Either way is fine from my point of view
Recently, it has become a hot topic mainly on SNS, "Which one should pay for a date?
It all started when a popular female YouTuber started talking about it in a video.
What she said was, ``Women need money to go on dates.
In addition to that, is it a flaming commercial law?Various former idol women have started to release videos with similar feelings, and it has become a topic unexpectedly.
I can say things from a woman's point of view, so let me be clear, who are you?I would think.
In the first place, I am in a position where men pay for everything in my dad life.
So, if you include that, you can't say great things.
So, this time I would like to talk about papa activity = work.
In the first place, it takes money for women to go on dates with men.
Do you see it as a business?I think.
It is the woman's intention to go on a private date with a man.
If this is a job, I think men should pay.
After all, as much as the man paid, the woman has to provide the man with the service that matches the payment.
When it comes to dad life, it means that you can't entertain yourself on the spot or put yourself first.
However, private life is completely different.
It is also a place where you can enjoy yourself.
That's why if you don't want to go, you can refuse, and if you don't want to go, you can say it clearly on the spot, and there are many cases where you entertain yourself.
A so-called fair relationship where you don't have to worry about it.
Of course, I think there are people who are indebted to their friends, but basically, I think they can enjoy the place with a fair relationship.
It's a private playground.
It's impudent to say, "Women need money to go on dates, so men should take care of everything."
From my point of view, as the same woman, it's an impossible statement, and I feel like I was brought up too badly.
In the first place, you show up on the spot wearing nice clothes, nice makeup, and nice underwear.
Isn't that all self-satisfaction?That's what I think.
Certainly, there are many men in the world who would be happy with that.
However, do most men really judge women based solely on that?If so, isn't that what daddy life is all about?I think (If I may add, I wonder if it's between a man and a woman who have no substance.)
If, within the framework of Papa-katsu, they want men to pay for their dates, then I agree. (Because it's work)
But he's a private boyfriend, right?It's ridiculous.
On the other hand, I wonder if the woman who makes such brazen remarks in videos etc. is doing her father's activities behind the scenes and can't draw a line between her private life and work.she felt.
To put it bluntly, I laughed a little at the line that a Minato-ku girl who is eating at Papa Katsu would say.
Men also feel that way, and if a girlfriend you're dating shows up on a date, I think it's going to be really depressed.
Of course, men who do not warn that it is strange are also bad. (Perhaps he is in a position to say no.)
From the men's point of view, that's what makes them angry.
In fact, SNS is quite rough with their remarks.
It's not just men, women are also making a lot of comments such as "What are you talking about?"
Perhaps in a hurry, the popular female YouTuber who started out has deleted the article.
He even released an apology video, but as far as I could see, there was no sign of remorse at all, and I still got the feeling that my remarks were not wrong.
It's lame as the same woman.
Don't you know that men are expensive?
For example, some men drive their cars and others go to the hair salon.
Wearing nice clothes is exactly the same as women.
Certainly, makeup may be a genre that men don't have.
But honestly, I don't think men want branded cosmetics. (This is my personal theory, and my impression of seeing men up until now.)
So, the part that says so is completely female self-satisfaction.
It's different to put all that on the date bill and put the responsibility on the man.
To be honest, a woman with this kind of personality is not popular in dad activities.
Even if you have such an impudent personality, you must never show it.
When a man sees that side of you, you should be prepared.
With that daddy, it will never last long, and it will end with being amazed.
I've seen a lot of girls like that, and in fact, my dad said, "It's troublesome to see such women sometimes."
Certainly, it hurts even from the same woman.
In my opinion, he must be an unappreciative person.
If I do this, my partner will definitely be happy.
So it's all about the opponent.
I wonder if I'm putting my mind on it.
But when people of the same sex see it, most of the stories end with ``It's all my own money''.
Well, as mentioned above, let's say that all the men paid for the dates, favoring the women.
What if this is what men are spending more by the time they go on dates?
If you go by this stupid and brazen woman theory, it will be the flow that women put out everything.
not strange?Am I the only one who feels that way?
If that's the case, I don't think I'll be able to go out to eat with people who earn more than me. (Ordinary women would go bankrupt.)
Basically, it's private and it's okay to split the bill?I think, if you don't like it, why don't you put out each other in order on that day, or if someone else puts out?That's what I think ~.
What is the purpose of a private date?Aren't you supposed to have fun?If either of you creates a situation where you can't enjoy it, that's your job.
I want to say to all the men of the world.
It's not just women like that.
On the other hand, women who think like that are unsold, and if a good adult says such things, people of the same sex will think of them as "painful women," so I want to tell them, "Don't worry."
I am active as a papa, but I would like to say to all the men in the world who have a distrust of women that even papa katsu girls think it is strange.
Also, I would like to tell you that even if you are a daddy active woman, you give your daddy a present every year on his birthday to some extent in return.
I'll add, "Surprisingly, all Papa-katsu-joshi are decent."
