Hello, I'm Bell! (*´∀｀*)♫
This time, I'd like to introduce some strange gentlemen I met during my two and a half years as a dad ( ´ ▽ ` )
If you are interested, please take a look.
By the way, I'm in my third year as a dad.
I've met a lot of people until now.
If the gentlemen I met are good people and strange people, there are far more strange people.
Of course it looks good, but it's more about the way you treat it than it looks.
Some people unilaterally refused and blocked from here (｀・∀・´)
Let's talk about such a strong gentleman ( ´ ▽ ` )
Mr. F who wants to get a mount
Mr. F was the type that "takes the mount and satisfies the desire for approval", which is one of the three types of people I met during my dad activities.
He is in his early 40s and married.
He looked like a young businessman, handsome, clean, and dressed in a neat suit. I still remember
The answer came out immediately this evening (laughs)
Around noon, we had tea in the hotel lounge, and we had a good time talking. I've only been working as a daddy, but for the first time I thought it would be okay to have an adult relationship with this person.
We even talked about the conditions and said, "Let's meet again when I get back from my business trip soon."
We only talked for an hour.
"Thank you for the meal LINE"
I got a reply in the evening and made three or four round trips.
The person I met during the day was so aggressive that I thought it was a completely different person ( ﾟдﾟ)
They are aggressive, take a step back, speak from above, and strongly criticize and attack even the slightest mistakes and misunderstandings.
I'm sorry if I don't take the initiative in the conversation, anyway!anyway!LINE with this person is stressful! !It was too aggressive and my heart broke after 3,4 or XNUMX round trips (laughs)
He was so amazing that I couldn't believe he was the same person I met during the day (laughs)(°▽°)
"This is not only unpopular with ordinary people, but it is not dealt with by anyone."
Within that day, I understood why this person was not popular (laughs).
If you met them in normal life, they would all run away.Even I ran away despite the fact that money was generated (laughs)
I declined after an hour of LINE exchanges ( ・∇・)
I'm the type of person who can tell exactly what I'm thinking
"It's impossible for someone who can only use such an intimidating way of speaking while only exchanging business correspondence.
I will refuse. "and
I was able to tell you frankly and straight in a short sentence. (`ー´)ノ
70-year-old Papa K
I went out to dinner a few times with the gentlemen I met just about a year ago, and went to see movies a few times.
We spent a lot of private time together.
It's been a long time since I saw a movie, and I haven't been there in about 20 years.
I was very surprised to be able to book tickets online (laughs).
Mr. K had "watching movies" on his "list of things to do together".
I thought it was cute (*´艸｀)
I didn't have an adult relationship with my activities only for meals and outings.
One day, Mr. K said, "I want to move on to the next step," and I was very worried.
Because Mr. K gave me the condition of double the market price.
I was worried that "Mr. K can pay the rent alone."
As a result of worrying, I thought it might be okay to make up my mind and have an adult relationship.
It was cool that he frankly offered double the market price without negotiating.
I was really happy (^^♪
Alright! !So let's make him a regular with Mr. K in an adult relationship!I thought, but the corona vaccine frame was empty, and I was able to get my first vaccine. ( ´ ▽ ` )
Mr. K was 70 years old, so he was able to hit the vaccine in a lot of early stages.
I couldn't get vaccinated in the workplace, and the order for the vaccine that I could get in the middle ward didn't come around.
Adult relationships are very close contact, so if you can vaccinate, it's safer to vaccinate before you challenge.
Surprisingly, Mr. K said "No!!"┌(;￣◇￣)┘
I thought, "Huh? Did I hear it wrong?"
I added, "It's safer to get vaccinated because you'll be in close contact."
He said, "No, I can't wait." (°▽°)
""I don't want it", a child...! ? "
It's fine because you finished your vaccinations a long time ago, but if you didn't worry even one millimeter about me, I felt like you were completely ignoring my feelings, and I was such a self-centered person. I felt very sad.
No matter how much money is involved, I want my dad to choose someone who will treat me with respect.When you are with someone who treats you poorly, you start to think, "I can't help being treated like that," and before you realize it, your self-esteem is low, and that becomes the norm.
I don't want you to feel that way, so please make someone who will take care of you even if it's expensive! ! !
