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Question date: 2023/01/09 20:25

Please let us know what you think.Sorry for the long post.

Last month, I communicated with two men (Mr. A and Ms. B) on a papa katsu site, and they both promised to meet this month.

Mr. A received a message from Mr. A, saying that he is looking for a woman who lives in Tokyo and goes to the prefecture where I live once a month for work, so on January 1th, I'm going there on the 1th, so can we meet?I was told to meet him on the 6th.I will contact you when it gets closer.I didn't hear from you even the day before, so I asked if tomorrow will be okay as planned.When I sent it, it became read, and then I withdrew.I've exchanged dozens of letters since we started exchanging messages, and even though I've sent him a Merry Christmas message on Christmas, this is the situation.

Mr. B also received a message from Mr. B, and the exchange started.It's from the next prefecture, so there's a distance, but is it okay?When I hear that, it's okay because it's within the work pattern.I was told that he would come to my hometown on January 1th, so we decided to meet.I thought it would be safer to know the face, so I sent a picture and sent it to me.After that, I exchanged dozens of letters and was told that I would leave the shop to you, so I looked for a shop, how about here?If you send it, let's do it here.I understood.When I replied, it became clear and a few days passed.When I sent it, it became read, and then I withdrew.

How should we take this? (smile)
Is it ridicule?
I was going to meet you, but did it become troublesome?
How do you interpret it?
I'm confused (laughs)

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sunflower

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That's chilling, isn't it?
It depends on which site it is.
You can meet quite a lot.
It's not a dad life app, but it's pretty fun.

It might be scary or painful, but why don't you try it for about two months?

I'm still going through trial and error- ̗̀ ( ˶'ᵕ'˶) ̖́-

  • Answer date: 2023/01/11 20:28
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date ◎ dream

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I can't say anything in words, but
Wouldn't it be better to interpret that I was going to meet you, but it was troublesome?

If I had promised to meet you, I would certainly go, but...

  • Answer date: 2023/01/09 20:36
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Kazu

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In this case, I think it's almost the same thing that you wanted to meet with a ridicule, but it became troublesome.

The Papa Katsu site does not require a setting fee or is cheap, so I think everyone is doing it like that.

By the way, I tried it too, but when I didn't feel like it, I stopped replying.

In the case of this question, I think it was a mistake to set the date across years.

  • Answer date: 2023/01/09 20:43
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Die

Since it is an app, there is no big negative for me even if I cancel at the last minute.

I thought I would meet you, but maybe I was just scared.

Today's young women have little resistance to dating apps, but many uncle generations have a negative image.

In Universe Club, women are forced to withdraw if they cancel the setting date at the last minute.

Men also spend a reasonable amount of money to set up.

I think that's why we don't lose promises easily.

  • Answer date: 2023/01/09 21:39
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Marika

I think that the dad active site is just that kind of thing.
Unlike dating clubs that require money and time to set up and exchange themselves, exchange a lot of light and friendly messages, and if you get along well with someone you like more, what will happen to the next person? I don't think we will meet.
Or, when you met someone else, you were treated badly and left because you were discouraged.
Every time I hear about the dad live site, I think that the dating club is much better because there is no such hassle.
It seems that there are rare people who give an allowance equivalent to that of a dating club, but in general, the allowance seems to be small, so I think that dad activity sites are a waste of time.

Marika

  • Answer date: 2023/01/09 22:08
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Fuu

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the site is not like that
Isn't the matching app like that too?

I have to count
I can't seem to find a good encounter

the questioner
If you have a certain amount of appearance
If you like
come to the club here

  • Answer date: 2023/01/09 22:19
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adventure merchant

I used to use the Papa-katsu site, and I actually had the experience of canceling at the last minute, so...
If I interpret it in my own way

I think there are two features of the Papa Katsu site.
1. Very short time between first messaging and meeting
2. Most of the time, you are exchanging messages with multiple people

2 points.

If the questioner thinks that ``I can exchange messages with this man,'' then it is reasonable to think that the man is good at messaging, so he is talking to many other women.

Even if you have decided on a specific date to meet with the questioner, you will not refrain from messaging with other people, so there are cases where the date to meet with another woman is decided before the date of meeting the questioner. There is

Against the background of
I met another woman on the schedule before meeting the questioner, and I liked the woman, so I withdrew and showed sincerity to the woman.

That's my interpretation.

If you haven't met them yet, they don't know your face, name, or phone number, so I think it's a feature of the site that you can unexpectedly cancel at the last minute.

From the questioner's point of view, ``What a dishonest person to skip a promise! ], but
Before the questioner, the woman who actually met said, ``What a sincere person to withdraw immediately after meeting me! I think it will be.

It happens often.
Don't be gloomy.

*On the site, it's definitely better to meet early, so
Please arrange a meeting date as soon as possible.If you interact this month and meet next month, you'll be taken to another woman without knowing it.

  • Answer date: 2023/01/09 22:50
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Maezawa (Staff)

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I think it's chilling.

If you are interested in meeting, you can meet at the meeting.

In the case of apps, it seems that the trader considers amateurs as rivals, or is trying to eradicate amateurs.
I don't think I'm doing that kind of ridicule.
If you do that, ordinary women will disappear from there because they can't meet with apps.
In the end, only the contractors will remain, so I think it will be easier for the contractors to work.

For those who don't know if they are a trader or who don't like being ridiculed
I think dating clubs are better suited.

A person with vitality who thinks that it is enough to interact with 100 people and meet 5 people
I hope the app will work as well.

  • Answer date: 2023/01/10 07:56

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