thought...
For example, when someone asks me, ``I want both a bag and a wallet, which one would be better?'' I thought it would be great to be able to guide them with an answer that fits their planned budget.


Also, I think this is important: gifts are considered an investment for men.It's the same as handing over a large amount of money first, so if the person doesn't respond well after giving the gift, I get very worried, thinking, ``Maybe I just tricked them.''

Therefore, if a man receives a gift or receives a lump sum allowance in advance, he should communicate more frequently than usual, meet more often, be kinder to him, etc., and say, ``I'm glad I gave you the gift.'' Please try to respond accordingly.I'm sure many men will be happy.

I hope you get a nice present.

• Answer date: 2023/11/17 00:21

• iine

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Male member

sun moon new

This is Arata Nizuki, a male member.

Do you feel that there is such a thing as the correct PJ path?
On the Internet, there are messages like Kirakira PJ, but I think they have some kind of purpose, such as getting people to buy information products or satisfying the sender's vanity.
Don't be too distracted by other people's intentions and speculations.

It's better to think that it was a good thing that you wanted a present and acted in your own way.

It's all about relationships with individual men.

I think your options will change depending on what kind of relationship you want to build with that man.
You can have the gift deducted from your allowance, or you can just accept it as a gift, or you can say that you're happy with the gift and withdraw it.

It would be great if you could think for yourself, fail or succeed, and build the kind of relationship you want.

• Answer date: 2023/11/12 17:35

• iine

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Male member

Die

That would be correct.

If you are a high-ranking father, you can find any number of women to date.

I think it's best to just keep going, so I think it's best not to get distracted by temporary gifts.

• Answer date: 2023/11/12 20:22

• iine

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Male member

Kazu

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I was reminded of a word I haven't heard recently: "manual person."
That's nonsense.

• Answer date: 2023/11/11 08:25

• iine

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Male member

Paper

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>Not telling your true feelings because you care
Is this correct for PJ?

As long as it's a club relationship, no woman will ask me anything, and I won't give her any gifts other than allowances.

This is the reason why the person asking the question is not being able to express his/her true feelings.


>Should I ask for something more expensive?

If you have a relationship where you can say anything beyond the scope of a club relationship, you can say anything without worrying and give the woman what she wants.

• Answer date: 2023/11/11 09:04

• iine

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Male member

What a farmer

Ah, here we come, another question asking for a “judge”.

In an answer to another question the other day, I said, ``If there are 100 people, there are 100 different values.''

Is it right or wrong?
If there are 100 pairs of dads and PJs, there will be 100 "correct" answers.

Another person has said harshly that he is a manual person, but unless there are some guidelines, unless someone tells him, or unless they are posted on the internet, he cannot make his own decisions and actions.As a human being, that's sad.

Humans are subjective and emotional creatures.

• Answer date: 2023/11/11 19:29

• iine

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Maezawa (Staff)

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thanks for your questions.
Maezawa will also answer.

＞As a PJ, I learned from the questions and answers that I should not beg.

I think it's true that you shouldn't beg.
Begging means you want this or buy this even though the other person hasn't said anything.
I think that such cases are called begging.

What do you want from a man, whether it's Christmas coming up or something else?I'll give you a present
If you are asked this, it is because you are answering a question.
I think it's okay to say what you want.

However, I think there is a way to say it.
What is your budget?I think it's okay to ask directly.
In the case of a man who seems to dislike it

〇〇 is too expensive, right?
I like △ and ◇.
Anything will be fine.

Like, just name the thing you want.
I'll leave it to you in the end.I think something like this would be fine.

That way, if what you want is over your budget, you will be able to get something that is within your budget.
I think if it's within your budget, you might be able to get exactly what you want.

I don't know where the XNUMX yen came from this time.
If the person asking the question says it's around XNUMX yen.
I don't really know what the other person thought

picture?Is the amount a reply?
I feel like there are times when I think so.

However, now that I've said it, I think it's better not to say anything until I'm asked again.
Even if you ask them to understand, if they don't say that they're working hard because they want that or that they're saving up to buy that.
I don't think there is even a hint to figure it out in the first place.
I think it could end up costing around XNUMX yen.

This depends on the financial strength of the other party.

I don't think you'll have to worry too much about it if you consider that presents never existed in the first place.
I think it would be a good idea to give up this year and start thinking about what to do next year if asked.

I may have written before
First of all, within the financial capacity of the other party.
I appeal to my partner that I have what I want, but
I never ask you to buy it.
That's the basics.

If the other person likes the person asking the question
I also want to give something as a gift if it's something that someone wants.
Are you able to behave in a way that attracts your attention on a regular basis?
And are you clearly communicating what you want?

Don't just say what you want, ask them to go see it with you.
(I think there are many reasons, such as it being difficult to live alone or wanting to see the real thing together.)
That's the important thing.

If they still didn't buy it, was it more than the other party's financial strength?
I think it means that the person asking the question didn't like it that much yet.

Life doesn't end this year.
Please do your best.

• Answer date: 2023/11/13 16:18

• iine

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