Hello, this is Bell♪(^o^)

Today, I'm going to write a story about how many of the gentlemen I've met so far have been this type of person♫

I hope it will be helpful for those who are trying to start dad life from now on.

～～The most popular man with a twisted desire for approval (mount, negative)～～

I was a hostess in Ginza until I was 29 years old.

What I felt during my active career was that there are many people whose desire for approval is not fulfilled in their daily lives, and whose desire for approval is twisted...

Boasting and talking about the glory of the past as if it were still alive and well.

Among them, there are a great many men who have twisted their unsatisfied desire for approval and become "Kojirase Ojisan".

Humans are creatures of habit, for better or worse.

The older you get, the more you take pride in your job title and position, and the more you can do your job, the higher the wall of your desire for approval becomes.

It's a little bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit.

I'm not all gentlemen, but I unconsciously use demeaning or stupid words, or I want my opinion to be affirmed and I want to be told that it's amazing, so I'm all negative,

The so-called "mount" people in the world are like a demon!Anyway, there are many (+_+)

Even after retiring from being a hostess, I feel it very much.

Some people denied everything at a level that could not be a conversation.

(Even if it's that much of a mistake, I'm sorry if I don't say it back...Is it also malicious...?)

I think so.

In the first place, men and women have different senses of “enjoying conversation”.

Women are creatures who want to be heard.

You don't have to prepare an answer there.

The answer is already out and you want to push your back, or you just want to talk about it with a joke.

I'm letting it out in my mouth.

However, men are creatures who want you to listen to their opinions and stories and agree with them.

I think men are going to give advice and opinions out of good intentions,

Women don't want this at all!

I've seen a lot of people like that, so I know that most things are acceptable,

For some reason, I communicated clearly to people who had a twisted desire for approval, such as those who could only speak from above, those who could only speak aggressively, and so on.

"Um, I don't want to argue.

I just want to have fun talking to you.

If you deny all conversations or say such things, you will not be able to have a conversation.

Do you know what it looks like? "

What most people have in common is that they don't realize they're being rude or twisted.

(It's amazing that it's a normal feeling...) I think (laughs)

Therefore, even if you specify

Many people refuse to admit, "I'm not that kind of person."Or almost.

To be honest, there are too many people like this and I hate men (laughs) m(__)m

Everyone please be careful (laughs)

Please don't be like me (・∇・) (laughs)

～～The most disgusting person who touches you～～

Out of the 200 or more people I met, about 5 of them were people who suddenly touched me when no one was around.

It's not a lot, but it's the most disgusting thing.

Many girls worry about this, don't they?

What happened to me was someone who suddenly hugged me when I was alone in an elevator,

I was a gentleman until I was eating, but as soon as I got on the taxi, there was a person who sat close to me and touched my legs and buttocks.

I tend to say what I'm thinking, and if I'm strong-willed or likely to say what I'm thinking, it's because of the atmosphere that I'm a quiet person.

So I think girls who aren't strong-willed and can't say what they think are more likely to be touched.

I think that there are places where men are also okay and separate by looking at people.

In order to prevent this from happening, please try to say what you think as much as possible only when you are meeting with gentlemen.

It's hard to reach out to people who may blatantly dislike it.I think there are people who enjoy blatant dislike ( ;∀;)

Don't just be a listener, talk a lot yourself, and assert yourself properly, such as likes and dislikes.

Don't be selfish, even if you say self-assertion, but try to treat them with the feeling of "understanding me".

Being passive creates too many gaps and increases the chances of being touched.

When I was a hostess, I was often told by customers that "Mr. Bell has no flaws" (laughs).

This is fatal for a hostess www

I think it's more popular to have a little gap because it looks cute and you want to protect it.

It's better not to show any chances as much as possible in dad life (^^ ♪ To protect yourself ★

How was that?I would appreciate it if you could refer to it ♪

I would appreciate it if someone could share the same experience with me.

When I was writing, I remembered that there were many people like that, there were people like that.

I would like to write part XNUMX next time (^_-)-☆