2022/10/5
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Be careful when meeting for the first time

This time, I will talk about the theme of "Be careful with dad life".

You have to be careful about men, be careful about your self-protection, and many other things.

If your own greed comes out and you unknowingly lower the motivation of your opponent, or if your crisis management ability is low, you will be more likely to get into trouble.

This time, I will write about things to be careful about when meeting someone for the first time.

 

If you get nervous about meeting someone for the first time

When you start working as a dad for the first time, you will be nervous and nervous.

Luckily, I was a hostess, so I had no hesitation in having a conversation with a man I had just met for the first time.However, this is not necessarily the case for many women who are active as dads.

I think there are many people who hide their nervousness when they meet.So I would like to give you some advice.

 

It's the same for the opponent who is worried about how to come.Men look at women as much as we look at men.

I think many men value comfort.

So try to smile and talk when you first meet.First impressions are important. "Comfort" will resonate later.

Men also think about women, "What kind of person is it? Will it suit me?"If you talk with a smile when you are in such a state of mind, the other person will feel relieved.

If the other person's anxiety and tension are relieved, it will be easier to talk, the conversation will be lively, and they will want to see you again.

The first person I met in Papa Katsu was a company manager in his 40s.

Instead of handing over the allowance after the meal was over, he gave it to me first.And I got paid more than promised.

If the first person I met was such a lazy person, I would have quit right away.

But I only met him once.Because you asked me for my feelings.

His wish was "I want you to like me" and "I can't support you if you don't like me".

This kind of thing has been said by customers even when I was a hostess, so deja vu!I thought, but it didn't bother me too much.

I think some people think, "What should I do...", but you should definitely stop!In the first place, what the other party is looking for is not a dad activity but a "girlfriend".

I have a lot of requests, and I'm going to get out of the way with the temperature difference.

I just told him what I was thinking.

"Isn't what you want to do a dad life? Don't you want a girlfriend? I want a relationship of trust to some extent, but I don't want a boyfriend. I say I like you, but you have a wife and children. Also, even if I fall in love with someone, I can't fall in love with someone who doesn't have a future."

I think that some women who are working as dads have been told that they have trouble dealing with them.

It's better to say it clearly without worrying!I'm told more when I'm worriedcryingAfter that, let's suggest the conditions yourself, saying, "It would be nice if it was more..."!

Don't put up with it, let's have a satisfying relationship!Otherwise it will not continue!

 

Second, look the other person in the eye when you speak.You don't have to stare, but many men open up when you look at them and talk to them.

I used to do it a lot when I was a hostess.wink

Am I staring at it a little too much?About is just right ♪ This can also be used in love ♪

Once in a while, take your eyes off and meet your eyes again, please try it.

 

what men hate

Next, write down what men hate.

When I was listening to men talk, I heard that there were quite a few women who converted the time they were meeting into hourly wages, and I heard the voices of men who hated it.

From a woman's point of view, I can understand the desire to shorten it because the amount of money does not change even if it is one hour or two hours.However, putting it out in the attitude will considerably lower the motivation of men.

Of course, I know that it's a relationship based on money, but if I show an attitude or think that it's an hourly wage conversion, I'll end up cooling down.

There are quite a lot of men who say that it is okay to have a boyfriend, but there are many men who get cold when they flicker the existence of a boyfriend. "I want to know, but I don't want to know" A man's heart is complicated.surprise

Keep in mind that some guys really literally say "it's okay" and "I don't care", but not everyone.Don't take it too seriously, wait and see what's going on before you say it, or if possible, don't say it.

Don't think that I'm lying.

 

By the way, when it comes to clothes, I still see a few elderly people who think that jeans are “work clothes” and are different from fashion.

I think it's better to stop wearing jeans if you're going to blame the safe.Wear black or white instead of jeans!other than blue

 

Writers: 
2nd year as a dad, late 30s. In my twenties, I was No. 20 hostess in Ginza. At the age of 1, he left Ginza and had a lot of things to do, such as breaking off his engagement, and since then he has been working as a dad only for rice.

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