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Question date: 2023/09/22 05:41

Let me ask you a question.

Almost all of the men I've met through Universe Club or the Daddy-Katsu app say that when we meet for the first time, they'll ask me if we're physically compatible because it's important for us to be physically compatible.

I know it's a sexual relationship, but is it something you can tell a woman you're meeting for the first time because physical compatibility is important?

When I meet a man for the first time and think he's nice and I'd like to meet him again, it becomes difficult to talk about allowances (amount).I really want this much, but if I say it clearly, I wonder if people will hate me?I get confused thinking about it.On the other hand, if you think you can end things with this person, clearly tell him the amount of allowance you want.

So, if I'm told straight up that physical compatibility is important, does that mean that the men I've met so far haven't liked me?

It's often said that men are careful about what they say to a woman they really like and don't easily touch her, right?

Can you tell a woman you think is beautiful that physical compatibility is important? (I'm not saying I'm a nice woman.)

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basil

They say it's a prerequisite for an adult relationship, but don't say it outright like if you're physically compatible.
Of course, that's what I think, but I don't want it to seem like I'm being stubborn, and if things don't work out, I can just end it there.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/22 18:42
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Marika

No matter how beautiful you are and how much you like him, physical compatibility is important, and if a man thinks that this is an essential condition for finding a partner at a dating club, he will probably say that.
Whether you can say that or not is not your standard.

Marika

  • Answer date: 2023/09/22 06:33
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If you think that this woman is wonderful and would like to meet her again, it becomes difficult to talk about allowance (amount).If I really like it, I won't talk about the allowance.
On the other hand, if you think you can end things with this person, I will clearly tell you the amount of your allowance.


I believe that physical compatibility and the process we have had together are important,

I don't think I've ever told anyone that physical compatibility is important.


  • Answer date: 2023/09/22 10:37
Male member

Die

Men aren't really looking for women they like.

Wouldn't it be a problem for the person asking the question if you were told that you were looking for a woman you really like?

Please understand that, like me, there are many men in the club who are looking for women who can enjoy adult relationships.

There are some men who would like to enjoy company over a meal once in a while...

That's why physical compatibility is important.On top of that, I think I'd be happy if I could get along with a woman when I met her.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/23 10:28
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Maezawa (Staff)

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thanks for your questions.
Maezawa will also answer.

>When we meet for the first time, I say that physical compatibility is important, so I would like to meet someone if we are physically compatible.

Speaking of Universe Club, there are relationship types.
If you're in a relationship type A or B1, I don't think you'll be told this from the first day.
If it's B2, some people might say that, but since we break up for dinner on the first day, I think we'll talk about physical compatibility from the next time onwards.

So, if you ask me, I think the person asking the question is setting the relationship type incorrectly.

>If you think this guy is nice and would like to meet him again, it becomes difficult to talk about allowances (amount).

If it was an app, wouldn't we talk about money before we meet?
If not, how much should we get into a physical relationship before we meet?
I don't think the person asking the question will be bothered if you tell them how much the meal is.

>Men say that they are careful about what they say to women they really like and don't easily touch them, right?

Is that so?
That is the questioner's opinion, and I cannot say whether it is the man's opinion or not.
I think there are some men like that, but I feel like there are more men who don't.

In the first place, I don't really understand the definition of someone you really like.
Does it mean someone you want to marry?

Even if you are thinking about marriage, I think physical compatibility is important.
I feel like there are a lot of people who get divorced because they are not physically compatible.
(Or, I don't think they'll get divorced, but I feel like they'll look for a physical relationship elsewhere.)

>Can you tell a woman you think is beautiful that physical compatibility is important?

I think whether you say it or not is a different matter.
I think some people don't realize the importance of physical compatibility.
In the first place, if you just want to get married legally, physical compatibility may not be necessary.

I think this will vary depending on each person's thoughts.

Does the person in question register for a dating club to find a marriage partner?
If that's the case

I think it would be better to register with a marriage agency.
On the other side, in order to have an adult relationship, you have to pay the marriage fee and withdraw from the membership.
Basically, I think it becomes an adult relationship after getting engaged.


  • Answer date: 2023/09/22 07:17
Male member

It's My

In terms of what you want from your partner
For men who prioritize physical compatibility
I can understand the man's behavior.

This is a question of values
I don't think it has anything to do with your charm.

If your values ​​match
We'll have a good relationship
If values ​​don't match
I think it's good at first, but then it gets harder and harder.

It's My

  • Answer date: 2023/09/22 15:46
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Fuu

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I also believe that physical compatibility is important in order to continue.
I thought about it, but I never said it out loud.
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Because our bodies are not compatible
An adult's request for something like this
If you don't answer, I won't see you next time.
Because there was no need to say it.

For women who want to continue
Be careful in many places
Not just words and actions, but also appearance and behavior
Observe the other person carefully and avoid doing anything unpleasant.
I'll be careful


  • Answer date: 2023/09/25 12:17

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