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Question date: 2022/09/12 22:01

A girl I've been friends with for two years sent me a line saying, "I hate you. It was really painful to see you. Thank you for the worst time."I'm tired of it, so if I release it for an appropriate reason, it's a line of resentment.When I met him, he was a very good boy, so I was surprised.I thought I was happy to be dating such a good girl, but it seems that the other party was different.I don't know what was wrong with me, even though I wrote a longer sentence about my resentment.I was sent as "an insensitive old man who can't think about other people's feelings".I'm mentally shocked by the amount of abusive words that I can't imagine from the impression that I had when I actually met him.What was wrong with me?

  • gender male
  • Age: 60s
  • Member: Universe male member
  • Member ID: 98840
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Aya

From the sentence, "I'm tired of it, so if I release it for a suitable reason, it's a line of resentment," I thought that he might be the type that naturally looks down on women he's dating.

You shouldn't think even for a moment that I have the initiative because I bought a woman with my money.Attitude will be put out and distanced from women at that point.

Also, "release" is a slang term, but women are not fish.That's what it is.From now on, I hope that I can be sincere with women and have equal relationships as much as possible.


  • Answer date: 2022/09/12 22:18
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Losing man

>What was wrong with me?


Isn't this right here?Don't you usually notice?

No way, if you think "What was wrong with me" with allowance XNUMX or XNUMX, flowers will bloom in my head.
Having to be held by an old man in his 60s who is less than 5 every time is a hell on earth.

I had no choice but to meet him for the money, and I was just being nice to him for the money.

Also, a woman who passed the Universe club and can keep a daddy for two years will be popular with her generation when she goes out into the real world.
Even so, if an old man in his 60s dumps you, you'll want to use all your insults.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/12 22:46
Male member

Die

I thought it was a selfish person to release it for a random reason because I was tired of it, but I was hurt and depressed.

Next time, I would suggest that you be more honest with yourself.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/12 22:19
Female member

Ryo

This is Ryo, a female respondent.

The other woman must have felt quite sensitive about releasing it with an appropriate reason because she got tired of it.
You didn't take care of me,
I was looking down, I was taken lightly, etc.
I think it hurt quite a bit.
As a result, words of resentment came back,
Self-made, the questioner is a woman
I just let it happen.

In the future, I will look down on my partner's woman,
You take it lightly, or you can do whatever you want if you give it money
Don't think about it, be sincere as a person
I think it would be good to meet and get to know each other.

I got the same answer,
Thank you in advance.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/12 22:42
Male member

Taro

Well, there are a lot of people answering.It looks like balsan.After a long time, I met someone who I want to call "Baru-san".By the way, "Baru-san" is similar to "Abu-san". It's just that "san" is the same and it doesn't make sense in terms of ID at all lol.Abusan was also a drinker, so it's an OK ranch.

I have two things to say. (1) You were loved, (2) Think carefully about the reason for breaking up.

First (1).It must take a lot of energy to send a long, well-crafted swear word.I wouldn't do that to someone who doesn't care.The antonym of love is indifference, not hate.I think that hate is rather a fine line with love.I don't know how much I got, but when I broke up with a woman I met four years ago in a strange way, I received the same abusive emails, and that's just normal conversation. From manners to how to hand over allowances, long-form e-mails will be delivered over the course of three days.At that time, I said that I would delete my account, but after a few years, I received an email about another matter.I digress, but there is no doubt that the energy to write a long LINE = the flip side of love.Understand that first.

Next is (2). "I'm getting tired of it, so why don't you release it for some reason?"Hey, we had fun meeting you for two years, right?It's like a child throwing away a toy, so I'm bored.No, I'm not a saint, so I'll be honest, but I'm not serious, but there are women who I've been seeing for a long time.But when it became like that between a woman and a lover, I put the brakes on.I didn't say it because I wasn't serious, but I showed it with my attitude.On the other hand, if I was serious, I would have gone all out, of course.But in neither case is there a "release for good reason". 2 or 1,2 months, 2 years.I want you to think about the weight of time.

Conclusion.you are 100% wrongYou are the one who caused the incredible sudden change from the impression you had when you met.A lot of cursing is nothing but proof of how you hurt that woman.Don't blame her on women.I know you're immature and can't take it directly, but you should take the time to read the full text and gain insight into the feelings of the woman who wrote it.It's similar to the feeling you get when you soak in hot water.Just immerse yourself in your head.Think about it while your face is hot.You're not the only one who gets hurt.I'm just playing sinfully.

If you are still doing this kind of activity, you should definitely learn here.If a man is loved by a woman that much, there's no reason for him to remain an asshole with a bad ending.Let him be a man who can play beautifully and cool.Be a man that a woman can proudly say, "It was about money, but I really loved her."It has potential.So let's do our best in the rest of our lives. You're thinking, "You too," right?


Taro

  • Answer date: 2022/09/13 02:47
Female member

potashumu

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I thought I should answer before going to bed
I'm Potashiumu.

No, if I get bored and release it for the right reason
You will hate me.
because it's too heavy,
I think it's much prettier if you make people think, "This uncle is a dangerous guy, I don't want to get close to him."

She's not that nice.
Because there are many children who want money for dad life,
It's more severe than a normal relationship, maybe.

