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Question date: 2022/08/22 07:17

I love my boyfriend so much that I don't feel like being a dad.There are many people who have been dating dads for 2 years and have been dating for a long time on a yearly basis.Until now, even if I had a boyfriend, I didn't love him, and I was able to live as a dad at the same time, but I really love my current boyfriend from the bottom of my heart.He's dere dere, and he says he hates uncles, so I don't think he can imagine me having sex with him.

The reason why I'm working as a dad now is because I feel like I'm working part-time.Money is not a problem.I also love sex because his is the biggest.We're both in our early twenties, so we don't exchange money like daddy activities, but he pays for everything on dates, and he's kind, so I really don't have any complaints.
I feel like I'm only talking to my dad about my crush on him.My dad feels like a dad to me, and I don't see him as a man, so I talk about it.

I'm really unmotivated to be a daddy, and I've only been a daddy twice this month, including meals.It looks like it's going to be below 2 months for the first time.She was in a hurry until she met her boyfriend, but now she's not in a hurry.Maybe it's because my personal life is so fulfilled that I no longer need to fill it with money.
I also think that now is the time to wash your feet from being a dad.I was able to get a full facelift, and I was able to save millions of dollars.
I want to live a normal life now, but I'm still a college student, so shouldn't I turn my youth into money?I'm struggling with.How many years will it take for him to reach the amount he earns as a dad even if he goes to college and works as a full-time employee?
I don't see him as a man, but I respect him as a person.He's fun to talk to, but adults are hard.I wonder if I should endure even one to three times a month and live my life as a dad.
But every time I grow up with my dad, I close my eyes thinking that this is Mr. XX.

I think my dad thinks of me as an erotic girl who is free-spirited about sex and thinks of me separately from my dad and my boyfriend.In fact, I also have such a bright and positive response.But I really don't want to be an adult with my dad and I don't feel comfortable.But considering how easy it is to get a lot of money, I don't even have the courage to give up easily even though I've secured a route to get a lot of money.

Should I wait and save money now? (With the current investment (nisa), the stocks you can buy are limited, and you can't get a high return in a short period of time like Papa Katsu.)
Also, does a woman who is deeply in love with her boyfriend quit being a dad?
What would you do if you were

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Marika

I haven't read it much because it's long, but if you don't feel like working as a dad and you're not in trouble with money, just stop.
But I'm dazzled by the big money, so even if I stop, I'll start again.

Marika

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 08:46
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Seattle

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I read it all.

I think you should save as much as you can until you get married.Saving money is a secret no matter how good a husband you are.with a twist.There is no eternal love

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 10:09

Joe Rubicon

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Either one is fine.
But if you write it, the action you want to take has become clear, right?

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 08:00
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Misato

If I had someone I truly loved, I would think of that person first.I will not do anything to make him sad.
I don't think about my convenience.
I don't ask for anything in return.
Just make sure he has the best time.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 12:40
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Losing man

I recommend that you quit being a dad.If I miss this timing, I won't be able to quit dad activities, and even if the demand as a PJ disappears as I get older, I will be forced to become an adult at XNUMX or less each time.

I've had a boyfriend a few times with a woman I'm in a relationship with as a dad, but when I start dating with a boyfriend I really like, I'm the one who makes it a point to say goodbye.
On the other hand, if I have a boyfriend who I like but don't like as much as "I can only see this person", I will leave it to Mr. Regular to decide whether or not to continue the dad activity.So far, I'm continuing my 100% dad life.

The questioner's case clearly falls under the former (a serious boyfriend in a serious situation), so if I were the questioner's dad, I would say, "Let's break up. If you break up with your boyfriend, come home♪" and say it beautifully. Goodbye.

I'm sorry for the circumstances on my father's side, but sooner or later the time will come to say goodbye.And I want to break up in a way that doesn't hurt each other as much as possible.

"I can get a boyfriend"

It's one of the best times for both of you to say goodbye.
It is very helpful because the heartbreak is minimal here as well.It's always hard to say goodbye.

Therefore, if you want to quit dad life, it's "now".If you miss now, I think that the questioner will end his dad activity at a timing far from the best, and it may become a bitter memory.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 07:51
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Maezawa (Staff)

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It doesn't matter what you do, what do you want
That's the important thing.

Adults are hard, so
I think it's better not to overdo it.
It's not something you do with pain.
Unless you're short on money and there's no other way

With that in mind, I think you should stop.

Also, my opinion may change over time.
I think you should start again when you want to try again.

Papa life is not only about youth.
I think you can do it even if it's not now.

However, I don't know if I can meet a good dad like I am now.
Tell your current dad how you feel
I'm going to stop working as a dad, but if I want to resume it, can I contact you?
I think you can take it with you like that.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 13:26
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Early

I don't know if the girl I was dating really fell in love with her boyfriend, but "I got a boyfriend" and "I got married" are the reasons for parting.

If you are thinking of marrying that boyfriend, I think it would be a good idea to graduate from dad life here before your financial sense is bugged.
The reason is that, generally speaking, it is not very likely that the boyfriend in his 20s will be able to give the person asking the question an amount of money comparable to that of Papa Katsu, and the possibility that the person himself will earn that much is not so high.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 08:59
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Akari


If you say so, should I quit?

Akari

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 07:47
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Nana Ayase

····I was so infatuated that I almost drowned, so I was only able to watch the beginning, sorry...

If I continue to work as a dad, I think I will eventually get a venereal disease and my boyfriend will get angry and break up.
If you don't mind breaking up with your boyfriend, continue being a dad.
If no
Submit your resignation letter to Universe Club today via LINE.

It's time to quit when you find a good person.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 07:54
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Die

I can't help but feel like I'm writing a long love affair...

In the first place, if you don't like uncles, you're not suitable for dad life, so it's also for uncles who are deceived.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 08:40
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date ◎ dream

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I think you should stop.
Boyfriend, not money, you should quit if adults are hard.

Don't go into a relationship that isn't fun and has no benefits (not money).

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 08:42
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Paper

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I read them all too.


As you wish... It's better not to get along with your boyfriend.


In the first place, if you live normally on the surface, you don't need dad activities, so let's get used to it quickly.


Money is important, but do you need dad life for the questioner?'Cause I'm no longer alive

"It's absolutely impossible to live as a dad even if you have a lot of money..." It's better to have that kind of general feeling.

You will end up unable to live your own life without being able to become independent in the future.


Papa-katsu should only be done by people who are lively like a fish out of water.I don't think it's something that everyone does.


Were you lucky to know dad activity while you were young?


Is it happier to live your own life without daddy life and then do daddy life?


Is life happier without papa katsu?



Please live without getting caught up in dad activities.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 10:40
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Kazu

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It's kind of long, so I'll read only the first line and the last part and answer.

If you don't feel like working as a dad, I think you should stop.
There are women who say that they are separated from their boyfriends and dads, but everyone has their own ideas, so if the questioner doesn't think they are separated, I think you should stop doing it.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 07:38
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Osaka

Stop it, stop it!

I tried to say it like the promise of the ostrich club.

Now which one?

This is Kinnikun style w

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 08:12
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flag maker

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Whether you have a favorite boyfriend or not, whether you have a boyfriend or not, it doesn't matter!
While it can be replaced with money, replace it with money!I really like girls with that kind of mentality.personally.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 20:57

sunflower

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I agree with loser.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/22 11:27