2020/9/8
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Common etiquette course important for women who work as dads ④

Please take care of yourself during your stay.


From the title, eh?Shouldn't I let my dad take care of me?I think there were many people who felt that.

That's not what I mean.

At the dating club, if you get introduced to your dad and have a long relationship, you will naturally have more sleepover dates.

From a dad's point of view, a sleepover date with a woman should be fun and unavoidable.

However, most dads tell me that they often become disillusioned when they sleep over with a woman they've actually been introduced to at a dating club.

In fact, more than 4% of the dads I've been dating said to me.

That's why I wanted to be careful as well.

To be honest, it's quite a lot if it's more than 4% of the dads I've been dating.I felt.

Of course, there must be quite a few people who feel it in their hearts but don't say it out loud.

The part that most dads pull from women on sleepover dates is making the bed the next day.

For example, whenever we stop at a hotel, the housekeeper always makes the bed.

That's why I'm able to sleep in a very clean state.

Naturally, this is one of the hotel services, so it doesn't matter.

However, the dads are watching the next day.

Papas are basically well-bred, so everything is well-behaved.

So-called, most people have a solid manner for people.

So, when I leave the hotel the next day, I have that manner.

A simple story is when you leave the room, do you leave the bed and the sheets in a used state?won't you come out?The point.

By nature, well-educated and well-behaved people lightly fold their loungewear and lightly put back their sheets before leaving the room.

However, if you don't care about such things, leave the room with your loungewear on.

Of course, the sheets were still turned up.

Certainly, considering it as a hotel service, it may not be necessary to worry about it because the housekeeper will fix everything.

But what about those who are well-bred in terms of compassion and good manners by nature?To be honest, it might look slovenly.

Many women find it troublesome.

However, it is an important part of adult manners.

How do you see others as compared to yourself?is important.

In addition, women are in a position to receive allowances from their fathers.

I think it's only natural to give them a little consideration. (Papa folds her clothes that she took off, etc.)

Some dads get tired of women after staying overnight.

The reality is that there are more than a few people who say that.

But, it's not like that, but the reality is that there are more than a few dads who can't be with women because of their bad manners.

A woman who works as a dad and feels that these parts are troublesome.

I would like you to try the opposite idea.

What would you think if your dad didn't brush his teeth on every date and asked you for a kiss, or your eating style was so messy that you couldn't even see it?Don't you hate it when you get an allowance?I would be

Especially if you're a clean person, it's even more so.

In terms of nuance, it feels like that.

No matter how kind Papa is, it doesn't mean he doesn't look at women.

Don't forget that Papa also discriminates between women.

In that sense, I included it in manners in the sense that you shouldn't be too spoiled and forgiving even on a sleepover date.

Besides, Papa is also firmly watching such a small attention on the woman's side.

Therefore, it will lead to the high evaluation of the father as it is, and naturally develop into a long and wonderful relationship with the father.

By all means, if there are people who have not thought so far, please try it.

I'm sure she's a good woman.

should be praised.

wording


Most of the women who are working as dads are concerned about their dads at first.

For example, when you are introduced to a man at a dating club for the first time, and when you meet him in a lounge, there are more than a few people who use broken honorifics until they get used to it.

I actually remember it.

And since I didn't know what kind of person the other man was, I remember that at first we talked about things like salary negotiations in the style of business talk.

Now I'm used to it, so I don't get nervous or use strange honorifics.

At first, I think everyone does.

What I want to say this time is after that.

After that, when you meet with your dad three or four times, naturally your relationship will change.

For example, even though they didn't know each other until now, as they get to know each other more, they begin to ask and answer questions.

Of course.

Even if you say that you are receiving an allowance from your papa, you are still in a romantic relationship during that time.

However, there are many women who misunderstand their father's generous treatment too much.

It was the wording.

For example, what do you do when you receive an answer from Papa?That's right.etc.

The woman replies to her father in the so-called Tame language.

Depending on the papa, the Tame language feels more intimate and gives the impression of being more like a lover.

Some people may think so.

However, unless there is a special request from Papa, I would like you to be careful about using words such as Tame.

The opponent is superior.

It's also a position to pay your allowance.

I think that it is natural to think as much as you are indebted if you are a normal sensibility.

Of course, I am speaking from the standpoint of a woman who works as a dad.

Basically, Papa doesn't have that many people who get angry at the wording level.

It is in reality.

However, there are real dads who suddenly leave.

In such a case, bye-bye without asking the reason.

It goes without saying that I feel even more lonely if that is a wonderful dad who suits me.

Wording is certainly difficult.

If it becomes too stiff, there is also a pattern that the opponent will judge that there is a distance.

On the other hand, if it is too fragile, it will be rude.

So what should I do from the standpoint of a woman who works as a dad?And of course.

I was really worried too.

I don't know if there is a best solution out there.

But you know.

The answer was that it was complicated because I thought only in the frame of wording.

At the dating club, the dad who introduces me is a wonderful man with good taste.

There was a simple hint.

Which is classier, speaking to superiors using tame language or speaking normally using polite language?It's easy to understand when you look at it from the perspective of a product.

I think any man would find it easier to get along with a woman who has a sense of quality.

Would you say that it has the dignity of an adult?

Look there and you'll get the answer right away.

Wording for superiors is really important in terms of manners.

Absolutely, just because you're getting used to your relationship with your dad, don't spit out words with the momentum of talking to someone the same age.

Even if the other man smiles, you should feel sorry inside.

You can make a good impression on the other person if you follow the etiquette of your words.

As a result, it should be one spice that lasts with the other man.
 

Writers: 
The shock when I first learned about the dating club was amazing.Since then, I've been hooked.We will continue to transmit reality from a female perspective.

Articles by Kumiko Mine

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