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Question date: 2023/08/11 01:38

I am inexperienced as a dad.
Normally, I think everyone thinks as an adult, but I haven't had any such experience yet, I'm unfamiliar with it, and I'm hesitant to register because I don't know if there's a demand in the first place.
I don't have confidence in my body, so I'm worried if I'll be satisfied.
Can't you ask for a child like this?

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Kazu

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I thought Mr. Mack's answer was sharp, so I answered it.

I have no interest in sex inexperienced people.
Because it's just annoying.
However, there are people in the world who have tastes that are the exact opposite of mine, so there are people who prefer unfamiliar women.

I have never seen a woman who seemed to be confident in her body and was really amazing.
No matter how good the style is, the human body can sag if it bends down.
Even people with XNUMX% body fat and big abs will sag if they bend over.
I've slept with a XNUMX-digit woman who calls herself a masterpiece, but I've never thought it was really amazing.

This is my personal issue,
>In the first place, I think there are many people in the world who have no or weak romantic feelings.I'm probably one of them.
I'm probably one of them.
Maybe that's why I think there are many people who don't have romantic feelings for me, or who think that sex and romantic feelings are different things.
Isn't it just imprinted with Christian values ​​to have sex with a romantic partner?

Also, I think that making friends and respecting each other are different emotions than romantic feelings.
Generally speaking, love is not such a rational thing, it's a state of getting high with dopamine.
Personally, I think that saying you can't have sex without being in love is the same as saying you can't have sex without getting drunk, and that it only cloudes your judgment.
If you say that being drunk is human, I think there may be some people who think so, but as someone who hates getting drunk, I can't agree with the majority.

If it is advice that it is better to choose and accept the partner at first, it makes sense.
However, I think that allowance dating is also something that women choose and agree with.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/11 11:59
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Die

I may not be confident, but I feel "thank you" just by dedicating my first time to myself.

Don't worry about that.

Considering the pain of sexual intercourse, the experience value of having sex with a partner for the first time is great.

It's the same as having a wisdom tooth extracted.

Devoting faith to a loved one may be a cruel story for a woman who doesn't show up.

Personally, it's a pity that my boyfriend, who I still don't like very much, doesn't like sex because I'm badly beaten.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/11 13:23
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Shirosa

Good evening! My name is Shirousa.
"Such" means that you have no experience with men.
rest assured.An experienced female dandy is waiting for you.
They will guide you gently.surely.

The same is true of demand.
There must be a lot of people who like chubby, like cute and cute.
In general, there are many people who are good-looking only for those who say "I don't have confidence".
Even if you don't have confidence in your appearance, it's the gentlemen who decide it.

Dare to go to the interview!
You may find a new Jibun.
I will be waiting.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/11 02:01
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Mac

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Hello, this is Mr. Mac, a nurturing dad.
Recently, I got a reverse offer from this questioner (virgin) and am dating.
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/15694
It seems that the story I wrote in this answer column will be realized exactly as it is, and tonight is the third Hapbar with this questioner.Last time, I asked three young boys to wash my body in the bathroom.As for when the graduation ceremony will be held, I plan to enjoy the "virgin's aging" a little more.
This questioner said, "I don't have any thoughts like 'I want to be with someone I like first because I'm a virgin! It seems that she was worried about it, and she confessed to her in high school and had a boyfriend, but even kissing and hugging didn't spark any excitement, and she was so sorry that she refused to continue the relationship.She has never had sex alone and has never felt sexual desire.
When I actually touch my body, it gets wet a lot, and I've never put a tampon in my vagina, so I put it on my clitoris. I feel likeAt least not asexual.
It's not written in Univa's profile, but she's a girl who's in high school in a certain individual competition, so when I told her, "Papa activities are club activities, think of me as a coach." is.There are many ways to break into a girl's heart.
I haven't counted, but in Univa alone, about XNUMX virgins graduated.Don't get me wrong, I'm not particular about the physical first inserter.It is similar to the feeling of wanting to get used to the high rotation of the engine by driving around in a new car.We don't just want to be the first to drive a new car.I hope that someday I will have a relationship with the person who asked this question.

PS
I learned the concept of "aromantic asexuality" from my daughter. It corresponds to Q in LGBTQ.
That's what I thought, but when it comes to talking about virgins like this, many respondents say, ``At first, it's a person who fell in love with a normal romance.''
In the first place, I think that there are many people in the world who have no or weak romantic feelings.I'm probably one of them.
There is no particular inconvenience if there is no romantic feeling.When I say that there are no inconveniences, it's not for me personally, but for the human species.
I mean, even if you don't have romantic feelings, if you have sexual desire, you can save seeds, right?
What kind of rational purpose does romantic feelings have for the creature called humans?do you really need this?
There is no problem even if there is no sexual desire on the woman's side.If men have sexual desire, then the species can be preserved.
That's why I even think that "aromantic asexual" women shouldn't even be classified as LGBTQ and should be categorized as completely normal.
It's not like we're completely denying relationships just because we get along over meals and respect each other.It would be fun in its own way, and the so-called "human" thing would be fine, but the stereotyped majority opinion of "First you fall in love with the other person and then have sex for the first time" is simply the majority. Just because it's a faction, isn't there a rational basis for pressing minorities to convert?That's what I'm talking about.

A girl who wants to graduate from a virginity in a dating club like this is by no means such a lighthearted thought. The answer is just raising the hurdle, but I feel pathetic.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/11 07:42
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Maezawa (Staff)

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thanks for your questions.
Maezawa will answer.

If the part you're hesitating about isn't that your first partner is a good lover
Whether or not you have experience with men, it all depends on the individuality of the person who asked the question.

It's up to each person what the other person thinks.
If you are looking for technique in H, I don't think you will associate with someone who doesn't have technique.
If you want to enjoy socializing with people
I think it's important to have fun together.

On the other hand, some people like virgins.
Some men will offer you if your profile says you are a virgin.

Because there are various men
I don't think you'll know if you'll receive an offer until you actually register.

And just because you dated, this person is only for virginity and doesn't look at you
So if you thought that there was no relationship after that,
You can refuse adult relationships.

I think you should start by registering.

It's good to think of others
I don't think it's good to think only of H.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/11 10:12
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Paper

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Serious men want serious women.If it's a club, it's even easier to find the opposite (non-serious) woman.

You can also find different types.


There are men who are not serious and various men, and there are many different types of women, such as the same type and vice versa, so the existence value is rich in variety.


By joining one questioner, the variety will expand.It's also more likely.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/11 14:38

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