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Question date: 2022/08/25 01:27

Why do many of the respondents expose their feelings at the time just because the questioner is not in front of them?Are you out of control?Even if I want to ask a serious question, I feel like I'm being treated like an idiot.

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Female member

Camellia

Before I registered as a respondent here,
Emotional or good or bad, honest and frank
There are many people who answer without choosing words ~
I've been thinking about it.

So my answer comment motto is
"Be polite, be kind, and be honest."

But now that I am a respondent, I understand that
Although they are members of the same club, they have different opinions.
I can't believe my eyes honestly because there are people who ask me various questions
It means that there is also a question of such content.
Although I think about the answer to the question I said
I don't have the courage to answer and just look at everyone's answers...

From the point of view of the questioner, my answer
If you feel a thorn, please kindly point it out.
Personal questions are probably more likely
It will be hidden at the discretion of the staff,
Respondents can see it.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 03:27
Female member

Aya

I'm the type who doesn't give that type of answer because it's tiring to expose my emotions.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 02:04
Male member

Taro

As I wrote before, there is an instruction to the respondents, "It doesn't matter if it's not accurate, so answer as you feel."I think they value the truth that can be seen from raw conflicts rather than pre-established harmony.In my case, I actually answered while drunk, so I didn't write anything that I could say in a sober manner with the person in front of me.Every day I wake up the next morning and regret it, and if I come back here at night and give it a like, I feel a little relief every day.

Respondents are diverse, so some are silly, some agree, and some try to be helpful.It's anonymous anyway, so it's no big deal if you're treated like an idiot.It's only good if you don't look at the story after that.On the contrary, if there is a story that will be helpful, I think it would be good to incorporate it only there.

So what did you want to ask? ?

It's not embarrassing, so talk honestly with your uncle.ufufu





Taro

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 02:19
Female member

Misato

Next is Mie, the stupid answerer.

When I answer questions, I try to be as helpful as possible to the person asking the question.
That said, I'm inexperienced, so it's probably not a good answer...I'm an idiot.

I also have good self-control.
But on very rare occasions, I sting with a poison needle that I hide with a face that says I don't have any poison.
The only person I've ever stabbed is a loser lol
he's ok lol

I digress, so my favorite word is
"A wise man learns from a stone on the side of the road"
"Everyone but me is my teacher"
There is a thing called.
I think it's up to the individual to decide whether to accept the various opinions as hints for a solution or waste them.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 11:44
Male member

Paper

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I never got emotional.

I'm writing this because I think that such an answer is necessary (for the questioner).


That's why I think it's important for the person asking the question to take it calmly.Even in life, people who say bad things are more valuable.


So, stop being rude and ask Sassa a serious question.

People are represented in the text.I think it's rather a blessing to be pointed out there.

It's in that seriousness that you can get a glimpse of their true intentions, and many people see their own opportunism oozing out...






  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 02:20
Female member

Nana Ayase

Somehow, it has to be an answer that goes deep and clear and overturns the questioner's thinking.
Don't you realize that there are people who think like this?
Do you want an answer that gently embraces the questioner's feelings and caresses them?

Please be a friend of the questioner
I'm sure you won't find a breakthrough
And you can't succeed by going round and round in the same place all the time.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 06:46
Female member

Phosphorus

You want to ask a serious question, but you can't ask because you think you're being treated like an idiot.
I will not treat you like an idiot.I think you are asking questions here because you are worried about something and can't talk to real friends or acquaintances.
I wonder if there are many people who ask questions because they want various opinions.
Sometimes there are people who just want to be sympathetic or just want to express their own opinion...
I wonder if there are people who look at this when I was worried about going to the salon for an interview, or even after I registered, and think like this.I thought.
So, I'm inexperienced, but I hope I can help someone.I am answering.


I apologize if I have offended the questioner or viewers.

In my case, I don't have much experience, and I think that I may not be able to give the answer that the questioner wants, but I will write what I feel and what I think at that time.
I think we will continue to do so.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 08:02
Male member

Losing man

Problems between men and women are especially irrational.Logic doesn't exist.

In such an irrational world, if you respond rationally without feeling,

"No, I don't understand what you're saying."

It's going to be like
In the world of men and women, none of the logical answers that are accepted by everyone will work.

Because it's a muddy and emotional world that is there (papa katsu).

