Nice to meet you, I'm Bell♪(*´▽｀*)
It's been 1 years and XNUMX months since I started working as a father.
I have met many people so far.Over XNUMX people in total.
I've done everything from dating clubs, dad-hunting apps, and drinking money (/・ω・)/
I hope that I can be of some help by sharing my experiences and impressions.
Before I started working as a dad, I worked as a hostess in Ginza for about XNUMX years.
I have been working as a hostess and a dad for about XNUMX years.
I will write what I feel and think in it(*^^)v
I think the image of being a dad in the world is that you get financial support from a dad who likes you or who supports you.
I think the price is a little high, but I think this is the general idea.
In this world, there is definitely supply and demand for things that cost money.
What do men want from being a father?You need to think about it.
The person giving the money is not giving it away, so there are things that they want to fill with money.
That's why there are cabaret clubs and clubs with hostesses.
The purpose of being a dad...
Women are asking for financial help, that's easy to understand! !
Sometimes there are women who like drinking and eating and are looking for a drinking buddy with whom they can eat and drink for free!
What about men?What is the payer looking for?
I think many people would answer simply, ``physical relationships with young people.''
There's nothing wrong with that, I think the overwhelming majority of people have a "physical relationship" as their ultimate goal.
First of all, many men are looking for excitement, the excitement of going on a date like a lover, and the emotional connection.
I want to have a physical relationship with that kind of person (*´▽｀*)
Of course, this does not apply to all 100 out of 100 men who are active fathers.
There are some men who are looking for a relationship that can be easily divided without spoiling so that their wives won't find out (/・ω・)/
Men tend to be more romantic and sensitive than women.That's why it's so delicate (*^-^*)
Therefore, if you approach them in an obligatory or businesslike manner, they will quickly become cold.
No matter how much you try to persuade or make excuses, you won't be able to get a man back in love with you.
No matter how much I like women.
As much as I liked him, the wound would be deeper.I think some men might even regret being a father if the woman they liked treats them like an obligatory, administrative thing.
That's how delicate it is (/_;)
Men also know that when money is being generated, a woman is not meeting a woman because she "likes" him romantically.
I understand, but I really want to enjoy a pseudo-romance (*^-^*) Because I'm a romantic (^^)
I think there are many women who think, ``I can't treat someone I don't like like a boyfriend.''
You may think, "I'm not a professional, so I don't need to be that conscious."
However, what we think can also be conveyed to men.For example, if you look down on me, it will come across (:_;)
Your thoughts such as ``Let's have a quick cup of tea, eat some food, get some transportation money, and go home'' will be conveyed to the other person.
Men are sensitive, and they care more about what women think of them, especially the women they like, than we think.
This may be a little off-topic, but I was successful as a hostess because I was able to treat each customer with love.
Looking back now, up until then, I had always looked down on my customers.I didn't realize it, but somehow I was looking down at the customers.
I think this is clearly the reason why it didn't sell.
Not all women who are working as dads have experience as hostesses, so I don't think they should like you.
Please try to be interested.Even if you don't like someone, try to find good things about them and praise them.
This is all you need! !
I think you can easily do this with a little awareness (^^♪
A man is unconditionally happy if he is interested in you (*´艸｀)
I think that ``they are trying to get to know me properly'' and ``they are trying to face me'' (*´▽｀*)
Dad-katsu-dads are looking for that kind of emotional connection.
Even if a man doesn't get your first impression, by the time you leave, he's already interested in you ♡
Just by doing this, your chances of meeting again will increase considerably! !
Please give it a try.
Actually, this is recommended not only for daddy activities, but also for those who want a boyfriend or girlfriend (^^)/
Please try it at the meeting place.
When you talk as if you are interested in the person of the opposite sex in front of you.
Men mistakenly think that they are interested in you and it is very easy for them to make advances.(Lol)
It's popular tech! !
I pray that everyone will also be able to meet a wonderful dad (^_−)−☆
1. Make an effort to be interested.
2. Efforts to find good thingsdo
3. PraiseWork harddo
Please try it★☆彡