I think it's a good idea to take this opportunity to review yourself once, and since you can't find a solution even if you post in the question box, it seems better to face yourself.

This is my opinion.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/12 22:24
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Maezawa (Staff)

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>What was wrong with me?

It also oozes out from the text
stop posting to the forum
I think it starts from there.

stop posting here
I hope you will understand what you have done
I guess I will write again.

I'm sorry if it's a wet robe just because the writing style is similar
Even if you look at this sentence alone, there are no line breaks
a person who can't think of the reader
I think there is a part that

"A callous old man who can't think about people's feelings"
I don't think it can be helped even if it is said.


  • Answer date: 2022/09/12 22:58
Male member

date ◎ dream

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Oh dear,
I think that I am sending various things because it is this time,

Among them, I think there are one or two true things that I agree with.
I thought it would be good if I could reflect on this time.

P.S.
>But if you get dumped by an old man in his 60s, you'll want to do all you can to swear.
Ahaha (laughs)
loser man,
Hit!First prize! (smile) 

  • Answer date: 2022/09/12 22:07
Male member

Kazu

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I think that it was wrong to release it for a suitable reason because I got tired of it.

I mean, I don't think it's a good idea to be the kind of person who asks other people about such things.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/12 22:09
Male member

Osaka

It must have been a violation of a woman's pride and dignity.The question itself is nothing more than saying that I would be in such a relationship.It's embarrassing

I often wrote about what happened here without hesitation w
The questioner's arrogance is double traced w

It's still good if it's not the woman who gets the shock, but the self, but w well, that's why I was able to expose it w

For whatever reason, it is a shock to the other party when you break up.When we break up, we are more careful than when we are dating, so as not to hurt the other person's dignity as much as possible.Even so, there are some women who leave a throwaway line, but please be aware of that.
The fact that there were so many throwaway lines was a strong shock to the other party, and the questioner who didn't understand that was really lacking in delicacy, wasn't he?

I'm a happy person until the end lol

  • Answer date: 2022/09/13 00:10
Female member

Phosphorus

The other woman probably said in a question box a long time ago, "In a little while, everyone will break up in the worst way... Now you're a really good girl, so you'll be surprised." Was it her usual girlfriend?and.

I tried to search through past questions, but there were too many and I couldn't.
does anyone remember? !


I think we were too unreasonable to answer your question.
I don't think either one is bad.
I hope you can meet a good girl with an offer again.
It was a fun and dreamy two years, thank you!Why don't you think about it?
You've already been blocked, so there's no point in saying anything.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/13 09:20

sunflower

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People don't know ( ´・ω・`)

If you don't like it, if you block it, the other person won't be able to read it, so I think I'll give up.

Because I gave a suitable reason, maybe the woman came to Kachin?

  • Answer date: 2022/09/12 22:12
Female member

Misato

I think it was bad that I couldn't consider people's feelings.

It wouldn't have been nice to say goodbye for the right reason after dating for two years...

But I think there are many things that people don't understand.People don't always mean what they say in words, and their feelings change from time to time.
So I recommend that you don't assume that you are a good child, try to understand the other person, pay close attention to their reactions, and reflect on yourself.



  • Answer date: 2022/09/13 17:46
Male member

Early

It's amazing to say goodbye properly after dating for 2 years.
Since everyone is joking about it, I think it's fine to leave it aside, and if you've been dismissed so clearly, you don't have to draw a tail.
I'm envious.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/13 11:19
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flag maker

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Hmmm, I don't know, but I have the impression that it's Buddha.

Close the door and then fart.
Shall I fart and then close the door?
just the difference.

This time it just happened to be the latter.
However, even in the former case, he farts after closing the door.
Even the men who said, "I've never been farted before," were farted loudly after the door was closed.

The fart is there.surely.
But farts aren't that bad, actually.Do you know that?If you understand that, you can stand on a different stage.

Whatever the case, take the curse from a woman with your whole body without missing even one millimeter, and feel it with your nipples binging, big brother.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/13 00:52
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Mac

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If I were to reflect on it, it would be my own naivety that I caught such a mine woman.I'm not that far either, but I've had some bad cuts.Even remembering it makes me hungry.

If I dare to say, "I got tired of it, so I released it with an appropriate reason" This is not good.Because I wrote a poor excuse, didn't I get irritated even more?You can easily delete unread.No matter how long the line is sent, if you read it, you lose.

PS
Everyone is critical of the questioner, and it's true that they're insensitive and understandable, but if you ask which one is worse, it's the woman's fault.
If you have to curse like that at the end, don't date me from the beginning!That's what I mean.If you have been receiving an allowance for two years, show your gratitude at the end.I'm getting angry like everyone else.She hates this kind of woman the most.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/12 22:20
Male member

Paper

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Don't get bored, don't date someone who gets bored


It wasn't a relationship that was boring because neither of them were attractive.


How can both of you give reasons for a boring relationship?

Don't date without being able to thank each other...

  • Answer date: 2022/09/13 00:33
Male member

Fuu

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Mutual retribution
I must repent of my deeds
Someday it will be even worse
I'll be careful too

  • Answer date: 2022/09/13 19:48