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Papa life is a bad thing! ?

When I check columns and SNS related to dad life, I see "Why are you living as a dad anyway?""Papa active woman!""Takari!negative words such as

Is being a dad actually a bad thing?

Do I have to feel guilty about being a dad?
 

How the world sees dad activities


As I wrote at the beginning, the public's eyes on dad activities are quite strict.

"having fun and getting paid""It's impossible to live as a dad"Such….

I feel that people who have such an opinion are unrelated to dad life, and they are swallowing one-sided information.

For that reason, I often get bashed when I openly say that I am a dad.

As a result, the girl who is working hard as a dad feels like a small person.


recently "Papa Active Women's Punishment Corps"It seems that there are men who harass daddy girls.

It's a terrible story, and I also think, "What will be gained by doing such a thing, and who will benefit?"


In fact, I myself did not openly say that I was doing dad activities.

I guess I was hiding the fact that I was a natural and dad active girl.

As someone who has had various experiences,Daddy life is not just easy!It can be surprisingly difficult!I want to say it out loud.
 

Daddy life = evil?


Papa-katsu, which tends to be biased, is actually a bad thing?

As a dad active girl, I don't think it's a bad thing.

In my mind, there are certain conditions for “nice dad life”,


・I am satisfied with the conditions such as allowances

・I feel that I am having a good time

・ I want to support, I want to be cheered, but it is matching


I believe that both meet the above requirements.

If there is something that is not fulfilled somewhere, the dad activity will not last long.

People around me may criticize Papa-katsu, but I think I'll be happy if both parties agree.


In any industry, there is something called "spending money to support the endorser".

I think that papa life is also included in it.

If the father agrees to pay the allowance, the surrounding voices are just noise and there is nothing to worry about.

If you are convinced and feel that the time you spend with your dad is meaningful, I would like you to take pride in your dad activities.
 

It is important that both parties feel that they are having fun


The public has a strong negative image of being a dad, but if you want to do your best, I want you to do your best without worrying about the opinions of those around you.

And try to please your daddy with your own hospitality, and try to create a fun time for each other.


The experience that can be obtained in papa katsu is more than I imagined.

It will surely be an opportunity for you to grow yourself.

It's up to you whether you can make it a "papa activity that you are glad you experienced" and "a papa activity that you can be proud of"!

If you're even a little bit interested, give it a try.
 

Writers: 
Former college hostess, current columnist. She started working as a dad with the motto of "enlivening daddy with conversation and atmosphere".I will tell you about the things about dad life!

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