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YES NO firmly in dad activity

Surprisingly, many women who are working as dads are unable to express their opinions clearly.

Of course, my dad is helping me out.

It seems that there are quite a lot of things that I can't say my opinion to that papa because I care about it.

Actually, I'm a bit confused about this too.

It's not limited to dad life.

Even in my normal daytime work, when my boss asks me to do something, I often end up doing overtime because I can't say no, especially if I've been indebted to him for a long time.

It's all the more so if this is someone who is always indebted to you.

That said, if you look at it in the form of common sense in the world, it wouldn't look so strange.

However, there are cases where the person who is asked to do something is unexpectedly unreasonable.

In particular, if you are a little shy, you may accumulate these daily actions, start to feel stress, and may even become ill, such as depression, so you need to be careful.

Of course, because of this, there are cases in which people become so exhausted in their daily lives that they drive themselves to suicide.

Too much can lead to serious problems.

What if it's a dad life?

The existence of a dad is quite important for dad activities.

ToothHowever, if the communication with that papa doesn't go well, it will naturally lead to her own neck.

A little scary story is that there are various types because daddy is human too.

The important thing here is the dating club.

If you don't go through a dating club, you may end up meeting a man who doesn't even know where the horse's bones are above.

However, to some extent, the dating club will introduce you to a man you can feel comfortable with, so I don't think it will be a scary story around here.

Actually, I've never met a strange dad, so I'm quite a dating clubI believe in

However, after the introduction of the dating club, it will inevitably become an "adult relationship" between the woman and the dad, so there are parts where a third party cannot intervene in that relationship.

There are quite a few things that you don't want third parties to know about simple things, right?For example, why do you need money?What kind of contract do you want to make with Daddy?What kind of relationship do you want to build with your dad?Such.

Of course, the same is true for dads.

information that only each other knows.

In a sense, this is also one of the pleasures of a woman who is a father and a man who becomes a father, and it is also a real pleasure that leads to the “trust relationship built by each other”.

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That's just the part that daddy is adjusting to women to some extent.

For example, isn't there almost no woman whose schedule is centered around dads?I think that most of them are patterns that are moving for the convenience of women.

I'm the same.

I'm pretty much on schedule here.

From the date and time we meet, to the number of times we meet.

It's true that we talked about it when we first signed the contract, but if we spend a lot of time together, there should be a part where our promises fade away a little.

For example, even though the number of times we meet is fixed, we can increase it a little.

It's not about paying more money, but what about the first promise?That's the point.

After all, it goes without saying that when Papa gives a certain amount of support, there will be an increase in the range of people who accept him with a certain amount of leniency, and I think that's the common sense of the world.

Because he takes care of my life.

I think it's obvious, and I'm sure if someone consulted me on this topic, I'd say the same answer.

However, there is a point that must not be forgotten.

That is the point that dad activity must be considered as a business to the last.

Papa-katsu is not a date with someone you met at a joint party where you usually give each other money.

In the end, I must not forget the part where I am meeting with my uncle because of the large amount of support there, and the other man has registered with the dating club after understanding it to some extent.

It's a business, right?So you know what's important in business, right?For example, if you work for a company, you have to say NO firmly if there is something that is disadvantageous to your company.

It's the same, isn't it?

Daddy life might be easier if you think of it as a sole proprietorship.

If the content requested by Papa does not match the support.

Or, if you think this is different, you have to firmly refuse.

Of course, I am indebted to my papa, and there are many things I empathize with, and there will be many things I can't refuse.

However, if you want to earn a lot of money or protect yourself with a dad activity, you need the courage to refuse it.

Absolutely, it is a problem that should not be "somehow" or "hey" between men.

I affirm.

There will definitely be cases where women lose out.If you don't say what you think clearly.

If you think only about money, you can't say that.

However, I think there are many things in people's lives that money cannot buy.

For example, the human heart.

I don't think money can buy this either.

Money can buy hearts, but you can never buy real hearts.

Of course, if you're chasing your dreams, it's time.

You may be able to buy time on the spot.

But you can't buy something to go back in time, can you?That's why there are so many people who are stoically chasing their dreams every day.

What I mean is this.

No matter how much Papa is indebted to you, you don't have to put up with stress and do things that don't suit you.

If yes?No?If you think about it, it's better to say NO on the spot, and if it's hard to say, you should put it in one of the options, such as consulting with a dating club.

If you have a long relationship with your dad, you will definitely find yourself in an environment where you can't say it out loud.

After all, with that one word, there is a possibility that the contract will be canceled, and there is a possibility that Papa will abandon me.

If that's a good dad, all the better.

But the important thing is the original contract.

Some women review their contracts every year.

Since it is a dad activity, it should be an environment where women can talk to their dads as much as they want.

So, don't worry about it as much as possible, and try to convey it to the other person without hoarding it.

However, it's not a story about not paying attention to Papa at all.

I've said this many times, but please make a contract based on your own wishes, and follow that flow to carry out your dad activities, right?That's what it means.

It's really important to have a clear YES NO, and any smart dad would definitely understand.

The shock when I first learned about the dating club was amazing.Since then, I've been hooked.We will continue to transmit reality from a female perspective.

Articles by Kumiko Mine

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