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How to enjoy life as a dad Vol.2

 

Surprisingly, many women who are active as dads have various experiences in their previous jobs.

I think that all women who are working as dads have something.

For example, in terms of work, the company I was originally working for was out of dispatch, or I couldn't communicate well within the company, and I couldn't cooperate with people around me, so I quit.

To be honest, I've had a lot in the past as well.

Especially when working in an organization during the daytime, there are some ties.

Apart from that, it's good to have rules, and I don't care about that.

But in the end, it's just the people who work there.

Men may not understand it, but when women don't get along, gossiping will almost certainly begin to circulate.

If you do that, the image of each individual will be bad, and if you are a woman with a mentality that you can retort, it is fine, but if you don't, in most cases, you can't win against women who are outspoken.

To be honest, I'm not bullying you either, but maybe because I was working as it should, "weird rumors" spread from somewhere. It was the flow of hearing all the contents from the male employee.

At that time, naturally the female employee pointed the back finger.

The content is a false story that I am doing a pillow with an employee of another company.

In the first place, I was in sales, but I didn't sell anything like pillows.

However, if I can't communicate well with people of the same sex in the company, I can't stay in that place for a long time, and I left the company because the prospects I wanted to see in the future at that company became bleak.

When I think about it now, there were a lot of things when I got a job at another company.

However, I still think that the point that I can continue to do is that I don't have to worry about my surroundings because dad activities are more like self-employed.

It's been a few years since I started working as a dad.

It's the longest in my career so far, and I have no complaints about the way I work at the moment.

No, rather than complaining, I think and act on my own, so unlike an organization, I can see everything as a result.

So to speak, if you make a mistake and learn from it, you can move forward at your own speed on the rails you have drawn, regardless of the pace of those around you. (I think that's where I have no complaints.)

In order to continue working as a dad for a long time, there must be something to enjoy.

That's why it's good enough to have a "consideration level of 7" against a "fun level of 3", and I also like the fact that I can change my dad activity to my favorite form.

So, recently I have quite a few female friends who are working as dads, and they often talk about "What fun things did you do?"

When you're active as a dad, honestly the men will take you to various places, right?That's why I think it's everywhere if you request it.

To put it bluntly, some dads even take me on overseas trips at all.

That's why, when I usually do daddy activities, I don't care what others think of me, but when I get together with like-minded people when I'm off, I have a lot of things I want to ask, and I'm in trouble.

Because, what kind of fun do you all have in your dad life?I do not mind?If you think, "That sounds fun♪", I definitely want to try it.

That's why, in a "gathering place" where like-minded people gather, I'm not affected by the people around me, but I listen to them and participate in the discussion.

Of course, I also talk about myself, and there are cases where people around me were pleased with that as a model.

If you want to enjoy dad life, don't be half-hearted.

What is this?For example, let's say you're addicted to playing golf with your dad.

Then, it will be possible to keep hitting and actually go around the golf course.

Of course, it's important to enjoy the place with Daddy, and above all, it's important to enjoy yourself.

But the worst thing is the pattern of "only I enjoy it".

It's common for women who get bored easily, but it's good that I started playing golf with my dad buying me clubs and various things.

But it's not the first time I've thought about enjoying it that much, so even when I play golf with my dad, everything is half-baked.

Everything is half-baked, so the attitude of the place and the atmosphere that is created from it are somewhat thin.

And the ultimate pattern is that you get tired of it quickly and it's passed on to your dad.

This is the worst.

How do you feel about being a dad?I can't say for sure because every woman is different.

If it were me, I would never enjoy it that way, and since I feel that "papa life is work", I try to be very careful about such half-hearted actions.

The reason is that everything is in vain.

“Enjoy” in order to last a long time as a dadvery important element.

However, don't forget the part of "papa activity with a partner".

If you forget about providing a service to the other party and prioritize your own enjoyment, this will not last long before enjoying the place.

What I want to say is the same as communication with people, a sense of distance is important for "enjoyment".

Don't you get tired of being too obsessed with money as a daddy? If you only think of "papa = allowance", have you ever had the experience of feeling lazy and troublesome to interact with?In my opinion, this is because the sense of distance is not well balanced.I think

Of course, it's good to have a dad activity based on various thoughts for each woman.

However, if you just want to “enjoy dad activities” or “make everything last longer”, then “all sense of distance” is quite important.

In the so-called Papa Katsu, when there is a partner and you enjoy something for a long time there, people with a sense of distance like "Should I try this?" But can it be balanced?That's what I'm thinking.

In fact, I've been doing it all for a long time, and it's almost never stressful to me. (Of course, there are times when the other man gets bored and switches to a different game.)

People around me were convinced when I said the above.

Personally, I would like you to take this opportunity to think about what it means to have fun.

I think it's good to have different answers for each woman.

But what I definitely want you to quit is the idea that "only I can enjoy it".

I just don't want you to bring this into your dad life.

And with that thought, dad life doesn't last long.

Writers: 
The shock when I first learned about the dating club was amazing.Since then, I've been hooked.We will continue to transmit reality from a female perspective.

Articles by Kumiko Mine

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