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In order not to get bogged down in dad life

Nice to meet you, I'm Bell♪(*´▽`*)

Before we get into the main topic, please allow me to introduce myself a little.

It's been 3 years and XNUMX months since I started working as a father.

I've never been married, I've broken off engagements, I don't have a boyfriend, but I do have someone I like. I'm around XNUMX.

To be more precise, I turned 37 this year (°▽°)

I've met a lot of people through Papakatsu.There are about XNUMX people in total.

We've covered dating clubs, dad-hunting apps, and drinking money.

I would like to share my experiences and impressions in it and help you even a little.

I will write about what I feel and think about being a dad.

 

Before I started working as a dad, I worked at night as a hostess in Ginza for about seven years in total.

I worked as a hostess in Ginza from the age of 23 to 28 (there was a time when I wasn't in Japan for about two years as a backpacker or on a working holiday).

And I have been working as a father since I was around 34 years old until I am currently 37 years old (*´▽`*)

The reason I started working as a father was that my mental health suffered and I fell ill.

I started having panic attacks on crowded trains in the morning and couldn't go to work, so I started doing this to earn a living (´-`)

I'm sure there are many reasons why people become fathers, such as people like me who do it for a living, to earn money for school fees, to pay off debts, to pay for a relative's medical treatment, etc.

I got the impression that there were many people who said that they would be in trouble if they didn't have money right now in order to survive.

 

I'm currently living overseas, so I meet my dad and friends when I return to Japan.

The frequency is about once every 3 to 6 months, so I'm not really active as a dad right now, but I've come into contact with a lot of men due to my job, so

I would like to write with that in mind (*'▽'*)

 

My dream was to live abroad.

In fact, the reason I was able to live my dream overseas was because a gentleman I met through Dad-Katsu gave me a job that I could complete online.

Thanks to that, I can now work from anywhere in the world (o^^o)

It's thanks to Dad-katsu that I was able to live the life of my dreams! ! (*^^)v

Dad's activities are various ♪

 

Well, today's theme is ``How to avoid becoming a father in your life''.

If you are reading this article and are planning to start working as a father, please set a goal before you start o(^o^)o

I feel like my life as a father is sparkling, but there are times when it's mentally tough (>_<)

Being told unkind things or being asked to look at your feet (TT)

Many women who are trying to become fathers become ill.

Still, financial circumstances vary from person to person, and some people cannot escape from being a father even if they become ill even if they want to.

But if you're in a situation where you can't escape even if you want to,
For example, if you can repay half of your debt,
If you need to earn money to pay for your studies, set a goal and start until you start job hunting! !

If you are currently working as a father, it is not too late, so please set goals (*´∀`)♪

By setting goals, you will no longer be dependent on being a dad.

If you have a goal, you may be able to work hard even if you only have a few days left.

Being a dad for a long time without a goal
I feel paralyzed, thinking, ``This is the only way to live.''

The reason you get stuck is because you don't know how or when to get out.

If you clear that from the beginning before you start, you won't have to go through all the trouble.

When you are a dad, you have to pay more than just transportation expenses.
Have them buy what they want
I received more than the promised transportation fee.
There are many times when you can enjoy a sweeter experience than working in a regular job, so it's easy to feel bad about quitting.
As a result, many people end up slacking off.

If you do it for a long time, there are risks.
Your colleagues or boss at work might notice you and it becomes difficult to do your day job, your friends might notice you and your hometown becomes a nuisance, or your boyfriend or husband finds out and gets divorced.
I've heard many stories of people saying that.

The thing I tend to do the most is to slip up.
Those who do it for a living.

Actually, this was me.
My health deteriorated and I was unable to work outside the home, so I was able to get a job from home, but I didn't have enough living expenses, so I had to work as a dad on a makeshift basis to make up for it.

I thought I could kill two birds with one stone if they treated me to a meal, which would save me money on food.

Just for living expenses, unless you change your basic source of income.
I will have to continue being a dad.

I also increased my side jobs.
It's quite difficult when you're working and being a dad m(__)m

Even if you move to a place with lower rent, you will need to pay a lot of money in moving expenses.

Other than eating meals with my dad, I survived on bean sprouts, tofu, and natto at home. lol

 

Many women have started working as fathers due to the lack of work due to the coronavirus pandemic, but if there are any who are able to make a living doing so.

If there are many people saved

I don't think being a dad is something to be praised for, but I'm glad that I did.

Even if things are tough right now, please set a goal and get through it (*'▽'*)

 

I hope you all find a wonderful father (^_-)-☆

Writers: 
2nd year as a dad, late 30s. In my twenties, I was No. 20 hostess in Ginza. At the age of 1, he left Ginza and had a lot of things to do, such as breaking off his engagement, and since then he has been working as a dad only for rice.

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