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Is it okay to live as a dad in Arafo?It's windy, but I won't lose!

Nice to meet you, I'm Bell♪(*´▽`*)

It's been XNUMX years and XNUMX months since I started working as a dad.

I've met a lot of people until now.A total of about XNUMX people.

Dating club, Daddy activity app, I've come all the way.

I would like to share my experiences and impressions in it and help you even a little.

Before I started working as a dad, I worked as a hostess in Ginza for about XNUMX years.

I have been working as a hostess and a dad for about XNUMX years.

I will write what I feel and think in it(*^^)v


As the title says, I'm Arafo.

I'm 37 years old this year (°▽°)

Worked as a hostess in Ginza from 21 to 28 years old

I have been working as a dad since I was 34 years old.

The reason I started working as a dad was because my mental health was damaged and I started having panic attacks.

I couldn't get on the crowded train in the morning and couldn't go to work, so I started doing it to earn living expenses (´-`)


At this age, I'm always asked if I'm doing daddy activities

"Why are you not married?"


No, it's possible because there is a partner!

Just because I want to do it doesn't mean I can do it

Even if you ask me why I don't eat this, I'm in trouble (*´Д`*)

"On the contrary, why is marriage taken for granted?"

m(_ _)m


That much is still good

I was once told with a straight face, "Isn't it better to get married than to be a daddy?"\٩(๑`^´๑)۶//


You really care! !First of all, I shouldn't be in a position to say anything about my life! !

What's more, I wonder why they're arguing on the premise that "marriage is absolute".

Some people don't want to. Some people are better than others.

I'm surprised that you can say something like that even though you don't know anything about me (・Д・)


I thought that the lack of delicacy was probably disgusting to the wife (T_T)


If I was in my 20s, I wouldn't have been told that, but I'm close to 40 and I'm working as a dad.

There are many opportunities to say such harsh and unreasonable things.

From the gentleman's point of view, dad life is probably an image that people in their 20s do.

It's different from when I was in my 20s, so I'm also working with a certain degree of preparedness.

Thinking that you're testing your ability, even if you say unreasonable things, let's show off your ability to be around the corner! !and challenge positively!

Then, unexpectedly, people with the worst first impression often become dads (*^▽^*)

If you do your best as a dad, you may find success in unexpected places.

There are a lot of people who say that 20's is better than 30's because they don't get along (*´꒳`*)

It's not all bad.


I don't think age is just a number.

Sometimes I can't remember my age ( ̄▽ ̄)ww

Whether age is proportional to experience and knowledge, whether you look young depends on the way you live.

If you have more experience than your age, you look attractive, and if you look young and lively than your age, that's also attractive (=´∀`)

Attractiveness is not determined by age.

I think it's a way of life.

I think that everything you have lived through becomes your own personality, atmosphere, and aura, and is transmitted to the other person.

I don't want to impose my own theory on anyone because it's my own opinion, but I believe it because I want it to be so ( ^ω^ )


Sometimes I get hurt when people say mean things to me, but it's not all bad.

I try to see the good parts as much as possible and bring potential there, and ignore the words of people who say that they are hurt!

Even if I get hurt or angry at the moment you say it

``This person will not be involved in my life from now on, so there's no need to listen! There's no need to get angry!''

Be strong and believe that someone you meet today who doesn't know me has no right to hurt me!

I think that some of you reading this have been hurt by heartless words in the same way.

Please don't take such words for granted! !

There are people who are doing dad life in various circumstances.

Even if you are married, there may be students who are paying their own tuition fees to pay for their husband's surgery and living expenses, or who have various circumstances in order to pay off their debts.

No one has the right to be hurtful or arrogant without trying to understand the circumstances!

It may be difficult to ignore, but the words of such a person have no weight or meaning!

I think some people want to retort (especially me ww) when I think about myself later

If you say it back, you will get a bad reputation here, so please ignore it!This is really the best.

Some people just want to vent by saying slanderous things.If you say it back, you will be more heated up thinking that you will be the other party.

It's a waste of time and emotions because you can't get through to such people ( ; ; )

Let's spend that time looking for a nice daddy ♡


I pray that everyone will also be able to meet a wonderful dad (^_−)−☆

2nd year as a dad, late 30s. In my twenties, I was No. 20 hostess in Ginza. At the age of 1, he left Ginza and had a lot of things to do, such as breaking off his engagement, and since then he has been working as a dad only for rice.

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