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How to use the money you earn from being a dad

Nice to meet you, I'm Bell♪(*´▽`*)

It's been 6 years and XNUMX months since I started working as a father.

I've never been married, I've broken off engagements, I don't have a boyfriend, but I do have someone I like. I'm around XNUMX.

I'm 38 years old this year (°▽°)

I've met a lot of people through Papakatsu.There are about XNUMX people in total.

We've covered dating clubs, dad-hunting apps, and drinking money.

I would like to share my experiences and impressions in it and help you even a little.

I will write about what I feel and think about being a dad.


Before I started working as a dad, I worked at night as a hostess in Ginza for about seven years in total.

I worked as a hostess in Ginza from the age of 23 to 28 (there was a time when I wasn't in Japan for about two years as a backpacker or on a working holiday).

And I have been working as a father since I was around 34 years old until I am currently 37 years old (*´▽`*)

The reason I started working as a father was that my mental health suffered and I fell ill.

I started having panic attacks on crowded trains in the morning and couldn't go to work, so I started doing this to earn a living (´-`)

I'm sure there are many reasons why people become fathers, such as people like me who do it for a living, to earn money for school fees, to pay off debts, to pay for a relative's medical treatment, etc.

I got the impression that there were many people who said that they would be in trouble if they didn't have money right now in order to survive.


I'm currently living overseas, so I meet my dad and friends when I return to Japan.

The frequency is about once every 3 to 6 months, so I'm not really active as a dad right now, but I've come into contact with a lot of men due to my job, so

I would like to write with that in mind (*'▽'*)


My dream was to live abroad.

In fact, the reason I was able to live my dream overseas was because a gentleman I met through Dad-Katsu gave me a job that I could complete online.

Thanks to that, I can now work from anywhere in the world (o^^o)

It's thanks to Dad-katsu that I was able to live the life of my dreams! ! (*^^)v

Dad's activities are various ♪


Well, today's theme is ``How to use the money earned through daddy activities''.

I started working as a dad to earn living expenses, but I wouldn't say that I was actively working as a dad.

I was able to save money because I was doing it little by little (*^^)v

My main job is to work from home for 10 yen.

The main reason was that I didn't have much money to spend because I didn't have much material desire, but at that time I was desperately trying to earn a living.

Dad life that I don't know if I can do it all the time.

Even if I have an income this month, I don't know if I will have a stable monthly income next month.

Every month, I went back and forth with these thoughts, and before I knew it, a year and a half had passed since I started working as a father.

This is bad! ! No matter how much time passes, I keep worrying about money every month, so I meet with my dad every month and try to be a dad, and no matter how much time passes, I can't escape from this loop...

I thought.

Some people say that if they meet with their father every month and receive support from him, they feel more affection for him.

I wasn't that type at all.

My feeling is that there are more women who are open-minded.


The reason why I was spending so much time as a father was because the only relationship I had with him was food.

Of course, we agreed from the beginning that we would only meet for food.

There were many times when my dad changed his mind and asked for a physical relationship.

INo matter how expensive your allowance is, you will only have sex with someone you want to have sex with.I have decided this since my days as a hostess! !

So if Dad changes his mind, it ends there. I remember that it was difficult for my father to maintain stability, and he was never stable.

In fact, sexual relations are essential to earn enough money to live a stable life each month.

You don't have to do it in detail like I do, and you can earn a lot of money.


What do you all use that money for?


Instead of spending it on luxuries

Some people may be using it for tuition fees, debt, and living expenses.

If you have a set period of time, if you're like me, you'll find yourself doing it for a year and a half...

I don't think this will happen, but if you don't have a fixed period due to living expenses or the privilege of being young,

Before you know it, you're at an age where it's difficult to get a job again...The conditions are too bad for you to return to society...

There are times when.

I had a friend who wanted to suck the sweet honey all the time and couldn't get out of the daddy life.

So that it doesn't happen

While you still have the money you can earn from being a dad, use that money to acquire some skills!

Start using the skills you have acquired, even as a side job, and create a source of income other than being a dad.

Trying something new is never easy and requires effort and perseverance.

I used the money I earned from being a dad to study video editing, and am currently studying tarot.

I'm thinking of doing tarot readings on YouTube when I can do it smoothly.

I think it will take some time to make money, but I'm excited! (^^)!

I think this excitement is the joy of being alive! !


I hope you all meet wonderful fathers (^_−)−☆

2nd year as a dad, late 30s. In my twenties, I was No. 20 hostess in Ginza. At the age of 1, he left Ginza and had a lot of things to do, such as breaking off his engagement, and since then he has been working as a dad only for rice.

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