Also, when I actually meet them, I think they'll say, "Huh? Is this person the answerer?"
Personality is so different.on the internet and in real life.

Mr. Maezawa, who has a lot of harsh answers, actually seems to be a normal person in a good way that is disappointing.

And the bottom line.
Half of the respondents are idiots.I am the head of it.
'Cause it's kind of strange at the time the respondent does it.People who look smart are generally idiots, and idiots are idiots, huh?Does that mean that all respondents are idiots?

So if you feel like you've been treated like an idiot, we're idiots too, so don't worry about it.

Postscript
Oh, as expected of Misa, you know very well.I will reflect on it, but I will not be depressed or dislike it.
I am the type to readily admit my faults.I'm an idiot lol

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 06:52
Male member

date ◎ dream

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When I think it's a stupid question, I sometimes respond to your expectations and give a stupid answer (laughs)
but,
I don't think I'm giving an answer that reveals my emotions.

>Even if I want to ask a serious question, I feel like I'm being treated like an idiot.
Please post your question.
Read the question and then nothing else...
Oh dear,
Isn't it good?
Do you have any thoughts or opinions on that?I hope you enjoy my answer.
You might get something out of it...

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 07:31
Male member

Kazu

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If you want a safe answer that you can say in front of the person, I think it would be good to talk with your friends over a cup of tea and get them to sympathize.
I think the excellent point of this anonymous questionnaire box is that you can get frank answers because both are anonymous.
I'm an idiot if I don't know that.

By the way, I always take questions seriously.That's why I think about stupid questions.
If many of the responses seem overly emotional, I think that's being naive.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 04:18
Male member

Early

I myself am still quite immature, and I am aware that I can get emotional and be perceived as such by the other party.
Since there is also a personality problem, even if the questioner is in front of me, I may respond in the same way.

As a person asking questions, even if I think the question is serious, if the seriousness is not conveyed, I think that it is my own problem and I will reflect on it.
Even in daily life, when comparing face-to-face communication with written communication (emails, messaging tools, etc.), I feel that many people lack consideration for this in written communication.

From my point of view, this question is also for the purpose of provoking or criticizing a specific person. I thought it was a person who would want to keep his distance.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 05:41
Male member

Die

What I hate most is lies and backbiting.

Therefore, I will not post as an answer what I can say because the person is not in front of me.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 06:07
Male member

Osaka

It's Osaka with a lot of stupid answers.

The good thing about this question box is that it is realistic.
There are serious questions and stupid questions.answer too
It's up to each individual to decide what to draw from the contents of both.

I used to be a questioner before I became a respondent, but I wrote down what I wanted to know and what I wanted.
At that time, Mr. Mack's advice was quite poignant, such as look at your face in the mirror, don't get carried away because it's an illusion, and keep your legs properly.
Some people may think it's harsh even though I've never met them, but I found it very helpful, and that's how I became interested and became a respondent.

Both the respondent and the questioner are real people, and they are on equal footing, so I think that there should be no misunderstandings on both sides.
If there is a mistake, it can change depending on the mood at that time, so it is real.

Even if you were treated like an idiot, why did that happen?
You may find something there

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 10:27
Female member

Akari


It's meaningless to write only lies and beautiful things in response to a long-awaited question, right?
I think I'm choosing my words
if you accept that
I'm sorry

However, just dissing and mounting
Are you serious about your question?Am I misunderstanding you?
I don't feel like answering any questions


Akari

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 10:32
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Maezawa (Staff)

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>Even if I want to ask a serious question, I feel like I'm being treated like an idiot.

If you ask a serious question, I will give you a serious answer.

I think what the questioner feels is about the answer to the strange question.
When you see that the question is empty (if you see that it's not serious)
I feel like the answer would be something like that.

But
All respondents can be hidden if they pass through without answering
That's all I need
It seems quite difficult.

In that regard
Please feel free to ask serious questions.
You can tell if it's a serious question by looking at the question.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 08:53
Female member

Marika

I feel like I'm answering questions that are shocking to anyone, or that they don't seem to be worried, or that their Japanese is incoherent.

I usually answer questions that seem to be bothering me.

later.It may be miscellaneous if it is extremely frequent.

Marika

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 19:09
Male member

Fuu

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the questioner also
Become a Respondent
how you feel
Why don't you try it?

if you feel faint
don't ask me if you find the answer yourself
I think it's good

  • Answer date: 2022/08/25 20:37