2018/4/7
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what should i talk about on a date

A man older than his father.
Occupational people who do not usually have contact.

I'm nervous because it's the first time we meet.
I'm nervous and don't know what to say.


I don't like being silent, so I tried to speak from myself
"You're used to it."
So, it doesn't lead to the second date.
There are times when.

It's surprisingly difficult to have a conversation with a man and a woman who are far apart in age for the first time.


I wish a man would lead
Far from being able to escort well, the conversation is not lively.
There are quite a few things.

What are you actually talking about?

After all, conversation is important!
Whether the date is fun or not, will it be a one-time date?
You decide whether or not you want to continue the relationship.

Feedback from real men
Next time, I will introduce a woman I didn't want to meet and a date I didn't enjoy.

I talk fluently about past dates.

I was introduced to 8 people and met all of them.
▲▲ is the 9th person.
I met with the president of an advertising company, a doctor, an IT company executive, and a consultant.
The hope for the allowance is ⚫ million, and people who are under ⚫ million are refusing.
It's like going on a date at a hotel or restaurant and going to your room.

I'm amazing
Is it popular?
Is it difficult to make an appeal?

Talk about the men you're dating.

I have a boyfriend now.
So I have to be home by 22:XNUMX.
Also, I can't contact you often.
I will definitely be with you on Saturdays and Sundays, so please do not contact me.
It's impossible to use LINE, so can I email you?

Not only is the response slow, but the pattern is that contact will not come.

I don't want to hear about my boyfriend in the first place.
 

Reveal that you have children.

I'm a single mother.
So life is hard.
I have a date with my child, so I only have time until 18:XNUMX.
I'm sorry.

Before we go on a date, let me ask you something.
That's what men really mean.
If that's the case, I didn't ask for a date...

 

Speak ill of your colleagues at work.

I know you want someone to listen to your complaints, but negative remarks are negative.
Few men would be attracted to a woman who would say such things.
 

brag about allowance

A man I met before said ⚫⚫ XNUMX yen.
If it's 〇〇-chan, it's worth that much.
There was even a person who said that if I developed into an adult relationship, I would be able to rent for double the current rent.
So, ⚫ you can't go to the room with XNUMX yen.
Please give me more.
 

I didn't actually get it...You were just told, right?
It might be a stylish disclaimer from a man.
I don't know.

It doesn't matter if you really have it or have it sent out.

What can be said in common here.
I feel sick to hear that.
not fun.

結果 →No second time! !

And men will think.

But the woman said that
i am a worthy womanWhat is it?

You're different from other women AppealIt seems that you are doing

man's statement

What are the special features?
men make time
Get excited and go on a date.
I never thought I would say something like this.

"Give me back my time!!!"

"I don't have free time"

"This is the one who pays for the date!!"

And you are right.

I understand that there is no topic for conversation, but what to talk about
もっとhappy things.
mutual interest.
Story leading up to next timeWould you like to

I think it's more fun that way.

Excited story when dating

  • Hobbies (sports, music, travel, cars, etc.)
  • Local story (I'm from Kansai...)
  • talk about alcohol and food
  • Talk about what you are studying at university
  • future dream story

In an unexpected place, as an exciting story

  • staff story.

When it was a date where I recommended the woman I interviewed to a man
"I had a blast talking about Nanase-san."
I often hear you say.
Please keep the staff in mind.
No curse! !

may lack excitement
If you are going to develop a relationship, please check the conditions and details.
After clicking OK,
"I can't do that."
"That's impossible"
"Not on schedule"
And don't impose your own wishes! !
It will be another waste of time.

If you register, there is a chance of a date
Offers are not guaranteed.
To spend precious time meaningfully
Please cherish each and every date.

I hope you have a wonderful encounter!



Yui Nanase

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