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Question date: 2023/11/07 08:26

It's been half a year since I started working as a dad here.

If someone you meet regularly says, ``I'm thinking of preparing a Christmas present,'' does that mean you should save your plans around Christmas?
Or maybe they just want to exchange Christmas gifts?

Also, what is the appropriate budget for gifts?

Generally, I receive around XNUMX yen per day.

I would like you to give me some reference information.

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  • Age: 20s
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Harupiko

I think it would be better to check this in the end,
XNUMX.I don't know if it will be around Christmas, but I think they would like to give her a present soon.However, with things like Eve, there is a risk that the male family will find out, so I think it's around that time.
1000.When it comes to gifts, women are basically fine with just receiving them.Men also have trouble taking it home when they receive it, so I think it would be better to just have some feelings or some light chocolate or cookies.I wonder if it's really 2000 yen or XNUMX yen.Or hand cream etc.

I hope you get a nice present, please do your best.

  • Answer date: 2023/11/07 12:11
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Paper

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>Do you mean that I should clear my plans around Christmas?

I think most people avoid it because they usually spend time with their lovers and family.
If a woman doesn't have a boyfriend, she may meet with her father, and some may say this to appeal.



>Or do you think they want to exchange gifts for Christmas?

Normally, I don't think there are many cases where you just give it to your father and exchange it.Even if you exchange it, the difference in price is likely to be between 10 and 100 times.Like a clock and cookies...

  • Answer date: 2023/11/07 09:20
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Fuu

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Ah~ Daddy too
I'm giving you a present
I wish I could quit
We're starting to feel bad for each other
I can only have a hunch

I have to adjust the amount etc.
I thought I could have gotten something better
Even though I gave you something so good
I feel like I'll have some regrets

ask dad what's good
Please tell the person asking the question what you want.
How much do you budget for each other?
Please look for it and check it out carefully.
I hope you're safe

  • Answer date: 2023/11/07 22:20
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Seattle

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 my intuition

 You don't have to clear your plans around Christmas.If you're a guy who seems to like events, should you leave one of 12/22 12/23 12/24 12/25 open?I'll ask you now.

 
 I think gifts from women should be between 2,000 yen and 10,000 yen.If it were me, I'd rather ask for cosplay or a massage than anything else.

  • Answer date: 2023/11/07 09:23
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Maezawa (Staff)

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thanks for your questions.
Maezawa will also answer.

It's ambiguous to say "I'm willing to prepare" instead of giving you a present.
I can't say anything at this stage, but

Maybe how many presents do you want?
If it's expensive, you may not feel like preparing, but if it's within your budget, you may decide to prepare.

I feel like it would have been better to just have a normal conversation.
If you exaggerate your joy, the man will be more prepared and willing to give it to you.

For now, we may have to wait and see.
I think it would be a good idea to find out how deep that feeling is in the conversation.

I never thought of asking for a gift exchange.
There may be some people like that
It may be a good idea to prepare something that costs between a few thousand yen and XNUMX yen.

If it's between a few thousand yen and XNUMX yen, the other person might not prepare a gift after all.
Even if you don't have to replace it, I think you won't be disappointed if it's like this.
This is because the other person thinks that the amount is not a big issue, but the feeling is important.

It doesn't really matter if it's cheap or expensive.
I'm glad that you were considerate in giving me a gift that was carefully selected.

Even if the other party has provided it and the difference in price is large,
I don't think you need to worry about that.

There may be some men who are greedy and want something of the same price.
I think you're just misunderstanding.

I think such men should do it with regular lovers instead of going to dating clubs.

>Do you mean that I should clear my plans around Christmas?

Regardless of whether or not I get a present, I think we'll meet around Christmas.
I think it's a good idea to casually ask them in conversation what day they plan to meet.

Generally, the night of the 24th will be full, so the daytime of the 24th, the 23rd, the 22nd etc.
I feel like we'll meet on slightly different days.
I think that depends on the relationship between the two people.

>What is the appropriate budget for gifts?

What is appropriate varies from person to person.
I think it would be a good idea for the person asking the question to think about how much money they would be willing to give without disclosing it, even if the other person did not receive it even if they gave it to them.

I thought it would be a few thousand yen to 1 yen above.
Depending on the person, tens of thousands to 5
More than 10...I think that feeling is completely different.

However, considering the recipient's annual income, I thought it was quite expensive and bought it.
From the other party's point of view, there is a possibility that you can return at any time.

I think it's a good idea to think about what kind of gift you want to give, without going overboard with your budget.


  • Answer date: 2023/11/07 09:22
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Kazu

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I don't know what strangers are thinking.
I think it would be best to ask the person in question.

  • Answer date: 2023/11/07 08:57

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