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Question date: 2022/12/18 11:16

My period is heavy and my stomach pain is unbearable.I got my period today.I plan to have tea tomorrow.It's the first time I've met my partner, but I actually had an appointment to meet him before.However, I developed a fever and was unable to meet with him.
If I decline tomorrow as well, it will be like a second last-minute cancellation.What should I do ૮( ̳ т ̫ т ̳ )ა

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Male member

adventure merchant

What if I get canceled twice at the last minute.
[Is it really caused by illness or heavy menstruation?I don't want to see you, so maybe I'm using a fake illness] I think.
And
[If it's really sick or organized, the timing is too bad.Maybe I didn't have a connection with this person] I also think.

As a result, we will end without meeting.

What should I do?
[I have no choice but to tell you as it is].
After that, it's a matter of whether the other man wants to readjust the schedule and meet, so I don't think it's a situation where the questioner can do anything.
If you can't meet and it's over, please give up that you didn't have a relationship.



  • Answer date: 2022/12/18 12:11
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potashumu

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This is Umu Potashi, a female member.

As other respondents say
I don't think it will give very good results.

I just don't think it's a good idea to put a burden on your body.
It is important to determine which one is more important...

Personally, if menstrual pain is that heavy,
Including the pill after being examined at the obstetrics and gynecology department,
It's better to get a prescription for a medicine that's right for you
I think it's better than being patient.

I once fainted due to severe menstrual pain, so when I went to see an obstetrician and gynecologist, they told me about future risks, and gave me medicine, which made my menstrual pain much easier. became.

So, first of all, before dad life
I think it's more efficient to start working as a dad after getting ready to be in perfect physical condition because the schedule will go well....

This is my own opinion.

  • Answer date: 2022/12/18 22:56
Female member

Misato

The problem of physical condition is the pain that only the person understands
I think there is.
However, for those who took the promised time
I have feelings and plans.

If it were me, I'd take pain killers.
But I don't recommend it.
While you don't know who I am yet
We value building relationships of trust.

Of course I take care of myself, but
The feeling of caring for others
I don't think this is the only activity.




  • Answer date: 2022/12/18 20:43
Female member

Phosphorus

I think the only thing you can do is tell your partner.

You may be distrustful, but this is also a fate, so even if someone else thinks that way and you offer someone else, it's not the same.I have to think.
If you can't trust me even with that, then you probably won't be able to understand me in the future when the same thing happens.

And is it possible for the other person to go out with a person whose physical condition deteriorates so quickly?Isn't that what you think?
I think it's all about timing and encounters, so if you wait and meet again, I feel like we'll be able to build a good relationship.


I will let the staff know what to do.Or if it is a letter date, tell the other party as it is and propose another date.
Or you can force yourself to meet.
You only have these two options.My period is heavy and hard, and I know it will be hard on the second day, so I don't think I can force it.

  • Answer date: 2022/12/18 12:50
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Maezawa (Staff)

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>If I decline tomorrow, it will be like a second cancellation.

It's not something like that, it's just two cancellations.
However, I believe that there is a proper reason.
I think it would be best to pass it on as is.

However, if it is usually canceled twice in a row
I think there is a high possibility that people will think that there was no connection and that it will end there.

Even if you say you don't like it
When it becomes impossible to force yourself to go out for tea
I can't think of any other way.



  • Answer date: 2022/12/18 22:48
Female member

Nana Ayase

Canceling twice is going to be a farewell.

Even if you cancel once, there will be people who say goodbye

I thought you were waiting for me...

Menstrual pain It's better if you do the old rag pose
When I was working at the hospital, I was in pain and often hid.try it

  • Answer date: 2022/12/18 21:05
Male member

Kazu

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I think it's fine to say it as it is.
I don't think the other man can't help it either.

So even if the connection is cut off, it means that there was no connection.

  • Answer date: 2022/12/18 11:51
Male member

Die

Depending on the other person's feelings, it's not surprising that two consecutive reschedulings could lead to a breakup immediately.

If the questioner doesn't want to cut ties with that person, let's go to that place tomorrow even if it hurts.

So, I think it's best to explain the situation, promise another day, and say goodbye.

As for the future, it's a good idea to let them know in advance because you know that the date may be your period.

  • Answer date: 2022/12/18 13:23
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Seattle

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A woman who wants an answer, but write it down.

If you're a very nice guy, write that you definitely want to see him for the third time, please, please, and send him as many days as possible.

  • Answer date: 2022/12/18 16:25
Male member

Fuu

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I can't help it this time, so maybe I should tell you
think

But if it's just me, I'll be canceled twice
I think I'll offer it to someone else, but...

If you have a period, if you come irregularly
For example, I can imagine that my period will not come
Please schedule a date on time

For example, around the first week of the month
If menstruation comes, consult date schedule in the third week
etc

  • Answer date: 2022/12/18 19:40
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Paper

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First, "surprise", "wow", "wow", "that's what it is"


Even if it goes very smoothly and goes extremely well, I wonder if it will continue



If you stumble at the beginning...



Well, there are times when the worst outrageous case at the beginning remains impressive (continues without problems)...


A woman vomits in the passenger seat on her first date, goes to the convenience store to get a bag, and vomits again...

Sometimes I'm late for hours due to some kind of trouble...



Telling the truth can sometimes lead to good results.

  • Answer date: 2022/12/18 14:39

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