Every year, there are several events that are sure to come.

For me, it's White Day, my birthday and Christmas.

These three events are hot.

The reason is that there is no need to ask for things that you can't get in your normal private life, or you don't have to ask strangely.

Honestly, isn't there a lot of people who are doing a lot of dad activities because their living standards have risen and they can't lower them?Shamefully, I am one of them.

There was a time when I was doing something like a celebrity, but life was pretty tough.

However, by doing daddy activities and being spoiled by daddy, my standard of living has risen before I knew it, and I have become a personality that can't stand it a bit, like "I can't do this".

But looking at it from the other side, I was able to spend my time doing things I like because I was able to relax quite a bit, and on top of that, I didn't bother the people around me financially.

On the contrary, now I think that I have become able to take care of my surroundings.

Even though I have some time to spare, this Christmas event is still special.

This is because it is possible to request something that is one or two ranks higher than what you normally buy for yourself.

By the way, last year she bought me a branded bag.

It was a bag with one more digit than the bag I usually buy for myself.

Since it is a place like this, the amount was about 200 million Ermel's bag. (Surely, the yen is weak now, so I might do more)

I'm not really asking for anything in this regard.

By chance, when I was on a date with my dad, I saw another woman wearing it and said, "That's cute," and she remembered it.

I didn't think I would be able to get it, so I was really happy, and I was deeply moved by my dad who remembered such a trivial incident.

However, depending on the woman who works as a dad, I think there are opinions such as "How can I buy such an expensive item?" (Gotomo)

I can't deny that this is all up to Papa.

Papa's "current economic power" will also be there, and how much are you doing every day?I think there is also a part.

I don't do anything special just because it's Christmas.

It really feels like it's normal.

However, there is always something to do.

That is, if I receive something, I will definitely give it back the next time I see my dad.

I always keep this.

The so-called one-way, "If you get it from the other party, it's not enough".

This is the only rule that every dad has followed until now. (to protect my dignity)

Now that I'm working as a dad, I have some money to spare, so I can buy gifts in return at the store.

But when I started working as a dad, I didn't have the luxury of giving back.

When I said that, I would treat myself to home-cooked lunches and think of ways to do something without spending money on my own, giving back to the other person.

When I think about it now, most of the fathers were well off, so maybe they were happy to receive gifts from women that money couldn't buy.

This is how I relate to my dad.

However, depending on the woman, I don't think there's a problem with being spoiled or flirting, because these acts are women's weapons. (It's a separate space for two people with Papa)

I'm sure that depending on the papa, being able to talk about something between the two of them will be a joy in itself, so my idea is that basically it's fine as long as you're satisfied.

What is the market price to ask for at Christmas?

Surprisingly, this is a very important part.

When I look up, there is no end.

I've also heard that he was given an apartment as a gift.

However, it would be nice to think that such information is quite rare.

I feel that the general market price is about 20 to 40 yen.

Of course, if you can ask for something expensive, that's fine too.

However, I have never heard of a case where someone suddenly asked for something expensive and continued with the same dad for a long time.

Isn't humility important because it's an event?I think.

Based on my experience, if you have a long relationship with a single dad, the amount of gifts you receive will always increase along with the level of trust.

Regarding this, I can't say affirmatively because there are different ways to get along with each other.

However, as a person, it's easy to understand papa from the beginning, and it's a story that you will find out as soon as you handle it.

The other party's dad will get cold if it's an easy-to-understand money-seeking feeling, right?So humility is necessary. (this is pretty important)

Need something in return for Daddy?

This is a must in my experience.

Then how much should I spend?

Here's how you do it.

As I said earlier, if you don't have any money after you start working as a dad, you will be quite pleased with home-cooked food and hand-knitted sweaters.

If you are not good at saying that, you can attack with accessories such as neckties, or even a few thousand yen.

But it's important to give it away.

Did you do your best to buy it for your dad when you gave it to him?Wouldn't you be happy if you got it if you put in a little effort?It may be necessary to have the bruise to say so.

If you are a woman who has a little extra time with dad activities, I think that 2% return is enough. (I am giving back the place)

Daddy, do you want anything?When asked, it is also important for her to always apologize twice.

This may be a made-up humility.

But, as a person, if I were to rely on his words straight, people would think, "That's the kind of child you are."

However, by refusing several times, the man's side will get a little irritated, and there will always be a scene where he will not withdraw.

Therefore, the person who accepts the words for the first time will be satisfied with the person who gives it.

Sounds like a lot of bargaining, doesn't it?However, this is not a bargaining, it is an important point in how to associate with an adult man.

Christmas is coming to all of you.

Why don't you try my method on your dad once?I don't think it's going in a bad direction.

Christmas = humility.

How about getting a nice present while holding this?