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    The person who received the offer for the first time was more beautiful than I imagined, and when I went to eat, it was elegant.

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Question date: 2023/07/05 14:14

I have a question about food and adult dating.

The person who received the offer for the first time had a better appearance than I imagined, and when I went to eat, I had an even better impression that he was elegant and had a good personality.

I'm not in a position to choose because of my age, but I'm presumptuous...
I changed my relationship type from B1 to B2, thinking that even if my first impression was that I was tough on the outside, I thought it would be possible for me to change my mind about the first meal, conversation, and personality.

Conversely, is it possible for a male member to do that to a female member?

I usually have a photo, so it may be rare for me to be disappointed with my appearance, but I use a blurred photo.
In the past answers, there was a description that some people were offered with blurry photos, so I would like to know if it is possible to make up for it with conversation and consideration, even if the actual product does not meet expectations.

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  • Member: Universe Female Member
  • Member ID: 88593
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Male member

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>I would like to know if it is possible to make up for it with conversation and consideration, even if the actual product does not meet expectations.

I can't recover.
However,
Because we don't judge by appearance alone,
In terms of overall atmosphere,
You could call it the feeling of comfort you get when you're together,
I cherish things like compatibility.

For the past XNUMX years, I have never made an offer to become a member.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/05 20:16

Kazu

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Even if the photo is blurred, the class can still make a guess.
Personally, I find gummy smiles to be physiologically unacceptable, but I think that in many cases you can't tell if a photo isn't blurry.

In my case, a gummy smile is physiologically bad for me, so I can't make up for it with a little or soft conversation.

I don't ask for attention from my dating partner in the first place, so it doesn't matter.
I'm tired of that, so I don't go there, but when I want it, I go to the night shop.

By the way, dating clubs are not sex shops, so I think women can choose a partner regardless of age.
I personally don't like people who humble themselves by saying they're presumptuous in a place like this because they look polite and rude.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/05 14:30
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Die

Even if the real thing does not meet expectations, it is unlikely that it will develop into an adult relationship.

However, while presumptuous, there is no such thing as a perfect partner, and the male side also compromises to some extent.

It might be like a woman compromising on a man's allowance.

That being said, in my case, I don't feel like I'm making progress just because a woman's conversation and attention are good.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/05 23:05
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Maezawa (Staff)

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>Is it possible for a male member to do that to a woman?

I'm making an offer based on the photos, so I don't think you'll be disappointed in the first place.
There are rare voices that the photos are too good, so
In that case, I think I'm starting from a little disappointing place.

However, if that is the case
If you are a woman who is fun to talk to, a woman who is attracted to something, etc.
Paper disappointments are quickly recouped.

Because unlike the app, we post unprocessed photos
Even if the picture is good, in the end it's the person himself
Because it is possible to see the same expression as the photo if you are with a woman.

If you can see a moment with the same expression from the same angle as the photo
I think you can see that it is the same as the photo.

>I'm a blurred photo

Isn't it ok to show the person who offers you a picture without blurring?
I think that there will be people who will be disappointed when they meet if they meet with a blurred photo.
I think it's quite difficult to cover the other side.

However, men who care less about their appearance
Because there are men who value content
if such a man

I think you can recover during the conversation.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/05 23:30
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Paper

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It is exactly as Maezawa-san wrote.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/06 00:27

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