2020/12/2
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A chance to deepen love with dad during corona ②

Compassion is transmitted as it is service 

I think there are many women who are always indebted to their fathers. 

 

It's not just money. 

 

More than money to fulfill what you want to do. 

 

For example, various things such as coins. 

 

I am also one of those who was given something other than money by my dad. 

 

But now we are in the midst of the corona ruckus. 

 

I can't meet my dad as easily as before, so it's no longer an environment where I can talk casually. 

 

Honestly, it's hard not to be able to talk freely. 

 

How can I feel free to ask my dad for a favor like before the corona ruckus?No, I'm not talking about luxury. 

 

How much do you do to your dad before asking for a favor?how do you tell that?I've been thinking about 

 

Of course, I think that just thinking about it will make Papa happy. 

 

However, in this social situation, it is impossible to change the current environment unless women take action. 

 

I don't think this is limited to dad life. 

 

To be honest, before the corona ruckus, I didn't do anything on my own. 

 

That's why I got a call from my dad saying, are you free this day?It was a simple feeling that I said YES OR NO. 

 

Even if I recall now, there are almost no promises made from here. 

 

Perhaps, in that sense as well, I left it up to Papa and was spoiled. 

 

So, I came to think that I should take the initiative. 

 

Of course, making a phone call, which I talked about before, is one way, and I still do it now. 

 

But I thought it wasn't enough. 

 

So, what I thought was to deliver a nutritious meal that suits daddy. 

 

Of course, the world is remote center now. 

 

That's why we can't meet as casually as before. 

 

But why can't we meet casually?I thought to myself. 

 

That's because people like us who go on dates with dads tend to go to crowded places. 

 

But this is also a large park here. 

 

For example, in Tokyo, there is Inokashira Park in Kichijoji. 

 

We choose a place like that, and we eat lunch together outside so that we don't have to go to a crowded place. 

 

In this case, we meet outside in a large place, so if there is a corona patient somewhere, we can avoid a considerable risk of infection. 

 

Wouldn't it be nice to have a date that doesn't go into the store?I thought. 

 

If it's outside, there's enough ventilation. 

 

Of course, when I go there, I use taxis instead of trains as much as possible. 

 

Wearing a mask is commonplace. 

 

When I meet my dad, I choose weekdays as much as possible, rather than holidays, and make an effort to open up my schedule to my dad. 

 

The thoughtfulness that I said is really straight to my dad. 

 

It might be even more so because I usually didn't act like that to my dad. 

 

From around March 2020, when I thought about it in my own way and made an effort to act like this, my dad was very moved and pleased. 

 

What kind of wind is it that you ask me to come to you instead of my daddy?I was told about 

 

Since we don't get to see each other very often, I have time to think about lunch every time. 

 

You can also find the place to meet and the time to find it here. 

 

So it's not a burden either. 

 

Besides, as I said before, if you add a phone here, it's like planning a picnic, and you can have fun with each other. 

 

I learned about my dad's likes and dislikes after I started making bento boxes because of the corona ruckus. 

 

There's something my dad said to me recently. 

 

Thank you for doing all you can. 

 

I feel more love than ever before. 

 

He said. 

 

Ah! ! !It was a moment when I thought that this service was transmitted. 

 

Since doing this service, I have been able to say my own requests again, little by little, although it is not the same as before. 

 

If you do your own service well as a dad, it will be easier for you to express your wishes comfortably. 

 

By all means, I would like women who are active as dads to try to serve their dads. 

 

I definitely don't think it's going to be a bad one. 

 

Come and have a remote drink with daddy 

Isn't there a lot of women who are working as dads and can't drink alcohol? 

 

Actually, I am one of them. 

 

When I asked my friends who are also working as dads around me, surprisingly many of them couldn't drink alcohol. 

 

Of course, if you like alcohol and can drink it, this subject is even more effective. 

 

However, it may be a bit of a burden for those who cannot drink. 

 

I would like you to read it with that in mind. 

 

More than 9% of the dads I've met so far like alcohol. 

 

That's right, wine, whiskey, etc. 

 

Even during the date, when I went to a restaurant with her, she always ordered expensive alcohol. 

 

And while drinking alcohol, he listened to me kindly and happily. 

 

But I remember hearing from my dad that he couldn't casually go out for a drink before the date with me because of this corona ruckus. 

 

That's right. 

 

Daddy's pastime was alcohol, but it's sad that it's one less, right?I've been worried about the conversation over the phone. 

 

Perhaps, if the world wasn't in such a corona ruckus, I would definitely ignore the conversation. 

 

But is there anything I can do at this time of year?I'm trying to think. 

 

Meanwhile, I remembered that the TV program frequently talked about remote drinking parties. 

 

This might work. 

I used my stupid head to think about it. 

 

So, I'm going to drink a little while I'm on the video call with my dad, so why don't you have a drink too?When she invited me, she was very pleased. 

 

can you drinkAt first he made a face like that. 

 

Of course, in my cup is not alcohol, but free oolong tea while saying "oolong high". 

 

I'm sure my dad found out. 

 

But Papa happily enjoyed the conversation as usual while drinking alcohol. 

 

That's why this is good.Somehow, it feels like we're having a drink together. 

 

From now on, shall we have a video call while drinking?He said. 

 

Ah, I was satisfied that it was surprisingly effective. 

 

Even in a place like this, you can use it for a remote drinking party. 

I had no idea that what I started with half in doubt would lead to making my dad so happy. 

 

Here, I'm telling you in letters, but I still remember my dad enjoying the conversation on the spot so much that I couldn't really tell you in letters. 

 

That's why I just had a remote drinking party with my dad yesterday. 

 

Since there is alcohol in it, even my dad, who is usually not very talkative, had a great conversation. 

 

For example, there must be many dads who are not good at talking on the phone, but if they drink alcohol, there will be no problem. 

 

To be honest, I'm enjoying it too, so while I'm saying it's for my dad's sake, which one do you enjoy the most now?I don't know. 

 

By all means, please try to have a drinking party for your dad, even once a week. 

 

I'm sure you will be very pleased. 

Writers: 
The shock when I first learned about the dating club was amazing.Since then, I've been hooked.We will continue to transmit reality from a female perspective.

Articles by Kumiko Mine

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