I'm sure if you just look at this title, you'll say something beautiful, right?What do you think?
But maybe this is just me thinking.
I made it a subject because I thought that if there were even a few people who could sympathize with me.
There are still people who look down on me when I tell them that I'm doing daddy activities, right?There are many women who feel a little narrow, right?
There must be some people who think they can't tell people.
But why do people discriminate?When I think about the reason, I think that the impression of the surroundings is reflected like this.
・Having fun and earning money.
・Doing something close to prostitution with an older man called Papa.
・The general society is not made up of such a system.
・The idea itself is sweet.
Maybe it's like this.
In fact, when I talk to my friends around me, I have a memory of being pulled over by the image above.
Are you actually enjoying making money?Is the idea itself sweet?Etc. Does it apply to dad life?If you ask me, I think it's the complete opposite.
Of course, I think there are women who do whatever they want without thinking about it.
But a woman who says that will soon get tired of her dad and cut off her contract.
I'm sure they will be kind and considerate at first.
However, aren't women who have no skills at all being introduced to dating clubs?In the so-called general society, it is a position to say that it is a person who does not care.
And what do you say to people who think they're having fun and making money?I want to say
Probably, there are few people who live only with dad activities.
Most of them are part-timers, full-time employees, or temporary workers.
Not easy at all.
Besides, there should be a lot of women who think of it as a sponsor rather than making money.
To put it simply, it's a patron.
Is that true in general society?Do you have a patron?There are people who say
But that is the value of each person, not the value they attach themselves.
I think most of the negatives I've seen are jealousy.
Because there's nothing wrong with having patrons, right?Corporate sponsor.
I feel that denying it is the same as denying help.
Besides, there are still many people who misunderstand papa katsu as prostitution.
Most of the women who are active as dads are firmly in love with their dads.
Of course, some people do it just for the money.
But that's not all.
Certainly, there are some people who spread papa-katsu in a slightly different way that gives a bad impression to those around them.
Why?Only the bad parts are picked up, and even people who are healthy are looked at with strange eyes.
But I think it's the same for companies.
If one person causes a scandal, it will be transmitted only there, and even serious people will look stupid.
But I want to say
Papa-katsu is not a prostitution activity.
It's an activity that has love with daddy.
Some people say that the way of thinking of women who are working as dads is naive.
On the contrary, where is it sweeter?There is also a papa who will buy various things for you if you smile.
Some dads will give you pocket money if you have a good time with them.
Are you talking about that?I think it's a different story then.
For example, can I get a bonus if I leave a good performance at the company?Would you like to get a bonus from the company if you have a good relationship with the client?Apart from that, I think that each person has value.
There are many people who throw away their words, saying that they are lenient with others because they do not have the ability to do so.
All the women who are working as dads.
Absolutely, please do not lend your ears.
Just jealousy.
Looking at this, what do you think?Where are you different from the social system?I'm not out of line at all, and on the contrary, I think the dating club itself is in line with the times and needs of today.
How about meeting the opposite sex?That's what I'm talking about.
Until just five years ago, I think the matching app itself was viewed with a blank eye.
But now?It's become commonplace when asked, and it's become a standard enough to be featured on TV programs.
I think that dad life will also be like that with the times.
On the contrary, there is much to be learned from a successful dad himself.
Simply put, this is also a chance to see successful people in society up close and absorb a lot of things.
Is it easy for an ordinary big company employee to learn business from the president?You can do that if you're a dad.
From a person who aspires to business, is there such a wonderful thing?It should be impossible in a normal life.
What can you learn and grow?I want you to know here.
Common sense can be learned
As far as common sense goes, there are a lot of them.
First of all, I would like to tell you about manners.
If you are a daddy, you will almost always have the opportunity to go to a high-end restaurant.
increases.
Japanese food, Western food, Chinese food, etc.
There are a variety of dishes, from restaurants that mainly use knives and forks to dishes that are eaten with chopsticks.
Then, the first barrier is table manners.
When I was a child, I didn't have much experience with high-end restaurants.
Even if I say I'm going, I'm going to go out with a man I was dating at the time, and I'm just going to enjoy it lightly.
So, of course, I didn't know about table manners.
But when I went with my dad, I realized just how embarrassing it was.
No matter how much I tried to create myself on the spot and behave neatly, there was a limit.
After all, I didn't know which knife or fork to use first, and I always acted like my papa looked and looked, but I think it was obvious that I didn't know.
Even now, just remembering it makes me shudder.
I thought that the difference in experience points would come out even in places like this.
I remember my dad teaching me very politely.
The most embarrassing thing was the Chinese food scene.
Do you have a finger ball?I don't know, I drink
Thinking about it, I almost put it in my mouth.
Papa was laughing out loud, but from my point of view, eh?It was better to say
I realized that I really don't have common sense.
It's the same when I go out to eat Japanese food.
When you have sushi, I think that there are sushi that you eat with your hands and there are dishes that use chopsticks.
However, I was never properly educated.
I'm not good at holding chopsticks, and my dad pointed out when I was holding chopsticks in a strange way.
But you know.
What you pointed out wasn't just the bad way of holding chopsticks.
Isn't it rude to a craftsman who makes Japanese food?He pointed out.
I could only say that I see.
After that day, I practiced hard in my own way and learned manners.
I researched mainly on the net and worked hard to study so much that I had to push myself to this point.
Now it's normal to go to any store.
This is also the point that I couldn't grow without papa katsu.
I was keenly aware of the importance of manners and the importance of showing respect to others.