2023/12/1
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Demand for fathers is up to their 20s! ?

Nice to meet you, I'm Bell♪(*´▽`*)

It's been XNUMX years and XNUMX months since I started working as a father.

I've never been married, I've broken off engagements, I don't have a boyfriend, but I do have someone I like. I'm around XNUMX.

To be more precise, I turned 37 this year (°▽°)

I've met a lot of people through Papakatsu.There are about XNUMX people in total.

We've covered dating clubs, dad-hunting apps, and drinking money.

I would like to share my experiences and impressions in it and help you even a little.

I will write about what I feel and think about being a dad.

 

Before I started working as a dad, I worked at night as a hostess in Ginza for about seven years in total.

I worked as a hostess in Ginza from the age of 23 to 28 (there was a time when I wasn't in Japan for about two years as a backpacker or on a working holiday).

And I have been working as a father since I was around 34 years old until I am currently 37 years old (*´▽`*)

The reason I started working as a father was that my mental health suffered and I fell ill.

I started having panic attacks on crowded trains in the morning and couldn't go to work, so I started doing this to earn a living (´-`)

I'm sure there are many reasons why people become fathers, such as people like me who do it for a living, to earn money for school fees, to pay off debts, to pay for a relative's medical treatment, etc.

I got the impression that there were many people who said that they would be in trouble if they didn't have money right now in order to survive.

 

I'm currently living overseas, so I meet my dad and friends when I return to Japan.

The frequency is about once every 3 to 6 months, so I'm not really active as a dad right now, but I've come into contact with a lot of men due to my job, so

I would like to write with that in mind (*'▽'*)

 

My dream was to live abroad.

In fact, the reason I was able to live my dream overseas was because a gentleman I met through Dad-Katsu gave me a job that I could complete online.

Thanks to that, I can now work from anywhere in the world (o^^o)

It's thanks to Dad-katsu that I was able to live the life of my dreams! ! (*^^)v

Dad's activities are various ♪

 

Well, today's theme is ``Are there only young women in demand for daddy activities?''

``Men like young girls.''I hear this a lot, and I don't think it's generally wrong.

Of course not all men, but the older they get, the more men prefer younger men (age difference).

This can't be helped because men have an animal instinct to pass on their genes rather than just liking young children.

 

I often hear people say, ``I prefer people in their 20s when it comes to appearance.''

What most men say "People in their 20s don't get along."

When I asked some men who actually had dinner with women in their 20s, they said,

I often hear people say, ``First of all, we don't have the right topic. I have to be more careful when talking, which makes me tired.''

I also often hear that ``women in their 30s and 40s can make an effort to fit in.''

These are words that I often heard from customers not only when I was working as a father, but also when I was working as a hostess.

``People in their 30s and 40s have a certain amount of experience, so they can read the conversation and the scene without having to explain everything, which makes the conversation lively.''

There are surprisingly many men who think that (/・ω・)/

People tend to think that only young women are in demand for daddy activities, but that's not true! !

In fact, being in your 30s and 40s is a surprisingly blue ocean♪

 

Of course, there are some men who think that being a father is something that young women do.

I've had some heartless people say to me, "Why don't you start looking for marriage instead of looking for a daddy?"

I'm sure there will be times when you'll be told unloving and harsh things, and you'll feel bad about yourself, but on the other hand, you'll meet people who really love you.

No matter where you are in the world, there are times when you have some bad feelings about human relationships (/_;)

However, the good thing about being a dad is that it's not about work."You can choose your partner"By the way(*^^)v

When someone asks me, “Why don’t you start looking for a marriage instead of looking for a daddy?”

``The fact that all women who are working as fathers are thought to be single is a flower garden in my head,'' he said, and refused.

You don't have to meet people you don't want to meet, and you only have to meet people you feel comfortable meeting.

I rarely have any bad feelings.

Well, there are some people who take the mount or say something from above.

Once you get used to it, you'll start to understand it by exchanging messages before you meet.

Not all dads are troublesome and difficult.

Some people truly love ♡

I don't think so because I have worked as a hostess and am used to men, but surprisingly, I have never worked in a fishing business.

I have the impression that even women who work in regular jobs are doing well as fathers (*^.^*)

I was able to eat delicious food and receive transportation expenses, so I felt like I was killing two birds with one stone♡.

I'm a daddy for living expenses, but if daddy life becomes stressful, I'm missing the point...

If you are having fun, your dad in front of you will also be having fun♪

First of all, please try it without worrying about the motivation that you can enjoy ♡

 

I pray that you all meet wonderful fathers (^_−)−☆

Writers: 
2nd year as a dad, late 30s. In my twenties, I was No. 20 hostess in Ginza. At the age of 1, he left Ginza and had a lot of things to do, such as breaking off his engagement, and since then he has been working as a dad only for rice.

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