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    The other day, I started a relationship with a man who offered me an offer, but without my consent...

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Question date: 2023/09/13 11:34

Hello, I'm a female member of Universe.
The other day, I started a relationship with a man who offered me a relationship, but he did it without my consent and without contraceptives.

Before we started dating, we talked at a cafe, and at that time the man negotiated with me about contraceptives and how much they would cost, and I agreed.
After that, we headed to the hotel, and while we were dating, someone said to me, ``If you wear a rubber band, you're not good enough for me,'' but I reminded her to wear it just in case, so I used contraceptives at first.
However, halfway through the pregnancy, the man said, ``Look, it's getting worse. I can't do anything without this,'' and removed the contraceptive.
I repeatedly told him that he should wear a rubber band, and that if he didn't, I wouldn't see him again, and that he should stop, but the man said, ``Other girls from other universes also told me to wear a rubber band at first, but in the end, they said it's okay to wear it raw.'' "It's okay, I've never made a mistake before, so it's okay, it feels better for a woman to be raw, it's okay, it's okay," I said over and over again, but he was already inside me and forced me to do it raw.

Since we were alone in a closed room, I didn't blame the man any further because I was afraid that he might get upset or something like that, which has been seen on the news recently.
After that, we received 5 allowances as originally promised and disbanded.


〇I have a question.
1.Will the club take any action in such a case?
2. Or will it be a free love affair after the setting, so there will be no involvement?
3.Isn't it a crime?

I have left the following conversation on LINE, thinking it might serve as evidence.
Me: I didn't like that they had promised to use contraceptives at first, but then they left me without them without my consent.
Man: I'm sorry, but next time I'll do as I promised at the beginning.

When we were talking at the cafe, he was very talkative and I had fun talking to him, and he even asked for contraceptives, so I trusted him, so I didn't realize he was that kind of person, and I was very surprised.

Sorry for the long time.
I apologize if the text is disorganized and difficult to understand.
I would appreciate it if you could answer.
Thank you.

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question answerAnswers: 7

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Mac

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I've collected evidence of this on the line, so if I go to the police, wouldn't it be forced sex?
If it were me, I would consult a lawyer, have the lawyer check the male member's identity with UNIVA, and then send a letter to the man saying, ``I'm thinking of filing a complaint,'' and request compensation. Is it about 100 million yen?Even if you pay the lawyer's fees, it will probably be a plus.
Be careful if you or a male friend of yours try to negotiate, because if you do poorly, you will be charged with intimidation.In any case, it's a good idea to keep the evidence.It was great, it was great (yoshiyoshi).

  • Answer date: 2023/09/13 12:06
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Kazu

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What kind of response would you like the club to take?

As Mr. Mac says, I think it was forced sex, so why not ask a lawyer or someone else to try and negotiate a settlement?

  • Answer date: 2023/09/13 12:10
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basil

I think there are some men who want life.
He's a terrible person to break a promise later,
If you really don't like it, don't just say it, do something like get out of bed.
They didn't put it in by force, did they?
I think he was hesitant to take a firm stance due to the weight of money.
Instead of complaining about things like this later, if you're going to do something like this, you have to be strong.

I don't think there's much benefit to telling the club, other than the fact that the reputation of men will be lowered.
I don't know much about criminal law, but I think receiving money has a negative effect.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/13 13:44
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Maezawa (Staff)

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thanks for your questions.
Maezawa will also answer.

＞1.In such a case, will the club take any action?

I think I can consult with you.
I don't quite understand what the person asking the question wants me to do.
For example, if you want me to ask you to wear rubber bands from now on, I might be able to just tell you.
By telling this to a man, there is a possibility that your future relationship will end.
There is also a possibility that men will resent you.

＞2, Or will it be a free love affair after the setting, so there will be no involvement?

The club will be involved to the extent possible.
For example, if you were hit by a man, I think you could force him to leave the membership.
I'm not a lawyer, so I think it would be difficult to sue the other party for damages.


＞3.Isn't it a crime?

The court decides whether it is a crime or not.
Therefore, it is difficult to determine whether it is a crime or not.
If you think you are guilty of a crime, I think you should talk to the police or a lawyer.
I think both the police and lawyers will take into account past cases and decide whether or not it seems like a crime.

However, the police are busy, so they may not be able to listen to you very kindly.
In that case, I think it would be better to consult a lawyer, even if it costs money.

Personally, I think it would be a crime, but I don't think it would be prosecuted.
In that case, as Mr. Mac said, consult a lawyer.
I think it would be better to move toward obtaining compensation from the other party.

Even if you are not indicted, you will be questioned.
I think I can put pressure on my opponent.
If you do that, I think you will want to reach a settlement to avoid being prosecuted.
I feel like it would be better to move forward with a settlement payment.

However, if he is willing to wear rubber bands in the future, I think it may be more beneficial to continue our relationship.
Make sure to record it next time
I think it's better to have a direct conversation as evidence even if the rubber band is removed midway through.

I think he's a man who can't help but be sued if he takes it off again.
There is no room for sympathy, so I will receive compensation without dating.
I think this is a good format.

By the way, even if you are a lawyer, you need to find a lawyer who is on the side of women.
I don't think it will work out, so I wonder how I can find such a lawyer.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/13 14:17
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Joe Rubicon

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I'm very sorry, but I think it would take a lot of determination to punish that man.

I think it's best to stop expecting too much from the club.However, it is the person asking the question to report what actually happened.Let's force him to resign.
As Mac said, if you ask someone other than a lawyer, the person asking the question may become a criminal, so be careful.
Even if you go to the police, there is a possibility that they won't take your case seriously (I think the experience of the person asking the question is similar), even if you were raped.Because they are receiving allowances.This is the same even if you sue, and according to my knowledge, unless you have sufficient evidence, your sue will not be accepted, and since you are receiving allowances, it may work against you.
In the first place, choosing a lawyer is difficult.If the other party also has a lawyer, things will basically be handled by the power relationship between the lawyers.

I have said that I am prepared for the above points.
I'm sorry to hear that, but you won't be sharing a bed with that old man anymore.

A final aside.
What happens if a customer tries to insert a rubber at a soapland without putting it on?It seems like there are various stages, but in the past, someone who got mad at you eventually came and beat you up.It's just a story from the past, but I'm thinking that it might not change even now.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/13 21:30
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Seattle

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After all, you have to pay the money in advance.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/13 12:51
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Akari


Such a man
I will definitely do it raw again next time.

And again
I'm sorry

Is repeated

As long as we don't meet
If you really want to give a penalty,
You have no choice but to be prepared and come out strong.

To avoid becoming the same victim
I would like you to report this to the club.
The only way to deal with that would be to leave it up to the club, as the company would probably have some sort of agreement in place for such intervention.


  • Answer date: 2023/09/14 07:48

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