2023/2/9
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Matching app for dad activities? OR dating club?

Recently, I was told on TV that more and more people are using “matching apps” to meet people in the world.

Certainly, I also feel that matching apps are standardized in the general public as the media says.

On the other hand, I haven't heard many people who say they have never used a matching app or don't know about it, especially those in our age and early twenties.

Let me tell you, what's the difference between dating apps and dating?I have doubts.

If you ask around, the matching app is marriage and love.

Dating sites seem to be mainly for affairs and fun (one night).

I can use both depending on how I use them, so is it just a difference in name?I'm just thinking.

That said, I was also interested in matching apps.

 

If you can do love activities and marriage activities, you can also do dad activities?I thought and tried to use it.

The main reason I used the matching app this time is because I thought it would be a chance to try out the dating club and the matching app.

I'm sure even among women, this part will never bother you?Which one is better for women?Which one is the best daddy for women?Such.

Immediately start dad activities with the matching app.

The first thing I thought was the young age group.

I personally like uncles, so I felt a little too young.

So, I felt that the matching app was not suitable for uncle lovers at this point.

Then, search for men's profiles from Tokyo and look for various men.

Uh-huh.

Honestly, it's pretty subtle.

First of all, my search condition is the annual income of the other party.

Anyway, there are almost no more than XNUMX million people.

Therefore, we lowered the hurdle and lowered it to XNUMX million.

For the time being, men are hits, but it's pretty subtle, and what surprised me the most was the content of their profile.

The cost of the first date was written as split bill.

Well, surely, if you think that love and marriage are the main things in the matching app, is that the case?It may seem like that, but it's out of the question when you think of it as a dad.

In the first place, I personally think that if your partner's annual income is less than XNUMX million, you won't be able to live comfortably as a dad.

The reason is that it puts too much burden on the partner's man, and there is no room to spare?Because I think

Please excuse me if I am a little off. (This is just a story based on my experience as a dad)

That's why it's easier for me to be a dad if I'm as old as possible and "a person who has a lot of leeway in life."

At this point, I'm already unmotivated by the matching app.

For the time being, I tried matching with several people.

First of all, the purpose of the other party is to find a real girlfriend or a marriage partner, so the conversation does not mesh with me at all.

However, about two people are single, but there were people who said that it was OK for the other woman to live as a dad.

In fact, when I exchanged lines and talked on the phone, I had only doubts.

First of all, he asks me about my private life.

To be honest, if it's a man who introduced me at a dating club, there's no man who would step into someone's private life with shoes like this, and I've never met him.

The annual income of the person who cares about it.

At the dating club, there is almost no man who introduces me with an annual income of XNUMX million or less.

Most of the uncles I've met so far are at least XNUMX million class, have a decent job, or have a decent family background.

For example, being raised in a family of doctors or politicians.

However, the only people in the matching app are the managers of companies I have never heard of.

In particular, there are many IT-related presidents.

This is my theory, but IT-related presidents cannot be trusted.

I know the reason is that they are a little rich, but they tend to go bankrupt easily, and I haven't seen many IT presidents who have a good life for a long time.

For that reason, even if I signed a contract with Papa-katsu, there were many cases where the company declined during the contract period, and I gradually became stingy and said bye-bye.

That's why I don't trust the basic IT president.

If you are dating a young and slightly rich company president who you don't know well, or if you are satisfied with a little support in dad activities, a matching app may be fine.

However, I thought that the matching app would not be a good story if you were going to make a lot of money with dad activities.

Besides, the men I matched with on the matching app are just unclassy.

This is a level that you can understand even if you are talking on the phone.

Possibly, there may be rare characters and wonderful uncles among them, or there may be uncles who have a great understanding of dad activities.

But the way I saw it, it didn't look like it at all.

He's younger than the men introduced at the dating club, so it's a good fit.

However, from my point of view, glue is secondary.

When I was talking on the phone with a man I met on a matching app, I felt like I was wasting my time, and on top of that, I was given a sermon in vain. (In my profile, I didn't write that I was a dad, but I did say that I was financially wealthy and could take care of me.)

To be honest, I quit the matching app in about two weeks.

In other words, the ID has been deleted.

Someone must have reported it. (Besides, I was going to quit, so it doesn't matter.)

So, in the end, I found out that the dating club is completely suitable for dad life.

In the first place, you don't have to worry about dating clubs, but you have to worry about matching apps.

Before the advantages and disadvantages, there was no comparison.

That much, there was a difference in dad activities, and it was clear that "the level of men who are registered in the dating club" is "almost not on the matching app", including the annual income and family background of men. rice field.

There may be a part that says that the purpose is different, but even if you subtract that, I thought that the men who are registered in the dating club are at a higher level.

After all, let's say that the man you met on a matching app has everything perfect, such as annual income.

However, we don't investigate the male side like we do in dating clubs, so you don't know the real part, do you?There is also security for women.

In particular, women who are active as dads are easy to be targeted, including sexual aspects, so wouldn't it be safer to have a place that thoroughly investigates the other party?I feel safe.

Summary

In the end, it turned out that it would be better to start by having a nice man introduced to you at a dating club rather than doing it easily with a matching app.

Also, if you are going to use a matching app as a dad, please be very careful. (I only do dad activities at dating clubs.)

Writers: 
The shock when I first learned about the dating club was amazing.Since then, I've been hooked.We will continue to transmit reality from a female perspective.

Articles by Kumiko Mine

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