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Pitfalls of being a dad

Nice to meet you, I'm Bell♪(*´▽`*)

It's been XNUMX years and XNUMX months since I started working as a father.

I've never been married, I've broken off engagements, I don't have a boyfriend, but I do have someone I like. I'm around XNUMX.

To be more precise, I turned 37 this year (°▽°)

I've met a lot of people through Papakatsu.A total of about XNUMX people.

Dating club, Daddy activity app, I've come all the way.

I would like to share my experiences and impressions in it and help you even a little.

I will write about what I feel and think about being a dad.


Before I started working as a dad, I worked as a hostess in Ginza for about XNUMX years.

Worked as a hostess in Ginza from 23 to 28 years old

I have been working as a dad since I was 34 years old.

The reason why I started working as a father was when I became mentally ill and started having panic attacks on crowded trains in the morning, and I couldn't go to work anymore, so I started doing it to earn a living (´-` )

I'm sure there are many reasons for people who are working as dads, and there are many people like me who are desperate to survive, to earn money for school fees, to pay off debt, and say they don't need money right now. That was an impression.


I'm currently living overseas, so I meet up with my dad and friends when I return home.

We meet once every 3 to 6 months when I return to Japan (*'▽'*)


In fact, I was able to live my dream overseas because a gentleman I met through Dad-Katsu gave me a job that could be completed online.

Thanks to that, I have been able to work anywhere in the world (o^^o) There are many different ways to work as a father♪


There were many hardships before I was able to live the life of my dreams.

I never thought of getting a job as a dad, but I decided to do what I wanted to do.

I kept telling everyone I met, and miraculously we were able to connect.Truly a miracle.


Some people even looked at my feet.

In exchange for being my father, there was a man who hired me as an employee of his company and gave me a job even though I was overseas.

If you have a relationship with your dad in Japan, that relationship will work.

In fact, I thought that the relationship would end in an instant if I went overseas and couldn't see him anymore.

Even if you receive transportation expenses when you are in Japan, what if you are overseas and have no relationship at all?

I felt like I was going to get cut soon.

I've also met many people who try to make excuses on the spot.

I think these dads have no bad intentions and really think that at the time.

However, as a result, you will not be able to taste the flavor and will dislike it.

I've told them everything from the beginning, and I think they understand the situation.

It's really troubling when someone doesn't keep their promise just because they feel like it.

In fact, there were many gentlemen like that.


It's better to be suspicious of a good story.


I once had a father who said he would make me an employee of his company (´∀`)

If you could pay for my travel to and from Japan, and if I could work online so I could work overseas.

Properly say, ``I'll pay you a salary.''

However, the story keeps changing.

Help me with sales, entertain me, etc.

Trying to get them to do all the work they can't do overseas.

It became a story that was convenient for my dad so that I wouldn't be able to leave his side.

"Wait a minute. You said you would be able to do work overseas, but from what I've heard, aren't all the jobs that can only be done in Japan? You can't work overseas like this."

I told her properly ( *`ω´)

I tried to wrap things up, but after I realized it was impossible, my contact with you decreased and I was put on hold (゚д゚)

After being put on hold, it disappeared naturally_φ(・_・

It's not unusual for someone to get a job from their dad.

When I listen to stories from many gentlemen, I often hear that they were hired for office work.

However, most of them are not employees of the company but are commissioned, so it depends on the father's mood.

It will be cut off immediately.

If you have to be in a good mood to avoid getting fired, I think it would be safer and more comfortable to work for a proper company with an employment contract.

If there are no jobs available,

If you're going to do the work your dad gave you,

Either have them become employees of the company, or have them draw up a contract and sign a contract with them.

Even if someone asks, ``Don't you trust me?'', be firm and say, ``We need a contract for both of us.''

It's normal to have a contract.

Be careful not to lose sight of your feet ( ˘ω˘ )


Even if you don't think at first to ``deceive someone'' or ``use them as you see fit,'' it often ends up that way.

Therefore, women often believe that this person is okay.

No matter how good a person seems or how trustworthy you think they are,

You have to have doubts somewhere.

Without thinking, "If I say this, people might be attracted to me."

Let's protect ourselves properly.


I pray that you all meet wonderful fathers (^_−)−☆

2nd year as a dad, late 30s. In my twenties, I was No. 20 hostess in Ginza. At the age of 1, he left Ginza and had a lot of things to do, such as breaking off his engagement, and since then he has been working as a dad only for rice.

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