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Question date: 2022/04/10 22:48

Do men want to choose a beautiful young woman who has nothing (18-23 years old) or a woman over the age of 25 who is somewhat educated and self-sufficient (professional, etc.)?

I'm sorry if it sounds uncomfortable, but people around me tell me that if you want to marry someone with good conditions, you should start looking for marriage as soon as possible.If you ask people around you, it seems difficult to be 25 years old ….

In my opinion, if you don't have any charm yourself, no one will come to you if you want to start looking for a marriage partner.Or do men just like young girls?smile

I'm sorry if this is not a daddy activity question, but the man I want to marry is at least 8 years older than me.This is just my preference.lol I'm 22 now.Thank you.

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  • Age: 20s
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question answerAnswers: 7

Female member

Aya

Some people say that it is difficult for women over the age of 25 to get married in this era of Reiwa.Is it a world line where the average life expectancy is 45 years old?

Then the younger the better when it comes to getting married.Mr. Koji Imada, who has almost 163 strict requirements such as "height 28 cm or more", "age 40 years old or less", "Japanese or half or Russian", was surprised at the new way of thinking.

As a conclusion, most men do not have the idea that "younger is better".I think it's rude to look at a man like that.

So please feel free to enhance your appearance and inner self.

  • Answer date: 2022/04/10 23:19
Male member

Kazu

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It's up to each person, but if I had to choose between the two, I'd go with the latter.Youth is not worth it to me.

Even men who value youth know that after a few years, everyone will reach their XNUMXth birthday.
In other words, even for men who find value in youth, I think it is difficult for age to be a decisive factor in making marriage decisions.

Added because I remembered.
Men who want children may be concerned about the age of XNUMX, when they will give birth later.
I think the age of a woman who is likely to influence a man's decision-making about marriage is around XNUMX.

  • Answer date: 2022/04/10 23:18
Male member

Early

First of all, regarding the question at the beginning, in my case, I have a spouse who is currently in progress, so I cannot answer any of the options.

Next, regarding the question of whether men like young girls when it comes to getting married, and the questioner's question about the man who wants to marry, I would like to give my opinion as a person who has "financial leeway". I will answer.
I don't think I can afford an annual income of 1,000 million yen. The proportion of single men with an annual income of 1,000 million or more is 30%, and the proportion of single men between the ages of 34 and 1000 is 0.15%.
First of all, I don't think that these people are only looking for youth.
Also, although there are exceptions, if you are a man who has a certain amount of economic power and is not married by the age of 30, people around me often have a lot of preferences for women, and there are many personality quirks. is.

Summarizing the above, youth alone is not the decisive factor in marriage.
Also, the questioner's target is a fiercely contested area, so it seems that it will be quite a tough battle just by being young.

However, in terms of the number of people you meet, you can miraculously get married with a perfect match, and in terms of buying a partner who may be excellent, starting marriage hunting from a young age is a time you can use. Considering this, there may be some useful points.

  • Answer date: 2022/04/11 01:30
Male member

Seattle

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If you are a woman with exactly the same content, the younger you are, the more attractive you are.

If you really want it, go to marriage counseling.If you are young, I think there are about 100 applications, so I will date the best person among them.

The man at the marriage agency is a man with a communication disorder who cannot find it on his own.I can't read the air at the beginning, and I think it behaves suspiciously.
I'm going to raise a man so that you can be decent without being cut off there.

If you want a 30-year-old man who is good at escorting from the beginning on good terms, fight 100 women in a rough place.

  • Answer date: 2022/04/10 23:37
Male member

Die

I think getting married at a young age is a force to some extent.

It has nothing to do with being young or being educated or self-sufficient.

The older I get, the more I think about things and often do not reach marriage.

On the other hand, I'm not saying that anyone you meet at a marriage agency or the like is fine, but I think you're making a lot of concessions from your own standards.

Personally, I think if you want to get married for love, get married when you're young.

  • Answer date: 2022/04/10 23:15

sunflower

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I still think it's okay to think carefully about marriage!
Good conditions from the other party's point of view are
Self-supporting ability is also important, but I think it's charming (´;ω;`)
Naturally, when you have a fight, you have to be able to say, "I'm sorry. Let's make up."
If you're highly educated, when you have a fight, you're going to argue with each other by attacking theory, so I think it's important to be charming and have the ability to pull yourself back a little!

  • Answer date: 2022/04/11 09:02
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Fuu

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The two choices are so extreme that it's hard to choose either.

Young girls are better for sex
significant other? = If you are married, you will be together for a long time.
I can't choose just because I'm young
Even if you have too much self-sufficiency and your pride gets too high
I wonder if it's a problem

my personal thoughts are
There is a part of me that I can respect as a person.
can be considerate
values ​​are close
I would like to (did) marry someone.

If Fuu is female
Men with good conditions now have many rivals
If you already have money and status, your life will be flashy
It seems difficult, so it's not so now
Find a man who seems to grow, marry him and support him
I think it looks happy to stretch

  • Answer date: 2022/04/11 11:23