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Common etiquette lecture important for women who work as dads ①

I'm sure a woman who lives as a dad should go out with her dad.

How much can I get paid?How much can you afford to pay each month?What kind of dad will the dating club introduce you to?


When you think about it, there is no limit.

I know this because I have had exactly the same experience.

However, there may be some people who have resolved the above anxiety and may not last long even if they actually start dating with their dad.

Even if you get introduced to a wonderful dad at a dating club, you can't build a relationship of trust if it doesn't last long, and you can't even negotiate for an increase in allowance.

On the contrary, if I met a nice daddy who suits me, I would miss it.

Anything can happen. (I have experienced.)

So the most important thing is why?Most women will transition to the next dad without knowing why.

Of course, so did I.

However, if you can't solve it properly there, there is a high possibility that the same thing will happen again.

So-called women who are active as dads need to learn more than a little.

In the first place, if it is natural, it is a topic until then.

Most of the men who become dads are more than two times older than the women.

So, just because you're young or a woman doesn't mean you can be ignorant.

In fact, I was ignorant, including myself, so I missed meeting a wonderful dad.

Such a reality is born.

Of course, looks are important to women.

However, if a father-to-be chooses a woman based only on appearance, it should be over at the time of the photo or at the first meeting.

I am, of course, targeting dads who have been able to progress to the second or third date.

If you ask me, I judge that there is no problem with appearance as long as I can communicate well up to the second or third time.

So where is the problem and why does the relationship end after that?

I see it as part of manners.

Of course, after meeting him several times, I had a physical relationship and Papa got tired of me.

This is one of the reasons why it always goes up.

Women can't cover all this. (At the point where the opponent is looking for the body, sooner or later the goodbye will come.)

But other parts can be covered as much as you want.

I would like to introduce such a part here and hope that it will be one solution for everyone to live as a dad for a long time in the future.

I also solved a lot by keeping this minimum manners.

1. How to hold chopsticks is important for Japanese people
Why did you bring this up in the first place?

There is a reason.

This is because the first and most frequent dates with Daddy are meals.

Many young people today (mainly in their twenties) cannot hold chopsticks firmly.

There are various things such as hands facing in a strange direction, and holding them in a shape like goo.

For a long time, my father taught me how to hold chopsticks properly, so there was no problem.

However, when I have dinner with my female friend in private, sometimes she can't hold chopsticks well.

To be honest, I feel uncomfortable while eating when the other person is holding it in a strange way. (It's a level that I don't think about eating Japanese food together.)

What if this is your father's position?

I'm sure it's a generation that is more rigorously educated than our age.

Nowadays, we often hear stories that in the olden days school teachers used to physically punish their students.

That's the generation.

What if the woman you're dating has a strange way of holding chopsticks?Of course you should be offended.

In fact, even when I dined with a female friend, I felt uncomfortable, so it should be more than that.

Dad and I often go out to eat Japanese food.

At times like that, I can't hold chopsticks.

From the father's point of view, he is not in a position to educate women to hold chopsticks. (I'm sure the older I get, the more I'll be in a position to watch over with kind eyes.)

That being said, he must be offended in his heart.

Currently, there is a Japanese food boom overseas, especially in New York.

And chopsticks that even foreigners can easily hold.

Needless to say, I would be very disappointed if the woman I was walking with couldn't hold chopsticks.

In fact, my dad, whom I was dating, said something like this.

The woman I dated before you couldn't hold chopsticks.

The shops I go to are very limited.

After all, you shouldn't be ashamed of a Japanese restaurant.

You were well educated by your parents.

That part really made an impression on me.

He said

It goes without saying that it is better for Japanese people to be able to hold chopsticks than not to be able to hold them.

If there are people who can't have it, it's better to be able to have it.

Because that alone will change the way Papa sees us.

Besides, there are many people who think that receiving an allowance from their father is nothing more than pocket money for women.

So, do you really need to worry about your dad that much?There are many people who perceive it.

To be honest, I was one of those people.

It's annoying, right?The first thing is to take care of men.

However, it is a very wrong act even as a member of society.

If the other person gives something to you, you cannot have a relationship unless you give something in return.

In terms of dad life, you need to give back to your dad with something other than money.

In that case, it would be nice to be considerate enough not to make the other person uncomfortable.

To that extent, how to hold chopsticks is more important than the young people of today think.

That's the age group over 40 now.

Also, if a woman has at least a minimum of manners, she will be more classy, ​​and the benefits will be greater.

By all means, if you can't have it, please try to learn it with a little consideration for men + the feeling and meaning of learning.

The shock when I first learned about the dating club was amazing.Since then, I've been hooked.We will continue to transmit reality from a female perspective.

Articles by Kumiko Mine

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