2023/6/7
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True intentions and a mind that doesn't get sick

Hello, I'm Bell! (*´∀`*)♫

 

It's my 3rd year as a dad ^ ^

I think I'm going to expose all the black parts today.

I just want to spit it out, I just feel like that lol

 

I have two dads now.

I am still looking for my dad.

I'm a dad who only eats meals, so I honestly think it would be better if there were a few more people ( ̄▽ ̄)

I think it's a good pace where you can enjoy meeting two people a week without stress ^ ^

So I think we need 4 more people.

 

I think I can make more money if I work as a daddy as an adult, but I really don't like my uncle's body odor and bad breath ( ; ; )

Then I think you should think that I shouldn't do dad activities, but since I was a hostess in Ginza, I'm proud that I have a way to enjoy it in a different way ( ´ ▽ ` )

It's very efficient to meet on your own free date and time and earn quickly.

Moreover, we are also on the side of choosing.

Unlike work, you don't have to force yourself to endure or meet people you don't want to meet.

You don't have to meet someone you don't want to meet again, you don't have to endure a conversation with someone you don't like, and if you don't like meeting, you can easily refuse the second time. It gives me a lot more freedom than working in a store.

I work like a so-called freelancer (`・∀・´)

It's a way of thinking that is not suitable for those who want to earn a lot of money.I think it's a way of working that is suitable for people who have a separate main job or who want to earn money as a side job.

 

If you hear that dad activities are side jobs or freelance work, gentlemen will be amazed and withered.

However, since receiving money is an exchange of consideration

It doesn't work without value.

I think that "value" must be created by yourself with some effort.

Whether it's really worth the price is up to the other party to judge after making an effort.

Value is determined not by you, but by the person who pays for it.

I think that in any industry, "making money" is like that.

 

I think it's great that I have the right to say no.

This is because you cannot turn down any job based on your own will or mood.

The feelings of those who work according to company rules are not respected.

There are a lot of girls who get sick from being a daddy, but if you put up with it too much, you will get sick.

You have the right to refuse, so be patient and refuse before you get sick and keep your motivation.

 

I'm doing dad activities with such a freelance feeling, how much do I aim for a month with dad activities? ?

My guideline is that I want to earn about rent in one month with my dad.

If I aim higher, there is no limit, so I decided to pay the rent (`・∀・´)

If you don't decide on this amount and say "If you can earn it, you can earn it", you will get sick.

Clarify why you need money, how much you need, and set goals.

 

By visualizing numbers, you can see things that you couldn't see before.I noticed things I didn't notice.

Other than that, "If it doesn't cost as much as you thought, you can make money with a part-time job on the side."

“With this amount of money, it is more effective to save money if you try to reduce your spending.”

You might think that.

Please try it once.

Try setting a goal that is realistic and mentally balanced (*´꒳`*)

 

I'm doing it with the feeling that I'm killing two birds with one stone ( ´ ▽ ` )ノ by eating delicious food and paying for transportation.

I'm trying not to worry too much even if I don't go to my goal because my dad's circumstances don't match.

I've decided to put it down to the feeling that "it's better than zero if I think it's not there in the first place."

Otherwise, if you don't reach your goal, you'll get frustrated, depressed, and feel depressed.

Even when I really want to earn more money, I tell myself "It's better than zero, thank you" (о´∀`о)

I usually use it for rent,

"I want to apply for a video editing course, so let's do our best and add it"

I worked especially hard only when I thought, "I'm going on a trip, so let's add something."

If you always do your best every day, you will get tired, so

I only work hard when I have a goal that requires money.

That said, I think there are some people who suddenly have a large amount of debt and have to pay it back.

"I have to pay back my tuition until I graduate, so there's a long way to go."

I think that some people are forced to decide the amount that they have to repay every month regardless of their intentions or mood.

If you are like that, the longer you go, the more endless you feel and get sick, so please make it a goal to save money for a side job or for acquiring skills that will allow you to generate and return money on your own. .

For example, in order to earn money on YouTube, such as saving up video editing course fees with Papa Katsu.

I think it would be endlessly painful if I tried to pay back all my debts and tuition fees with Papa Katsu.

Skills learned are not wasted.

It becomes your property. Please try to set a goal as "to save for self-investment".

 

I pray that everyone will be able to meet a wonderful dad (^_−)−☆

Writers: 
2nd year as a dad, late 30s. In my twenties, I was No. 20 hostess in Ginza. At the age of 1, he left Ginza and had a lot of things to do, such as breaking off his engagement, and since then he has been working as a dad only for rice.

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