Being a dad isn't always good

A friend of mine recently told me something.

"Does ○○-chan always work as a father? Do you have any days off?"

To be honest, I think being a father is almost like a freelance job.

For that reason, if you want to rest all the time, you can rest, and if you want to earn money every day, that's the way to work as a father.

Now, I'm living a life full of dad activities, but when asked, "Do you always do dad activities?", the answer is, of course, "no."

Being a father is a job that starts with relationships between people.

And I'm a person.

Therefore, I want to be fully prepared in terms of service for the men I have a contract with.

So, of course, if I find it even a little difficult to manage my own mental health, I try to take the entire day or week off.

It seems that some women force themselves to become fathers because they want money, but I'm against it.

In the first place, being a dad is not a job that ends when you receive money from a man.

If you are going to receive a certain amount of allowance, you will not be able to become a father if you do not provide something commensurate with that amount to the other man.

I think that women who are not able to do this are probably not making money as dads.

The reason for this is that there is a high possibility that her father will get tired of her soon and cancel her contract.

I'm sure that dad-hunting girls who have solid long-term contracts naturally think that they are providing a certain level of service to men. (I'm also one of those people who makes the same effort when it comes to being a dad.)

Besides, I don't think being a dad is an easy job. (In fact, women who are actually working as dads should understand this.)

That's why I try to appear in front of men in a state where I can properly provide daddy services.

Of course, if I think, ``I won't be able to provide a solid service this week,'' or ``I might cause trouble for my father,'' it's not a good idea to cancel at the last minute, but I'd like to let the man know as soon as possible. I try to take a break.

So, under what circumstances do I take a break from being a dad? I would like to introduce it here.

When there is misfortune around me

As long as everyone is alive, misfortune will always occur, such as when someone dies.

When I say that, I always try to take the action that is most important to me as a person at that time.

This is a very important thing in life as a father.

I have the impression that many men who have become fathers think in an old-fashioned way.

That's not to say it's bad.

I wonder if it would be better to say that we value traditional common sense.

For this reason, there are surprisingly many men who look down on women who continue to work as fathers even though someone else has passed away.

In the past, the dad I had a contract with had a contract with another woman, and he told me about that time.

It seems that the father continued to work as a father as usual, even though the bereaved family of the woman who had a separate contract with him had passed away.

Dad used to tell me that he was offended by saying things like, ``Despite such misfortune, you're still here, aren't you?''

According to my dad, there was no point in signing a contract with a woman who couldn't do such important things, and more than anything, he felt like he wasn't being valued either.

Certainly, I would feel the same way if I were in his father's position, and I sympathized with him saying, ``You shouldn't lose what's important to you as a person just because you want to make money.''

Dad life is all about the relationship with your dad.

If a ``relationship of trust'' is not created in such a human relationship, it will feel lonely, and the father will feel that there is no point in having a contract with a woman, or on the contrary, he will feel tired.

After all, there are many parts of daddy life where men pay attention to women, right? There's no benefit to signing a contract with a woman with whom you can't build a relationship of trust.

That's why I always try to take a break from being a dad when something unfortunate happens around me, and as a person, I try hard not to lose what's important to me.

Of course, if I have to cancel, I make an effort to notify my father in advance, and even in the case of an emergency, I try not to hide anything from him.

In my case, I'm lucky that I've said this several times in the past and every dad has been understanding.

And if I make a sudden cancellation like this, I try to make up for it to the extent that I can the next time we meet. (This is also important in dad life, so don't forget it.)

When you are unwell

This is something that you should definitely keep in mind when working as a dad.

Once in a while, I see a woman who is working as a father even though she has a cold.

Even if you are fine with this, it will cause trouble for your father, so it is best to avoid it.

The age range of men who become fathers is older.

Therefore, for young children, it may be just a common cold, but for men, it may turn into something that cannot be easily cured, such as pneumonia.

Of course, depending on the woman who is trying to become a father, it may become a matter of life and death because she has a contract with only one man, and there may be cases where her impatience gets ahead of her.

Therefore, she appears in front of her father with a ``easy feeling,'' saying, ``I'm just a little unwell, so I'm fine.''

I hear about this type of woman quite a lot in dad-hunting, and a female friend of mine who also does dad-hunting has done similar things in the past.

I said to my friend, ``Aren't you too selfish? If the other man develops a different disease, how can you take responsibility? And if he's your father, you're even more indebted to him, right? You should think about what you should do.'' I had to be very careful about what I said.

Certainly, it will be a decision for each woman who wants to be a father.

However, my feeling is that I don't want such a child to become a father.

I think that ``consideration for fathers'' is ``one of the important services'' offered by Daddy Katsu.

If there is a woman who is acting like a dad even though she is not feeling well because she wants an allowance for the day, I would like you to reconsider. (honest thoughts)